I'm having a very hard time getting over a relationship. Any advice, PLEASE?

I am having an extremely difficult time getting over a past boyfriend. We were together for about a year and a half, and spoke every day, and saw each other often. I find myself thinking about him a lot, and I just start crying at the drop of a dime. It's only been a few days, so I'm hoping it will get better, but it seems to only be getting worse.





Should I seek counseling or even consider medication? I'm just really depressed.





Or, are there other things that I could try to do to help me not be so sad? Please help: any advice would be greatly appreciated.





Thank you.I'm having a very hard time getting over a relationship. Any advice, PLEASE?
i wouldn't seek professionall help or medication. it has only been a couple days. give yourself time and things will get better. try and keep yourself occupied with work or a project to get your mind off of it and try to relax. hope things get better.I'm having a very hard time getting over a relationship. Any advice, PLEASE?
look hun thats how it feels at first in most break ups if you really cared about the person and it will seem for a week or two like your world is falling apart but youll find your way out ..just dont let it sink you --and yes i know that might sound impossible BUT theres always something to help you out..chill with your friends go out and have fun you might not ever forget him but you dont have to be so sad all the time -- lol im 15 and im saying this yea i know ';what can a 15 year old know...'; right much love --Livii--
Just call him up and tell him that you love him. I am sure that he is suffering just as much, if not more than you are. In fact, I am sure that he would take you back in a second-or should I say a heart beat. He is probably thinking about you every waking moment. I'm sure he knows how special you are and that you come around ONCE in a lifetime. He knows that what he had with you could never be duplicated. Love can sometimes-no it is ALWAYS difficult. It never comes at the right time-and with all of the happiness that it brings, it inevitably brings tears. It can make us say and do things that are difficult to comprehend, things that may even seem bizzarre. But with the passage of a little bit of time, it becomes very obvious, that what seemed strange at those moments was really just the natural expression of that most wonderful human emotion that we call LOVE. Give him a call, he is probably just waiting for you to call so he can tell you how much he loves you, how wonderful every moment he spent with you was. This guy is undoubtedly crazy about you. He surely knows that anything negative that may have happened in the past is so meaningless compared to the awesome and eternal love that he feels for you. So go ahead, call him. Solutions to some of the problems you may have had may be lurking right in from of you. Find him and then together I guarantee you will find those seemingly elusive solutions. He still loves you with all his heart, and I'm sure he (psst it's me) always will.
Well, it sounds like he broke up with you! Sounds like your lucky day, though I know you don't think so right now!!! You should never ever be with someone that does not want to be with you! Your better than that!
Not easy getting over someone in a close relationship. My advice is to take it one day at a time. You may need to have some closure with your exboyfriend if you haven't. As to past the time a way, there are many things you can do for yourself. Think of going places and doing things that you couldn't do with your ex. That helped my sister very much and she enjoyed her new found freedom. She found some time to do some soul searching and she found innerpeace. She felt that her breakup with her boyfriend was her fault but then she realized that they were not meant to be together and she accepted it. I do wish you the best and hope that you find your innerpeace. Remember that you are somebody who needs time to heal and you will and never put yourself down and please keep your chin up.
Im so sry =( im here for u if u need me
Stay busy... go out with friends, have fun... rearrange your furniture... even if you don't think you're ready to date again, try it... at least it'll keep your mind about your ex... good luck... time will heal it
you sound so much like one of my friends right now only she had some trouble with a guy right after thater that and ohh wellm lets just say she's a mess. If you want my opinion i saw you get back in the game, girls often say that the guys they are with are jerks and they cant seem to find a good guy, half the time their telling this to one of their guy friends who would love to have a chance with them try it with one of them if they are a good friend they would have left some signs that they liked you and if that happened then go for them, i say this cuz thats what i wish my friend would do but i still think its the best way to go, you just gotta stay strong keep in there and have fun.
My daughter went with her first boyfriend about the same length of time. She saw him every day and talked to him on the phone all of the time. When he broke up with here our whole family was devastated. She discovered she was no longer close with her friends because she spent all of her time with him which she realized was a mistake. Do like she did. Act like it doesn't bother you just to get back at him, hook back up with your friends and start networking. You will find yourself back in the mainstream with loads of friends and new relationships.It worked for her and it can work for you if you let it. Stay away from the medication. You don't need it. When someone mentions his name smile at them and ask them to repeat his name as if you had forgotten all about him. It really worked for her and it can work for you to if you will let it.
A break up is a very hard thing to get over. I would try the counseling thing. but stay away from the medications b/c eventually after time, things will get easier. Trust me. I was engaged for 4 years, and then we broke up. So i am speaking from experience.
hi


i think u should now go out with more friends and meet new people ,,


wait for two weeks or more and c what gana happen..


try not to go to the places UV been there together , and try to make Ur self busy with things that you like ..


talk to a close friend if u feel you want to


cuz as they say two minds thinking is better than one ,,


good luck :-)
i know its hard....you don't want to be alone but you're not good company either....my advice is get away. get out of town for a day or three. go to your family, got to your friends.


please understand, it does get easier....it takes a while. whatever you do, try to be honest with yourself and those around you....you are allowed to feel like ****. the loss of a relationship is not unlike the mourning after a death of a friend or family member. the sadness you feel is the mourning of a loss... succumb to it. its gonna happen whether you fight it or not...good luck and be well