I sometimes spend 拢400 a time at these clubs. She is now noticing the lack of funds in my account when it's my turn to buy stuff for the house.
Can anyone give me some advice on how to cover my tracks - what are believable excuses?Emergency Relationship Advice Please?
Wipe that stupid smirk off of your face. Your wife is by far too clever to fall for any of your excuses. She knows you for what you are....the devil's advocate!!!! I hope you get aids!!!!Emergency Relationship Advice Please?
Why don't you just scale back on the scope of your activities at the club? Must you have lap dances each time you go? Why not just sit back and watch?
While I see nothing wrong with your going to strip clubs on occasion, it sounds as though you're going a little overboard.
you are a bit of a twat really aren't you, if you want to spend this type of money on watching woman take their cloth's off, why don't you pay your wife ? I pay her to do it, and she's really good at it !!!!!
Your life sounds like a soap-opera. Your wife has every reason to suspect you are having an affair, look at the evidence. Your best bet is to confess everything and promise, really promise to change and get help if you need it. If she leaves you, accept it like a grown up as it is your fault.
If she stays, do eveything you can to make up for it, she deserves it.
Good luck - you need it.
Here's a novel idea: Be Faithful. Act as thou you are and you will be! Try simply being a husband to the wife instead of friends with so many other women, ie. lap dancers, or perfumed dames.
You wife may want to be more to you than they ever could be, have you ever really tried being all you could be?
No advice needed to be more deceitful, it seems to be you nature. Feeling creative?
Not impossible to change if you wanted to do something really creative: Act faithful. Act as thou you are and you will be.
I've noticed your wife's responses to your questions. Are you really asking these questions or is this what you two do for entertainment?
stop spending your money at these clubs, or simply divorce. Dud...following your questions, you're ruining your life. Decide what you want. you cannot have everything.
Tell her you go to knocking shops in East London............
It sounds like you have an expensive addiction. How about giving up the clubs and take your wife to the movies instead?
instead of paying for strippers 400 pounds why dont to pop in the annesummers shops and surprise you wife with some sexy underwear and things put you energy on your marridge before you wife finds out as for lying about seeing strippers you need to come clean and admit to your wife you have a problem an addiction is when it affects your life.and people around you come clean and tell her the truth a problem shared is a problem solved
First close your eyes.
Now empty your mind of the clubs you go to.
Imagine seeing your wife at one of these clubs.
She's sitting near the front, alone, at a table. She sips from a glass.
Music starts.
A curtain swishes back and a bloke appears, dressed as a builder.
He dances slowly and deliberately. Of all the women in the room, he focusses on your wife.
As he dances, he takes off all of his clothes until he's only wearing a tiny thong that's barely covering his 'packet'.
Now see your wife stuffing twenties into the waistband of his thong and touching his bulge.
Angry?
Now imagine yourself at home, alone, hungry, wondering why there's no food in the house for your dinner. It's all being spent on some bloke at that club!
Catch a grip of yourself and get some help. You're addicted and you need to break the habit.
I pity your wife, she doesn't deserve someone as self-centred and selfish as you.
Tell her the truth. That's the only way to convince her you have not been fooling around. Good luck!
I have viewed a few of your other questions. Now I have one for you: Are you a chauvinist pig or a freak?
no way! u should be spending money on ur woman! spending on strippers occasionally is ok but make sure u are taking care of home first!
believeable excuses? don't know....sorry
well are you cheating on her...if u did then forget it...but if not just give her the best night of her life
first dont go to the clubs but if you cannot resist buy your wife something nice (on the cheep i suggest ebay) and sy it cost more than it did that way she feels spoilt and she thinks the money has gone on her
ur not faithfull looking at other naked women, stop the addiction and treat your wife right and spend the cash on her instead,
You are a loser.
If you dont think you are being unfaithful then tell her you go to lapdancing clubs.
She will ask you why you go - what will you reply? That fake sex with these girls sure beats her? Or maybe you just need to feel desired - in which case why not invest time and effort in getting that back with your wife.
Why spend 拢400 on women that pretend to like you for cash? For an ego boost I guess. Remember most of these girls have a real disdain of all the sad little men that come and pay them to pretend you are the hottest guy ever. Spend the next 拢400 on some lingerie and some striptease lessons for your wife if thats what floats your boat. At least she actually wants you, rather than seeing you as a wad of notes
first of all, you aren't being faithful at all. she has every reason to suspect that you are being anything BUT faithful to her. you are looking at other women lustfully, while your wife is at home. you need to admit you have a problem and try to clean up your act - not cover it up!!
Oh deary me!
Your will go blind if you lie to your wife...
....because when she finds out she will poke your eyes out!
u need to be honest with her.......how would u like if she was doing things like that behind ur back
stop going to the clubs and wasting 400 pound a time. there are no believable excuses
Sounds like she has every right to question you. Maybe you should tell her where the money's going and let her make your choice for you.
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