Friday, April 30, 2010

Need some relationship advice?

Hey everyone! I need some help! My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months. We usually send e-mails everyday...but in the past month..I have noticed less e-mails. Should I be concerned on the status of our relationship? It seems like she has backed off a little bit and I am not sure why. Some advice would be great.Need some relationship advice?
Maybe shes going to her other boyfriends house during work hours and thats why shes not emailing??





Nah, don't worry about it... I don't think its that big a deal, it probably means taht she just has some other things to do.





If you're worried about her leaving you... candle light, dinner, rose petals and sexy lingerie... that'll stop her from ever leaving you.Need some relationship advice?
Sounds like what's normal in a relationship to me. After the newness wears off, there is usually a lessening of contact made. People get busy with other things in life and don't always have time to contact you as much as they once did. I wouldn't worry about it. What I would worry about is if I were smothering the girl or not. Some people are the kind who like to be with you 24/7. Some people just like to have some alone time or are not used to CONSTANT contact. And then there are some who are just really bad about answering emails. I'm one of them, so I know this much is true.





Don't worry about it and just go with things as they are for now. Your girl might just need time to deal with other things in her busy life. It doesn't mean she doesn't care. It just means that other things are becoming more pressing and she feels she has to deal with them first and foremost. She could also be trying to be careful she doesn't smother YOU, so she's letting you make most of the moves. It might be a sign that you're becoming more important to her and she's determined to be careful she doesn't do anything to screw it up. Past relationships could have taught her the importance of that. The only way I would let it worry me is if there are a LOT of other signs that something is up. Until that happens, stop stressing and enjoy getting to know each other as time goes by. Sooner or later you both will fall into a natural pattern of contact and dating that you both can be happy with. It's what happens with most couples and should happen to you too eventually.





Don't stress and good luck friend.
I know that I get real bored with emailing. I would much rather have a voice to voice or face to face conversation. Maybe your relationship is lacking in that area.

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