Friday, January 8, 2010

Starting a relationship advice?

There's a guy I have feelings for (I'm 15, he's 17) and I can tell he has feelings for me. He's so much fun to be around, is social, yet he's somewhat introverted and shy when it comes to deeper feelings and meaningful discussions. His faith is amazing and I'm very faith-driven myself. We haven't been able to have any really meaningful discussions, but I can tell he's looking for someone who'd love to do that.





He doesn't know I have feelings for him. I'm not looking to just ';hook-up';, I want to develop a meaningful, strong relationship. Maybe we'll have a good relationship, maybe not, but I think it could be great.





How do I show him I care without actually telling him? (I have a feeling if I just come out and tell him then that will push him away)





Any beginning a relationship advice?





Thanks.Starting a relationship advice?
A meaningful strong relationship is important. I see kids that dont care about each other getting into relationships, and it doesnt work. A deep bond is the most important and fulfilling thing. Get to know the guy and if you have a good relationship then you could both see when the time comes to take that step. Lustful relationships have no links at all to meaningful ones, they are both different and have different purpose.Starting a relationship advice?
Take your time and don't push the communication thing or anything serious. Above all have fun and things will work themselves out.





His lack of communication is not about you, men are terrible about discussing feelings, etc., whereas women are not.





Be patient.

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