Relationship aDvice please >>?

I am in a relationship where the woman rips me apart all the time. I am blamed for everything and she takes no responsibility. She has a knack for turning everything around on me and making me look lie the bad guy. She has killed my self esteem, and threatens me about leving all the time. SHe also says awful things to me and when I say awful things back I am the bad guy????Is this abuse?Relationship aDvice please %26gt;%26gt;?
This is an old trick used by manipulators who make you crazy with something they said or did then when you get upset they say you're the one who's crazy. They are really good at it, lots of practice. Don't fall for it the only way it's abuse is if you let her do it. You have a choice to take it or leave. She can't kill your self esteem unless you let her.Relationship aDvice please %26gt;%26gt;?
abuse. on ur part no if u bite your tongue until you can't help it anymore. on her part yes. virbal abuse can often be worse than physical. what you need to do is just scare her a couple times.... if you guys are fighting, then get in the car and take off for a while... don't answer your phone if its her or her friends. but make sure you take your house key. if shes as bad as you say she is, its very possible for her to lock you out of the house.. i wouldn't think that would be too much fun... but maybe after a couple hours she might loosen up and think to herself ';maybe he really isn't going to deal with me acting like this all the time'; you don't always have to break up like maybe some ppl are thinking... try scaring her. if that doesn't seem to work then maybe a break up would have to be your last choice. but you don't always have to make it the first... good luck!!! hope everything works out for you..