Friday, April 30, 2010

I need relationship advice please help?

Every relationship i've had,I've been cheated on...Or guys would just screw with my emotions,After a while i met this guy He was so nice respectful..But after to days he wanted to date,Less than a week he fell inlove with me...All they other girls he dated cheated on him too,So as you can see we have that in common...He is in a different state,Im in pa...Im movin to live by him,But he always seems to talk about sex,But yet he asks if im ready for it...He keeps talking about it tho,And i tested him we can have a normal convo about other things but he loves talking about sex...He is in college im in high school...He tells me not to worry because he is going to be around lots of girls,Its hard to believe he is a virgin to be honest...Do you think he is useing me only for sex,Im confused.I need relationship advice please help?
Play it safe. Do not engage in premarital sex.I need relationship advice please help?
Well if he is a virgin this would be his first time so he's probably getting a Little ahead of himself so he keeps talking about it
Well you shouldnt really trust guys who live in a different states because there's way more to them than a sweet attitude. You should get to know him more. Just because he tells you all this things doesnt mean its true. and if he really wanna be with you or wanna date you he should wait till you get to know him well, if he doesnt wait then you didnt lose anything but a jerk who just want one thing.
You know what your problem is? You have a gigantic neon sign on your forehead that says, ';I have low self-esteem and that is my excuse for letting guys lie, cheat, take advantage of, and abuse me.';





Ok. I am being dramatic. You don't really have a sign like that on your head but you might as well. And you've attracted a real a**hole as a result. After all, you started dating a guy two days after you met him, allowed him to convince you that he loved you after seven, and now you are pulling up your roots to go live with him. And you're not even an adult.





In answer to your question about him using you for sex. He is absolutely trying to get you into bed and he is saying whatever it is that he thinks you want to hear to accomplish that goal. Do not--I repeat--DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT GETTING MORE DEEPLY INVOLVED WITH THIS BOY!!! HE IS VERY BAD NEWS!!!





I also think you should try to get some counseling for yourself. You have emotional problems that falling in love are not going to fix.





I am sorry I sound so harsh but your post really scared me. I think you are about to make a big mistake.
Question, why are you moving in with someone you hardly know, who is older then you, always talks about sex, andis always pressuring you about hving sex. DO NOT GIVE THIS MAN THE PLEASURE. He only wants you for the sex. BE SMART AND STAY AWAY.
Okay, honey. First things first:





Guys are guys. They are genetically programmed to spread their seed. Can they have emotional connection with a girl? yes. can they be completely driven sex? absolutely. that is their job.





if this guy seems like he is nice, if he seems earnestly interested with you, but adamantly pushes you about having sex--STAND YOUR GROUND! If you are uncomfortable with it, make sure he understands that and stop it yourself, even if it means getting away from him. if you like him, and he's a good enough guy to change subjects, all the more to him.





Keep mind: he's a guy. he's going to have sex on his mind every 6 seconds. but that doesn't mean that you have to hear about it every 6 seconds.
Wow thats a big step moving to be near a guy u hardly know. Instead of worrying bout the fact that all he wants to talk about is sex u should be re-evaluating your priorities
this guy seems to have be psychologically unstable.. First of all, if you're in high school, stay away from him!!.. people who can't talk about anything more interesting than sex has a problem!!!.. he's trouble. you should be focus on school and not him and his issues. be careful and be safe.

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