Tuesday, December 22, 2009

I want to end a relationship that is making me unhappy- need some advice?

My fiance lies to me all the time and keeps secrets and won't stop! I decided to leave. I need some advice on this: how do I make the transition smooth? I want to end it on good terms with no revenge or bad feelings between us. I also want to start moving on. What is the best way to get over the pain he caused me and over the attachment I developed for him over the years? I just want to be happy again.I want to end a relationship that is making me unhappy- need some advice?
I respect your decision to leave. An untrustworthy spouse will cause you nothing but grief. you don't deserve to live like that!





As far as breaking up amicably, well on your end, it can work. However, on his end, it all depends on how well he will take it. But just think...


if he always lied to you, why would care about bad feelings he might feel? Obviously, he doesn't care about your feelings.





It is a tough situation but you have to respect yourself. If he takes it bad, oh well. He'll get over it in time and you will find someone you deserve!!

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