Relationship confusion stressing me out any advice?

I have been with my bf for over 3 years and the thought of getting to 4 years is kind of freaking me out (were both 19)


He means loads to me but there is also another guy i keep thinking about... I keep worrying about what im meant to do





anyone have any helpful advice?Relationship confusion stressing me out any advice?
As far as I am concerned you are too young to finalize your life so young without more life experiences. If you are seriously looking at or considering someone else then you need to finish that urge before you move too much farther. If your current BF is it then work on the relationship. But based on what you say in this question you are not sure. So how do you find out. This you will have to tread very lightly because once you start the path it may or could create a reaction that you will not be able to come back from with your current BF. I wish you the best of luck as you think this through.Relationship confusion stressing me out any advice?
See, that's a tricky one, because on the one hand you really care for him and you sound like you're happy together.





But on the other hand, you're 19 and have SO much life and living ahead of you - so many experiences you'll have and people you'll meet, and you have the rest of your life to be ';settled down.';





I think you honestly need to ask yourself if you want history over mystery, or vice versa. We live in a culture that values the 'bigger faster stronger better'; all the time. So often we feel like we have to get the new, when what we already have is pretty good. :-)





So my advice is, do some soul searching and ask yourself if you're ready to be this committed at 19. Make a list of the pros and cons, and be honest with yourself.





Good luck sweetie!
remember that old fable with the dog and the bone !


look fact is you have to ask your self are you in love with the guy that you are with and how much is worth to you
Make a boyfriend list and another guy list. Write down what you like about them and what you don't like about them. Compare and make a decision.
You aren't meant to do anything. Stop screwing around and make a decision. Stop being so emotional. Spare the guy you're dating if you aren't sure. With my wife and I,l we were sure. If you aren't sure you should end it, especially after so long.
Well you obviously wont feel happy in this relationship for any longer and this will affect you and your partner.


So go for the other dude.
dating for 5 years at 19 is too long get out and try new guys