How to get over past hurt in a relationship . . . my advice?

I have so many friends who are getting divorce / separated / breaking up . . . and I tell them to do this and it works. Just though I share it with you guys:





1) Immagine your ex as a cartoon character with a big head.


2) Figure out something that annoys you about the person


3) Then immagine the cartoon (with a big head) doing it amplified 100X. Like if he/she sleeps around, immagine him/her walking around with a big head and a big sign above him/her that says ';Walking STD';.





Or if he/she has an annoying mother (your ex mother-in-law) immagine them (with a big head) doing the anoying act.





Or if he likes to collect things (nascar stuff, etc.) imagine him (wit the big head) protecting his stuff.





Be imaginative. Do it everytime you see him/her, or when you feel the blues.





Let me know if it works for you too. And remember, there is so much stuff stored for you from God. He loves you, and the break up happens for a reason.





Take Care,





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Cr1sHow to get over past hurt in a relationship . . . my advice?
oh my...


i laughed when i read it...


unfortunatly...


i don't think it will work for my situation...


I totally love and respect my ex...


It was just a decision he made...religion wise...





so got anything for that?





i'll probably post a question later tonight....


and maybe you'll have some advice....How to get over past hurt in a relationship . . . my advice?
I cut my exboyfriend's head out of a picture and glued it on to the picture of someone wearing a pink tu-tu. I had to laugh everytime I looked at it.
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