Relationship advice and you're experiences?

How do you or how have you moved on when you've been rejected by someone you like? or even been possibly been used by the person you liked.Relationship advice and you're experiences?
Personally, everytime a thought crossed my mind about the person I would turn my thoughts to God and think about how magnificent He is to me and then it would give me peace that life will go on. But, I don't know where your standpoint is on religion. Another thing is to always keep yourself busy with other things. Find distractions because they are very helpful.Relationship advice and you're experiences?
I read a book ';how to overcome a broken heart.'; One of the thing they advice is not to spy on them, don't call, don't let those people called CIA tell you of his whereabouts, turn them down and tell you don't want anything to do with that person. The less you see or hear about that person the better for you, the faster you can get it out of your head. It may take some time, but it can be done. You have to go out, force yourself, don't hear sad song and don't go for a while places you went with him. I had an experience with several guys and it sucks. This guy that I broke up work in the same place and that's really harder, when you less expect you bump into him. If that person had been used you, let it go, maybe someone else will do it to him. If you have to cry do it, but don't let him know that. Take that as an experience and the next time you are falling in love, try to find out as much as you can about that person. Don't try to get somebody else as a rebound, that's no fair for you or the other person. Don't worry too much we all go through this. To tell you the true my heart had been broken so many times that I wonder if I can put it together. For some people is easier than other because they are not too emotional but nevertheless only time cure and when you look back you thank God you get rid of that person. God bless you and make a prayer, that help a lot. I hope I helped you.
That's a rough experience to deal with. If you get rejected you just gotta realize that there are plenty of fish in the see and not let one rejection break your spirit. If you've been used by someone you liked then it might take a while. It might be tough to trust someone after that but again you just gotta have faith that everyone isnt like that. There are some bad people with bad intentions out there but there's good ones out there too. Just dont give up. It's always darkest before the dawn.
You just need to forget about him. start flirting with other guys, go out with your friends, hang out, have fun, get back in the game! it's going to hurt for a while, but it will get better i promise.


a few years ago, i had a huuuge crush on this guy when i lived in mexico, and after liking him for about a year, he told me that he liked me too, but i had moved back to the u.s. by then. after talking to him on IM a lot over the next couple months, i went back to visit him and all my friends in mexico and found out that he had a girlfriend. i didn't talk to him at all when i was there because of it. when i got back to the u.s., i IM ed him again and we were just talking when he told me he and his gf had broken up. i told him that i still liked him and he basically told me that he didn't like me anymore and he had stopped liking me several months before i went to mexico. i was so upset and heartbroken.


so after that i stopped talking to him. i needed closure. so i focused on my school, friends, and other guys. eventually i got over him and moved on simply by just putting myself in the frame of mind that ';it's time to be done with this crap and get on with my life. i don't even know him anymore. it's time to move on.'; and by doing that and with some time, i got over him.


so after that i IM ed him again telling him that i was over him and that he didn't have to worry about it anymore, and that i was content with just being his friend.


so pretty much, it will just take time. it will get better and you will be able to move on. don't worry about it, just hang in there :)


good luck :)
Welcome to a man's world. Do you think we can just stroll along and swindle any girl we want? Heck no. Every attempt we make is risky and we've all inevitably run into a few rejections. It's simply something you must learn to live with if you want to be the hunter. At least you don't have the obligation to hunt and put yourself on the line, like most guys do.
I went to church, surrendered to the truest essence of Love, which is God, and I realized that person wasn't worth it anyways. I feel so alive and ready for someone real.
Friends.. ive had my best friend since 9th grade... we've been thro the worst nd best times together.. everytime something goes wrong nd he needs someone to lie on im there.. when ever im down nd i need my compadre he's there..





I'm not gay.. but i love my compadre!!.. lol





remember... nobody deserves your tears nd the one who deserves them will never make u cry!
yes mostly when i am rejected i just leave her alone


i try to find other girl to like
just get out and go do things with friends.