Am i crazy here need relationship advice?

let me say please don't criticize how old i am i have parent grateful enough to put my fiance and i up we both are in are 30's with okay jobs not enough to get an apartment we are saving up for one. but the question i have is we have two different bedrooms and i am okay with him living here but he asked me to stay in his room am i crazy for say no or do i just need to get over myself and say go for it i am not sure if i am uncomfortable with the fact my parents are downstairs and i just don't want to get caught and kicked out which has been a threat before? not sure if my parents would actually do it but what should i do please help me out? i love him and cant wait until we are in our own place and be able to sleep together but why do i feel so uncomfortable here?Am i crazy here need relationship advice?
Wait until you have your own place, just say no, out of respect for your parents letting both of you stay there until you 2 get on your feet, was very kind. And out of common courtesy to them, begin right downstairs is enough to encourage him to step on the gasAm i crazy here need relationship advice?
Just tell him you are not comfortable with it. Maybe it'll modivate him to hlp save for your own place.





good luck!
if its there house an they say no then respect that not like you will be there forever ...been there done that
why do you two get a motel room at the week end ? , then there will not be a problem...........
my gess i that its the fact that ur parents r right down stairs.


how bout u just tell him all this? hope ive been helpfulls ^_^
I was injured at work about five years ago, and I stayed at my Mom's house for about a few weeks while I healed ( I have had my own apartment or house since I had gone off to college).


In this time, I reverted back to being my parents ';child';, and I was mentally different living in their house.


My recommendation for you is to get your own place ASAP. It will affect your relationship- with your husband, and his relationship with your parents.