Usually my boyfriend wanted to see me everyday up until about a month ago. Now if we spend like three or four days together, he wants me to leave and then doesn't want to hangout for a couple days. he tells me it's normal and that no guy and girl hangout everyday.. what's your opinions?Relationship advice girls and guys?
my girl friend lives with me and has for 2 years it sounds to me like he maybe seeing someone else on the side just my thoughtRelationship advice girls and guys?
How long were you together BEFORE a month ago? If you've been together for a while (and I don't mean a month), then he's probably having either second thoughts or he's feeling suffocated. Being with a girl 24/7 or often, gets real old, real fast, if the guy doesn't want anything serious or heavy. Also, could he have met someone else? If you weren't living with him, then you didn't see every move he made or what he did when he wasn't with you. Look at it this way: people that live with each other, can still cheat. If there's a will, there's a way, and if someone wants someone else, there ain't nothin' that's gonna stop them. As for his answer of ';normal';, NO, not in every case. I only saw my fiancee 3 days a week, and I asked her to move in with me, because I wanted to see her all the time. If someone is asking for space, then it's basically going ';backwards';, and if you were thinking of moving in with him or getting married, you don't ask for space if that's going to happen. This is basically telling you that you couldn't live together. He wants days AWAY from you, not WITH you. I also don't know his side of the story. It could be that you're doing something that's making him want distance from you. But, I wouldn't get rid of the thought that there's someone else. And as a reminder, even if you try to keep track of him on those days off, there's still cell phones, pagers, computers, etc., so believe me, there are a lot of ways to have contact with someone else without anyone knowing about it. You're on here asking this question and he doesn't know about it, right? Point made.
Personally... I don't like to hang out with a guy everyday. It's important to maintain separate lives. That could be a sign that something is going on with him, but ONLY take this into consideration if there are other signs present.
I think you should make sure that you are maintaining a healthy fulfilling life apart from him and you should be okay. If you keep yourself busy enough you won't mind being away from him so much and after a while he'll be leaving you voice mails wondering where you are.. haha.
some guys do just need some space to chill and be a guy. its normal for the ';newness'; of a relationship to wear off and they want some alone time. I dont think you have anything to worry about, often when your apart it makes your realtionship grow stonger like the saying absense makes the heart grow fonder. Plus if you do spen some time apart, he'll really cherish the time you do have together :)
I think he's somewhat right and somewhat wrong. Basically, me and my boyfriend hang out everyday, it's a way that the bond would get stronger.
It also sounds to me like he may be meeting someone else on the 'off' days that he's no longer with you.
I think thats b/s. My brother and his girlfriend hang out everyday and they r so happy together. U tell him that if he doesnt want to be with u everyday then tell him why. Also that might mean that he is seeing someone else, just my opinion. If it doesnt work, just look me up. lol.
he is right but when you say he tells you to leave that sounds suspicious
Hes telling the truth.
Hes right. He needs a life and you do to
humm...
Sunday, December 27, 2009
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