Relationship advice needed?

Ok we started dating 7 months ago...Moved in together 2 months later. Its been a really great relationship. So far very very smooth. We get along with eachothers families and friends. Rarely argue and when do easily settle. Like I said its incredible..





Except. She is seperated 2 yrs now. He has custody of the kids, both teens tho one is totally phys and mentally disabled. She's spent thousands on custody battles to get them.


I've tried my best to support offer opinions on things when asked only. Emotional support when she has to deal with him etc. I'm doing best I can and many times i've shelved my own probs for hers.


Last cpl months tho and i realize im second to her kids and all. but i dont feel 2nd..more like 30th...lol I know her situation is stressful and that wears on ya. I feel like im losing. Ive asked her she says we're good but actions to me mean more, She works alot of OT to pay for the legal stuff, is exhausted. We spend less and less time together..What do i do?Relationship advice needed?
Just understand things she must be going through, especially with holidays coming up....she could be stressing out about many things....just continue to hang in with her and give her that support that she needs.....She definitely shouldnt be working OT but uh like i said, holidays coming around, she doing things to have the family situated.......just stay by her side dude however if things become unbelievably too much to handle, then just consider being friends because i'm sure you dont want to be stressed out either