What is your best advice for someone entering a new relationship?

I have been out of the game for 4 years and have forgotton a lot! Help!What is your best advice for someone entering a new relationship?
take it slow. insist to your bf, that you want to go at your pace---not his pace in the relationship. make sure he respects you for who you are---and not as some sex toy, that he can use and then throw away. make sure he knows that you haven't been in a relationhship for 4 yrs---if he's good, he'll respect that, and be nice. make little things for him, or go out and get things for him. i get my bf ever so often 2 or even 3 cards; i always have a letter for him---we live 2 hrs away from each other; i'll go out and buy/make him something cheap (ex: his favorite candy---reese's, or get/make a bracelet); it doesn't have to be anything expensive, just something that says: ';i can't stop thinking about you';. don't go straight in on the kiss and make out first, or the take off of the clothes. start with cuddling, tickling with the clothes on. just take it at your pace, and if you're uncomfortable, then let him know. if he respects you, he won't push or pressure you. if he does, well, i recommend that you drop him. also, if he shows you any disrespect, drop him.What is your best advice for someone entering a new relationship?
A good book to read is SECRETS ABOUT MEN EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW by BARBARA DE ANGELIS or just do a web search. Good guidelines for all relationships Report Abuse

take your time enjoy communicate laugh have fun be honest at all times rather its good r bad good luck
Take things slow and get to know each other before making any serious or long term commitments. New relationships can be fun and exciting because, well, it's new and it's easy to get caught up.
Seek friendship first, and just be yourself. If it doesn't feel right then it may not be right, don't second guess yourself. Good luck and hope all goes well for you.
Never play your partner wrong cuz you would want for them to do you wrong just love and respect him for who he is.
Locate the emergency exit nearest you.
Number 1.......Relax, and enjoy it! Number 2.....Be yourself. Number 3......If you have sex, use protection. Number 4......Don't rush into a relationship!
be cautious but have a good time
don't take it too seriously
Be honest about everything and let any man you may become involved with that honesty is a must!!!
well communicate. That is the key. Talk about every thing. onesty be honest and you will get it back. Be loving careing thougtful. Just be you. But most def communicate is the big one. with out that you don;t have a solid relationship.
take it slow, don't spend 2 much time 2gether, it might b great in the begining but it's not healthy 4 u 2 spend every moment 2gether, b sure 2 have days 2 yourself, take it day by day, goodluck
be open minded but dont take **** from n e 1
Take things slow, but enjoy yourself. Give it some time before you really commit your whole heart to it.
stay away.
If the guy gives you signs that he really doesn't want a realation ship then do NOT wast your time on the boy. If he is in to the realation ship then stick with it.
Just start out slow and it should all come back to you
They have to appeal to you physically,and you need to take your time to get to know them .If they are impatient....they probably only want a casual fling....which is ok if that is what you want.and in that case jump in and enjoy yourself when your inner self tells you so...listen to your inner self always
Just let your gaurd down and be open minded. Just remember who you are and what you want. My best advice is to jump on and go for the ride. Who knows where it might take you.