Relationship Advice? What is okay and how far can it go?

So my boyfriend and I have been very happy together. He treats me better than anyone has and we are both very happy with the relationship. However, recently I have been a bit curious as to if he is telling me the truth about everything. I don't feel that he lies about things like cheating on me or anything to do with our relationship, however, he lies about pointless random things and even where he is from For example, I have always been under the idea that he is from California. However, last night before I went to meet his mom at dinner he asked me not to bring a few things up at dinner. One of those things was California. I haven't asked him about any of this, and I am not sure whether to make it a big deal or not. I really care a lot about it, I am just worried he has a problem with lying. How should I respond to all of this?Relationship Advice? What is okay and how far can it go?
Take it as flattery. honestly


I think he's just saying stupid little things to impress you...i mean a cali-boy, whats not to like? lol


It's not a big deal, so dont make it one, but once you're sure hes lying, about this or something else, just be like ';look, i know its not true that (whatever he lied about) and you dont need to say these things, i really like you, so you dont need lies to impress me';Relationship Advice? What is okay and how far can it go?
It appears that he has been lying. If he would lie about something as simple as where he is from I can imagine what else he would say. Trust and honesty is important in a relationship. This person cant be trusted.How can he treat you better than anyone but he lies to you? Do you think people who lie only lie about the small things?I would have asked his mom about a few of the small random things he said.When he told you before hand not to say certain things to his mom that should have sent a red flag up. I dont know how far the relationship can go if he lies for no reason.
HOOK HIM UP TO A LIE DETECTOR AND QUESTION HIM!
It sounds like you are having trouble trusting him and that is not good. Think twice about him, because he will never be trustworthy
if the 2 of you really are that happy, then all you have to do is ask him, communication is a huge thing in relationships
dont worry about where he is from. So everybody tells a little lie once and a while, Just tell him '; I want you to know that we have an open relationship, and I dont want you to lie to me.'; Or something similar to that. It will last.
talk to him about it and find out what he says. if he lies about one thing who knows what else he could be lieing about.