Thursday, December 31, 2009

Relationship advice, please.?

My boyfriend and I made plans to spend Saturday alone together. We have been planning this since last Sunday. Well, tonight, his friends invited him to hang out Saturday night with them, and he is actually thinking about blowing me off for them. I mean, don't get me wrong, friends are very important as well, but he had made plans with me first, and I don't believe that is right to blow me off. Opinions, please?Relationship advice, please.?
Your boyfriend %26amp; you made plans first, so that should be first.





If it's possible, you could hang out with your boyfriend during the day %26amp; he could hang with his friends during the night %26amp; maybe you could catch up with your friends while he's hanging out with his.


Or you could tag along with him %26amp; his friends.Relationship advice, please.?
Yea if I were you I would be pretty pissed! I also understand that friends are an important part of life but to blow you off just to simply hang with friends, that is wrong. If something huge were to come up and he were to sit and talk to you about it, that would be one thing. To me it shows the level of priority you are to him. Talk to him and tell him how you feel!
Compromise. its not the end of the world that a guy wants to hang with his friends. I can't get my bf to go hang out with his friends without me. it annoys me. So spend some time alone and then let him go to hang out. make sure he knows that this behavior is not ok and it upsets you but your willing to compromise if he is. Thats what relationships are all about. Learn that there will be disappointments in a realtionship but working through it is a key. do the grown up thing and work it out like adults.
Well its hard for him to decide too so remeber he has feelings too. He's probably thinking if he doesnt go they might get angry or pissed but hes probably thinking the same about you. Bit if it were me i'd go with you because it seems like the right thing and if were a good guy he'd know what he'd have to do
Friends are important true. Plans are plans though. I understand where you are coming from. I would say you should def. talk to him about it and tell him how you feel! Duhh! Realtionships are based on communication... Not saying that I am perfect at it, but I would talk to him... And well dont you have friends too? Can you not make plans to go out and have fun yourself with your friends?
nope dats isnt right for him to do dat! guys just dont get how sensitive girls can be. if my boyfriend did dat i would be upset for lyk 3 days. you should talk to him be like we've been planning for like a week you cant just do dat or let him and then do it to him to see if he likes it
The way I look at it is he made plans with you first and blowing you off for friends is not the right thing to do. It shows he doesn't do what he says
just don't let it bother you


this has happend to me before don't let it bother you or you could lose him.


im telling you the truth don't get mad or he'll make it a big deal and it'll end!


please take this advise!
His first committed to you and he needs to uphold that. His friends are not going anywhere, and he has next Sat to go hang out with them.
well you should ask him to hang out with you 4 a little bit then tell him he can go hang out with his friends. take your plans and make them at different timing
He made plans with you first, he should keep them.
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