What should I do about my relationship? Any advice?

Recently I've been having doubts about the relationship that I have been in for the past two and a half years. I care about him, but I find myself thinking about what it would be like to date other people and that maybe he isn't the one with whom I want to spend the rest of my life with.





What's keeping me from acting on this? I'm afraid that if I do end things, I'd be making a huge mistake because he is a good guy.





Any ideas? All help is greatly appreciated!What should I do about my relationship? Any advice?
Hi, first of all look within you and ask your self, do you really really like him, or you don't want to end the relationship cause you affraid it would hurts his feeling and stuff.





if you really really like him that much then just sit down with him and reason with him, ask him if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, you can tell by his tone of voice if he wants to or not, if you think he doesn't want to, then just end the relationship and date someone else.





plus if u really really like him then you wouldn't be thinking of dating other people :-D, you would want to be with him all the time and misses him every time you not with him! :-D





hope this helpsWhat should I do about my relationship? Any advice?
If you don't feel you should be with your boyfriend then you probably shouldn't be. What do you think would be worse, being with him out of sympathy and living a lie or telling him the truth, breaking up, and you both finding new people? If you can't make up your mind talk to your boyfriend, be honest with him about your thoughts and feelings and hopefully you can find out what it is you want to do.
Some people date when they don't know exactly what they want. So you are probably in a predicament where your heart and your mind is confused. You love being around your bf but you are wondering is there better choices out there. Its ok to think this way because most people do but you have to understand that this could mess up the relationship you in now.





Relationships are about taking risks, you need to talk to him about this situation. He may be upset but talk to him and just say can you take a ';SMALL'; break. If he truly love you, he will let you go understand what you want. I hope the best for you.
Sounds like you are bored. After being with someone for awhile the spark can disappear as the relationship becomes comfortable.





Instead of looking for someone else, why not try and do more exciting things together.





If you find that you are still bored then maybe it's time to call it a day, but at least you will have tried.
I know how you feel, my guy and i have dated for almost 2 years, he is my first boyfriend though, and sometimes i wonder what it would be like without him. i'm not ending my relationship any time soon, but do what you think is right. If you leave him and it is relaly meant to be then you two will get back together and live happily ever after
If u strongly decide that u cant spend your rest of life with that guy with which u r dating please stop doing that. It is not good for both of you. If u really like him and if u wish that he should be happy in his life then please go away from him. Initially it will be very difficult for u to go away from him but once you have to take this hard decision. Better late than never... all the best.
i think every girl has felt like this from time to time


i feel for you


im feeling the same way now.


could it be boredom from the relationship?


or is because you just really want to go explore whats out there?


boredom you can fix, find new interesting ways to enjoy each others company.


but if you just dont want to be in a relationship thats a decision your gonna have to make soon, becuase you probli dont want to string him along right?


try going on a break from each other..and see how its like dating other people...?


hope it helps :)


good luck on your decision
well im first gonna say i do think maybe your just bored and your too comfrotable with each other.. why not do someothing different like sing up for a class or take a vacation and do something different there liek suba dive or something exciting.. so it changes things up.. if after that you feel the same way.. then at least you triredand maybe it is time for you to move on.
Probably, you starting to feel this guy is not the one you want to be because he might bores you and he does not offer you any excitement. As you said, you have thought about dating other people, your mind already tells you what you should do.
He might be a good guy but is he the best guy? You don't want to go on with your life and then one day look back and wishe you'd chosen a different path. Tell him you want to take a break for a little while to figure things out.
sometime they do what they want to do with you it is ther way they know how to treat the way they want they want you to be happy with life relationship is like that
Go with your heart,sounds like your a little curious if you still got it going on,i bet you do and i would say you don t want to split but maybe a good strange affair might be dancing in your head.
Maybe your relationship is suffering from what I call things have gotten boring. Try to do more and different things together before you call it quits. Your relationship just might need some spicing up.
There is a good chance you will regret it. Tell him how you feel, and if there is anything he can do to help, tell him.
i'm also experiencing the same situation as u now,


but dont give up,


since he s a gud guy,


think of urself with someother rude guy aftr some years wid no freedom or happiness in lyf,


consider the gr8est pleasure in lyf wud be living with the one whom u love,,


marrying him is ur dream,,,its rather hidden in u,


if u dont believe what i say try forgetting him completely,,,u can nevr do it,,,


thr may be genuine causes for ur doubts abt ur relationships,but dont keep it for urself,discuss with him openly,


(i do the same)


feel free to express ur dissatisfaction or unhappiness.


coz lyf will not always be a bed of roses,u'll hav to face dificulties,only thn u can be assured that he ll be wid u in ur tuf tyms,





tell him ur problem,(dont say that u want someone else to date with)


solve the problems,,and start lyfe anew,,


really


thts my idea,,i'm not forcing u,,but think of it deeply,,n giv importance to facts n not fantasies,,,n then take a gud decision,,i hop my suggestion has helpd u to some extend,,


all the best,,


its easy to break up understanding and relations,,but its not easy to build it,,,


he s urs naaa?


dont worry yaar,,,