I've been dating this girl for about 3 months. She's really nice. Seems to like me a lot. But--and this may be slightly immature--but she has several pictures on her Myspace website of her kissing other boyfriends she has had, and cuddling with them. It's f-ing depressing. Not to mention all her past boyfriends have been bad dudes with tattoos all over and i'm Mr. Conservative. Not to mention she has quite a lot more experience. We're both 20. What should I do? Every time I look at it I can't comprehend why she likes me and infuriate at the pictures of past lovers. WHAT TO DO....help!!!
Thanks, BradDire need of relationship advice?
Nothing like a little dose of honest. Tell her what and how much what is there bothers you--and ask her what she sees in Mr. Conservative. You don't need to just unload on her but has nicely, and with an ';want to know'; attitude. I know that seems drastic but here's the deal--if she's sympathetic and understanding, you'll very soon find out. And if she isn't, you'll know that and be able to do what you probably need to do.
Friday, April 30, 2010
Are u wantin relationship advice, or just want to fellowship with others, then come join us?
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Looking4thatspecialsomeone/
This group is meant for you if people:
1)IF you are facing problems in relationship
2)If you are seeking your soul mate
3)If you think you can advice others
4)If you are seeking tips about pleasing your bf/gf
This group will be moderated and I assure you that it will
be one of the best ever groups where everyone can interact with each
other without any kind of hindrance..
PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS GROUP WILL NOT HAVE ANY ADULT CONTENT BUT TO
SHARE FEELING KNOWN AS LOVE %26amp; TO SEEK ADVICE IN THAT MATTER.
SO you can have genuine people here looking for making friendship
with you, and who knows, you may find your soulmate here.
Suggestions are most welcome.
We also understand that some members would like to have their partner back. This is a forum for some members who want to save their relationships and stop their breakup, separation, or divorce. Breaking up doesn't always have to mean it's over for good. We invite you to join us and exchange support, ideas, and encouragemnt with others who know how it feels to be in love.
Now in closing this is a great group for serious people looking for love and long term relationships,so get a pic and upload and start posting messages. Tell us a little something about you, and what you are looking for in a life partner. This group is now being created for all of you, I really hope you enjoy this group.Are u wantin relationship advice, or just want to fellowship with others, then come join us?
sounds interesting...i will be there...Are u wantin relationship advice, or just want to fellowship with others, then come join us?
i jst want to fart bad on ur this group.
This group is meant for you if people:
1)IF you are facing problems in relationship
2)If you are seeking your soul mate
3)If you think you can advice others
4)If you are seeking tips about pleasing your bf/gf
This group will be moderated and I assure you that it will
be one of the best ever groups where everyone can interact with each
other without any kind of hindrance..
PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS GROUP WILL NOT HAVE ANY ADULT CONTENT BUT TO
SHARE FEELING KNOWN AS LOVE %26amp; TO SEEK ADVICE IN THAT MATTER.
SO you can have genuine people here looking for making friendship
with you, and who knows, you may find your soulmate here.
Suggestions are most welcome.
We also understand that some members would like to have their partner back. This is a forum for some members who want to save their relationships and stop their breakup, separation, or divorce. Breaking up doesn't always have to mean it's over for good. We invite you to join us and exchange support, ideas, and encouragemnt with others who know how it feels to be in love.
Now in closing this is a great group for serious people looking for love and long term relationships,so get a pic and upload and start posting messages. Tell us a little something about you, and what you are looking for in a life partner. This group is now being created for all of you, I really hope you enjoy this group.Are u wantin relationship advice, or just want to fellowship with others, then come join us?
sounds interesting...i will be there...Are u wantin relationship advice, or just want to fellowship with others, then come join us?
i jst want to fart bad on ur this group.
Would you seek relationship advice from your parents?
Ummmmmm,
NOOOOOO!Would you seek relationship advice from your parents?
Not a chance. No way, no how.Would you seek relationship advice from your parents?
No. They're dead.
Probably not. But I respect them and ask them for advice in other areas of my life.
Oh, hell no. They screwed up their relationship with each other. They're both with different people now and happy, but I don't particularly care for the manner in which they did it.
I don't want it, I don't need it.
Never.
no, but then i don't tend to take relationship advise from anyone, i always do what my heart says
I have and they are pretty helpful. Remember they have seen everything already. It's great for someone to point the way when you need it.
my mom gives good relationship advice
nopeliving nature
NOOOOOO!Would you seek relationship advice from your parents?
Not a chance. No way, no how.Would you seek relationship advice from your parents?
No. They're dead.
Probably not. But I respect them and ask them for advice in other areas of my life.
Oh, hell no. They screwed up their relationship with each other. They're both with different people now and happy, but I don't particularly care for the manner in which they did it.
I don't want it, I don't need it.
Never.
no, but then i don't tend to take relationship advise from anyone, i always do what my heart says
I have and they are pretty helpful. Remember they have seen everything already. It's great for someone to point the way when you need it.
my mom gives good relationship advice
nope
Books with good relationship advice...?
Are there any books you would recommend on dating and relationships? Any personal experience with these books helping you?Books with good relationship advice...?
-he's just not that into you Greg Behrendt
-Real Love (the truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships) Greg Baer
-Stop being the string along, A relationship guide to being the one (best book i have ever read) barbara rose
-It's called a breakup because it's broken
All of these books are REALLY good. They have all helped me deal with different situations in relationships. I highly recommend all of them. Trust me you won't be disappointed.
-he's just not that into you Greg Behrendt
-Real Love (the truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships) Greg Baer
-Stop being the string along, A relationship guide to being the one (best book i have ever read) barbara rose
-It's called a breakup because it's broken
All of these books are REALLY good. They have all helped me deal with different situations in relationships. I highly recommend all of them. Trust me you won't be disappointed.
Someone give me relationship advice?
ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. %26amp; the past 2 years we've been consistantly arguing over any little small thing! [mainly because i start because of my insecurities %26amp; my short temper] we've tried everything not to argue anymore. Can someone tell me how to deal %26amp; stop arguing so much. [no break ups or breaks!]Someone give me relationship advice?
If you can already admit that you cause most of the arguments through your own personal problems - then you know where the work has to begin.
Try to calm down whenever something small comes up that you know will tick you off - think of how important it really is, and try not to blow things out of proportion.
Your insecurities are harder to confront. What is it about yourself that you are insecure about? You need to find what makes me feel the way you do, and change it. You will, in all likelihood, find that difficult. Just remember that there's always help - from your boyfriend, your friends, and even your family.
And also, it may sound weird, but going to see a counsleor may help, too. Just having someone who is impartial and won't judge you to talk to about these things would make you feel a lot better. And I'm sure it would eliminate a lot of stress which may contribute to your impatience and lack of confidence.
Hope that helps.Someone give me relationship advice?
me and my boyfriend have been having the same issues, accept we've only been dating for 7 months. i'm also at a loss of what to do...
If you can already admit that you cause most of the arguments through your own personal problems - then you know where the work has to begin.
Try to calm down whenever something small comes up that you know will tick you off - think of how important it really is, and try not to blow things out of proportion.
Your insecurities are harder to confront. What is it about yourself that you are insecure about? You need to find what makes me feel the way you do, and change it. You will, in all likelihood, find that difficult. Just remember that there's always help - from your boyfriend, your friends, and even your family.
And also, it may sound weird, but going to see a counsleor may help, too. Just having someone who is impartial and won't judge you to talk to about these things would make you feel a lot better. And I'm sure it would eliminate a lot of stress which may contribute to your impatience and lack of confidence.
Hope that helps.Someone give me relationship advice?
me and my boyfriend have been having the same issues, accept we've only been dating for 7 months. i'm also at a loss of what to do...
I need some relationship advice please?
well i have thiss boyfriend and he's kindaa boring he never talks to me or text me and if he does text me all he say's is hi or good night or i love you but i never feel like there's a real connection there!! should i brake up with him?? also i have this EX boyfriend that i kindda like again but he's kinna to much of a playa fo me and i dont wanna get played and hurt again;[ what should i do??I need some relationship advice please?
I don't think ur in love wit ur current boyfriend, so u shud not b in a relationship wit him.. Break up..
Wen u think ur ex's gonna use u, obviously don't let anyone use u... So, u shouldn't be getting back with him.. :)
Jus b single for a while, life wud b fun even wen u don hav a boyfriend.. :) U knw sometimes, its better to not be in any relationship rather than being in a bad one.. :)
Pls answer my question:
http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…I need some relationship advice please?
Well that isn't a very good relationship so talk to him tell he either needs to step his game up and start talking to you more and doing what he's suppose to or it wont work out and wait a few days. If he changes then everything is alright and if not then you need to find yourself a new man and as far as your ex don't go back to him because it is most likely a waste of time.!
Talk to ur bf about it. It prob seems hard buh just try talkin to him. If he doesnt wanna talk about it or wanna at least try ... he's not worth it as it shows he doesnt rly care bout u. as for ur ex if hes a playa he's defo not worth it. he makes ya feel great at the start and all buh at the end of the day u want a fella that really likes u and only you. Hope this helped (:
Break up with your boyfriend. There's no reason for you to drag it on if you're just not into him. But, don't go back to your ex either. Players are jerks and they don't deserve girlfriends. Besides you don't want to be the victim again. That's the worst pain in the world.
if ur not happy and dont want to b with him then breakup w him. if u dont want to b with ur ex bc hes a playa then dont get back with him. if theres no connection then end it, if ur afraid and kno theres a chance of getting hurt then dont start that, dont do that to urself.
um...kk your boyfriend it seems like he just thinks of you as a bud. and your ex forget him it's not wroth getting hurt trust me on that a player is a player and there not wroth it
break up with him and dont take the other one back.
if there is no connection then forget it cause its not gonna get better
and there is no point in going out with a player unless you wanna get hurt.
well my advice too u is break up wit ue boyfriend... obviously he just not that into you.. but the ex thing if u feel its worth trying all over again then go for it life is too short to stress
i would ditch both of them
some guys just don't talk much
I don't think ur in love wit ur current boyfriend, so u shud not b in a relationship wit him.. Break up..
Wen u think ur ex's gonna use u, obviously don't let anyone use u... So, u shouldn't be getting back with him.. :)
Jus b single for a while, life wud b fun even wen u don hav a boyfriend.. :) U knw sometimes, its better to not be in any relationship rather than being in a bad one.. :)
Pls answer my question:
http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…I need some relationship advice please?
Well that isn't a very good relationship so talk to him tell he either needs to step his game up and start talking to you more and doing what he's suppose to or it wont work out and wait a few days. If he changes then everything is alright and if not then you need to find yourself a new man and as far as your ex don't go back to him because it is most likely a waste of time.!
Talk to ur bf about it. It prob seems hard buh just try talkin to him. If he doesnt wanna talk about it or wanna at least try ... he's not worth it as it shows he doesnt rly care bout u. as for ur ex if hes a playa he's defo not worth it. he makes ya feel great at the start and all buh at the end of the day u want a fella that really likes u and only you. Hope this helped (:
Break up with your boyfriend. There's no reason for you to drag it on if you're just not into him. But, don't go back to your ex either. Players are jerks and they don't deserve girlfriends. Besides you don't want to be the victim again. That's the worst pain in the world.
if ur not happy and dont want to b with him then breakup w him. if u dont want to b with ur ex bc hes a playa then dont get back with him. if theres no connection then end it, if ur afraid and kno theres a chance of getting hurt then dont start that, dont do that to urself.
um...kk your boyfriend it seems like he just thinks of you as a bud. and your ex forget him it's not wroth getting hurt trust me on that a player is a player and there not wroth it
break up with him and dont take the other one back.
if there is no connection then forget it cause its not gonna get better
and there is no point in going out with a player unless you wanna get hurt.
well my advice too u is break up wit ue boyfriend... obviously he just not that into you.. but the ex thing if u feel its worth trying all over again then go for it life is too short to stress
i would ditch both of them
some guys just don't talk much
What is one great bit of relationship advice you'd like to give me?
the greatest thing you'll ever learn isn't it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all... it's better to recognise the difference between love and lust and to be honest with yourself about what you want out of any relationship before you enter into it... and to know how to communicate this to your partner so there is no question... and to know how to walk away if you and your partner can't come together on it. and to enjoy your time together while it lasts. and for some reason, the country hit 'the gambler' by kenny rogers comes to mind:
you gotta know when to hold 'em
know when to fold 'em
know when to walk away
and know when to run
you never count your money
when you're sitting at the table
there'll be time enough for countin'
when the dealings done
now those are words of wisdom.What is one great bit of relationship advice you'd like to give me?
You Can't Change Anyone But YourselfWhat is one great bit of relationship advice you'd like to give me?
don`t ever get married !!! those papers you sign are evil....its downhill from there !!!!!
Never even attempt a serious heartfelt conversation.
Keep the lines of communication open
Do what ever you man wants.
Think before you speak!!!!!!!!! Once you say some things you can never take them back!!!!!!
that its harder and hurts more than anyone tells you, even when you have a good relationship
Stay single and keep your virginity
life it too short for fighting, either talk it out and compromise or don't be together. Don't get me wrong you can disagree but if deep down you are not happy move on
One can't always give, the other can't always take. So, give and take!
99.9% of the time he is lying to you
get out while you can.
Never settle for less than the very best. And always be honest with one another. If there is even a hint of dishonesty, bail out.
If you change the way your bf dresses, don't get bent if he does the same to you.
That differs between girls and guys.
Guys: Do you want to be happy? Or do you want to be right?
Girls: Just don't get between a guy and his sports.
Here are a few quotes, although I don't know if you've already seen them:
1. If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back, he yours, but if he doesn't, he never was.
2. Even if we want it to be, happily ever after isn't always true.
3. When the time comes to let go, then let go...don't hang around where you don't have to.
Be honest and be yourself. Don't let anyone tell you what you can and can't do and if they ever hit you leave cos no matter what they say it will happen again!
you gotta know when to hold 'em
know when to fold 'em
know when to walk away
and know when to run
you never count your money
when you're sitting at the table
there'll be time enough for countin'
when the dealings done
now those are words of wisdom.What is one great bit of relationship advice you'd like to give me?
You Can't Change Anyone But YourselfWhat is one great bit of relationship advice you'd like to give me?
don`t ever get married !!! those papers you sign are evil....its downhill from there !!!!!
Never even attempt a serious heartfelt conversation.
Keep the lines of communication open
Do what ever you man wants.
Think before you speak!!!!!!!!! Once you say some things you can never take them back!!!!!!
that its harder and hurts more than anyone tells you, even when you have a good relationship
Stay single and keep your virginity
life it too short for fighting, either talk it out and compromise or don't be together. Don't get me wrong you can disagree but if deep down you are not happy move on
One can't always give, the other can't always take. So, give and take!
99.9% of the time he is lying to you
get out while you can.
Never settle for less than the very best. And always be honest with one another. If there is even a hint of dishonesty, bail out.
If you change the way your bf dresses, don't get bent if he does the same to you.
That differs between girls and guys.
Guys: Do you want to be happy? Or do you want to be right?
Girls: Just don't get between a guy and his sports.
Here are a few quotes, although I don't know if you've already seen them:
1. If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back, he yours, but if he doesn't, he never was.
2. Even if we want it to be, happily ever after isn't always true.
3. When the time comes to let go, then let go...don't hang around where you don't have to.
Be honest and be yourself. Don't let anyone tell you what you can and can't do and if they ever hit you leave cos no matter what they say it will happen again!
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