The spark is gone, I need relationship advice...?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, since I was 16. We have our own house and a dog. I really do love him and I've never wondered if the grass might be greener.... But lately the spark is just gone. We could spend the day together, go out for lunch or brekkie or visit somewhere nice but it's just nothing... there's no romance, no spark. I hope this makes sense to someone out there. I think we're just having a flat patch but I don't know how to fix it. Any advice on how to get back that loving feeling??The spark is gone, I need relationship advice...?
Don't know if this is the type of advice you wanted... but charging up your sex life can be a start.... do something crazy... when he comes home be sitting on the couch watching tv in your bday suit... or pull him into the shower with you... etc. As far as the rest of it... it will be what you make of it... remember the things that use to get you in that type of mood (romantic) and try to figure out what is missing.... recreate it or make up something new... usually after that long if you don't put forth the effort to keep life interesting with your significant other than it becomes boring.... the spark being going won't be far behind.... it has to be something out of the ordinary that makes you (or him) want to see each other ini the same light as when you first fell for him...The spark is gone, I need relationship advice...?
We all go through dry spells in relationships. Get into some activities for yourself. Go work out or volunteer! Why do I say that? Because absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Sounds like you just need to reconnect, honey :) Don't fret! It's natural to lose 'that lovin feeling' when you're all domesticated.





Try discovering something new together, like taking a class in a new hobby, something of that sort - rehashing the same-old-same-old won't infuse any life into the relationship if you're stuck in a rut.





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Go someplace new with him. Or, take a girls weekend trip and dont talk to him all weekend. Sometimes you can get too much of each other, you need to be apart for you to miss him.
It's called the 7 year itch. Good luck.
I have been with my bf for almost 3 years. and at times i feel the same way. When i start to feel like that i try to imagine what life would be like w/out him. It scares me to think about how differently things would be and i couldnt imagine not being with him. I try to do something extra special and romantic. Something that youve never done. It will change up the routine a bit. Believe me I know the feeling you are having and it is a very sad feeling. I try to talk to him about it. I hope this helped. Good Luck and stay strong!!!
it sound like it may be time to move on. It may hurt but it's probably the best thing for both of you
Honestly love is not all about the butterfly feeling, it's partially a decision if you can work through anything with someone. Most divorces and break-ups happen because people lose those little butterfly feelings for eachother and mistake that as not loving the person. That is not always true try doing things that you would have done for him 7 years ago, i mean little things like grabbing his hand and giving him unexpected hugs. Believe it or not guy's do like that stuff, they try to hide it.lol. I believe you will work everything out, don't mistake emotion for losing love for someone
If your not married and there are no kids involved.. break it off asap. you'll be so happy with a new toy
Buy a vibrator and see how creative he is at night! I am really being serious on this one!
you should find something to do during your day so that way when u dont see him you will miss him. try cooking him a romantic dinner and talk about ur problems with eachother. but it is normal to have this because u have been with him for so long just remind yourself the first day u seen him and remmeber how u felt... maybe ur guys need a vacation try going somewhere nice!!
make him cookies.