Someone give me relationship advice?

ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. %26amp; the past 2 years we've been consistantly arguing over any little small thing! [mainly because i start because of my insecurities %26amp; my short temper] we've tried everything not to argue anymore. Can someone tell me how to deal %26amp; stop arguing so much. [no break ups or breaks!]Someone give me relationship advice?
If you can already admit that you cause most of the arguments through your own personal problems - then you know where the work has to begin.





Try to calm down whenever something small comes up that you know will tick you off - think of how important it really is, and try not to blow things out of proportion.





Your insecurities are harder to confront. What is it about yourself that you are insecure about? You need to find what makes me feel the way you do, and change it. You will, in all likelihood, find that difficult. Just remember that there's always help - from your boyfriend, your friends, and even your family.





And also, it may sound weird, but going to see a counsleor may help, too. Just having someone who is impartial and won't judge you to talk to about these things would make you feel a lot better. And I'm sure it would eliminate a lot of stress which may contribute to your impatience and lack of confidence.





Hope that helps.Someone give me relationship advice?
me and my boyfriend have been having the same issues, accept we've only been dating for 7 months. i'm also at a loss of what to do...