Need relationship advice

single mom 3 sons 18, 16, 13 dating a man for 8 monthes, a bacholor, had a relationship ended year ago, still sees her son 4 tmes a week ok while i am going to his place, but doesn't like coming to my place, feel guily about leaving my kids and spending time with a kid that isn't even his, no talk of commitment to me, feeling fustrated.Need relationship advice
Do you really want to be with a man who asks you to be away from your kids to be with him? It seems that he doesn't value what is important to you.





Since there is no talk of commitment, why not look for someone who wants to be with you, respects your need to be with your kids and thinks in terms of developing a relationship that could make all of you a family one day.





If the kind of man you are looking for isn't in your life right now, better to be alone and make room for him to come into your life than be attached to the wrong man, feel guilty and frustrated trying to make something work when it clearly isn't working.


Need relationship advice
Time to figure out what you want from this entanglement...IMHO, your kids need you more than his kid so, why are you feeling guilty?





You made the choice to leave your kids home to spend time with one who isn't even considering your family...doesn't sound like a match made in heaven to me!





His inconsideration SHOULD be telling you the whole story - is this somebody you really feel worthy of having in your life?





Put your head on straight and make it right for YOUR kids, mom!
Obviously, you need to stop dating until your youngest turns 18. No shacking up or marrying either.
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I don't understand.





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What??? I don't understand either. Who has the three kids? You or her???