Okay, well my Ex, just texted me and asked for relatonship advice when I know that he clearly doesn't like the girl because he told me that he was stuck between two. Me and this other girl.
idk what the heck to say to him, because we are still friends but the relationship ruined the friendship in some ways. Should I tell him to date the girl, hoping that he get over me(I am over him) tell him no?
Please explain.Asking your Ex for relationship advice?
He just posed a very good tool to you. A tool for him, but now that you'll be able to see it, you can change his perception.
If you tell him that he should date this other girl, who he doesn't like anyways, he'll see that you've let go of him and that you two are really over and done with. If you tell him to date the girl, it's still up to him if he wants to date her or not. He probably won't with what you've told us.
Now, if you say that he shouldn't date this girl, then that shows him that you're still slightly protective of him. You want him to be safe, and not with that other girl, if you catch my drift. AKA, you still want him in your life. You still want a chance to go back to him if there's not another girl in the way.
Hope that helps, but you're left with the ultimate decision of what to say.Asking your Ex for relationship advice?
I used to text my ex for relationship advice. We had been broken up for two years. Especially because I was totally over him (and he was totally over me) or so we thought and it was easy for me to ask him for advice. It was fine because it was just here and there. Finally, he admitted he was jealous.
We've been dating for 6 months now.
Be honest with him. He deserves that just for being a person.
Tell him to do what makes him happy but that just because he he likes you doesnt mean that you are going to like him bck.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
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