Friday, April 30, 2010

Internet Relationship Advice?

I have recently found myslef in a simi-dating realtionship with someone I met online. I am a very careful person. He doesn't know any personal information. I know these usually don't work out and it's a really silly idea. But I was wondering if anyone had any good advice for me? To dos not to dos. I am already aware of the need to have privicy and safety and about the precautions to take. But any general advice would be great. Thanks.Internet Relationship Advice?
TO DO's.................





1- always listen to your intuition


2- if you think he's lying, he probably is


3- do not believe everything he says





NOT TO DO'S.....................





1- spend money on him


2- share personal information


3- be afraid to ask questions.......





if he is honest and open he will have nothing to hide and will answer your questions easily. if he gives a short answer that just leaves you with more questions................he's hiding somethingInternet Relationship Advice?
Dont do it! Because there is still gonna be me...just email me to panggarbesi94@yahoo.com. We re on the same problem.
I met an amazing woman online and we are in a serious relationship and doing well. Just find out how much respect he has for u
don't get involved it's not worth it
Hea honey watch out because i meet this chic bit it was a dude that wanted money
You probably already know this, but don't meet him anywhere private. Meet him at a mall or something with a group of friends, and invite him to bring some of his friends, too. Even if he seems nice, make absolutely sure he doesn't follow you home the first several times you see each other. Maybe you could meet his family before you ever tell him where you live, or something like that. Be extremely careful. I've heard of these kinds of relationships really working out before, but I've also heard of crazy sickos who stalk, rape, and murder people. Good luck!
It could work out, but I would want to make sure that he is not married. There are a lot of married guys out there on the Internet pretending not to be. The next step after online could be exchanging phone calls. Is he free to call you evenings, weekends, etc... if not, that's a red flag he's married.
Yea, you aren't in any sort of a dating relationship if you don't share personal information. My advice, either make it happen in the real world, or just stop with the fantasy of dating this person. Anything you do that is strictly on the internet and where you don't share information is a fantasy.
Take small steps. Email for awhile (and exchange pictures) before exchanging phone numbers. Talk on the phone awhile before agreeing to meet. Meet in a public place.





And it's really not so silly. I met my husband online. (and he's a doctor!) We've been married for six years.





But how can you be in a relationship with someone without sharing personal information? That's the best thing about online dating- the amount of stuff you can find out!


(Unlike when you meet a guy in a bar! You could date him for a month before discovering that he's a bigot. Or a republican. Or not that bright...)
Are you dating this person and haven't met them. After you do meet him I would take it as if you just met a stranger and build up trust from there. I would like to say that sometimes internet relationships do work out. Mine did.
I did it, and it was wonderful. The only reason it's not still active is she lives 600 miles away....not fair to me, or her. I ended it because she was never going to, and she needed to meet a good guy locally, and I needed to do the same.
Dating anyone now days can be a pain in the ****! You have to keep some sort of distance and privacy about yourself no matter what. Some of my best friends (have met them in person!) have been met on the net! Don't let it scare you, just be careful!
i have a friend i met from the net but we r really just friends


i think the importent thing is if u can trust him or not


dont trust him immidiatly


go to a public place i chose the mall at day time at first


goodluck!
take all the time needed to really get to know this person ...... i talked to my boyfriend for over a year before we actually met .... then we started dating .... and 3 months later we moved in together lol ....now it's been 3 years later ...and he's no crazy killer so far lol ..... just be really inquisitive .and careful take your time and when the time is right , you will be sure , always listen to yourself ......if you ever have a doubt , then it's not right !!!
I am not sure I can be of much help, but I have done the Internet dating, while i was married, not to smart I know. I live in Georgia, and the guy lived in Minnesota. He told he he was 21 and we started chatting, then talking on the phone, then he would fly down to meet me once a month, then, he eventually moved down here, all of this while I am still married. Come to find out he had just turned 18, was psycho, and I did not know much about him at all, even though after almost a year of that , I thought I did.My husband and I worked through things, and it was a lesson learned, I think even if I was single it would still be hard to find someone online and trust the relationship. Good luck.
For what it's worth, I met my wife on line. Just spend lots of time getting to know the person. Sometimes it is easier to write than it is to talk to the person face to face. Open up, let him see what makes you tick. I mean, it's not like he's asking for your social security number or your mother's maiden name right?
Just get to know each other as best you can. Ask all the questions you want, especially the things you think are important for someone you date. I hope you've seen their photo. If you haven't, you need to ask them for one. If they make excuses and don't want to give you a pic, I'd be very wary.





If you meet the person, do so in a public place.





Online dating is not silly, it's how I've been dating for the past 5 years. I'm too shy to approach people in person. Not all people on the internet are weirdos, trust me. :) I'm dating a very wonderful guy at the moment that I met online.
my sister is having an internet relationship and it seems to be going very well......my advice is do not tell them any personal info and definatley if they ask for money you dont give them any...what you need to do is meet each other and see how things progress from there good luck
I've done the same thing. Sometimes they do work out really well. I wish you luck. My advice is to be very careful. You don't know who you are typing to. Be very very careful and watch the Dateline specials on internet predators. I am not saying that is your situation, just be careful.
i started talking to a man bout three years ago. he lived 11 hours away. we talk for awhile then decided to meet with each other half way in another state. both of us brought someone just bc it was our first time meeting in person.after that we continued to talk and get to know each other on a differant level.he came to my home and stayed a week. now he lives with me.he's lived here for almost two years so things like this can work. you just have to keep your eyes wide open and follow your instincts.
i would say take it easy no go for a crazy meeting or something like that ...and besides how do you know that he is telling you the truths?? My advice do not trust people easy...personal experiance.....





we say Trust Is Good But Not Trust Better
If you plan on meeting in person, bring a friend and have emergeny numbers on your cell phone. I think its great tha you can find some one online, with out meeting in person, you know whit out haveing the looks problem get in the way.
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