I need some serious relationship advice on this on?

I dated this guy in highschool and broke up with him to be w/ the guy I'm currently w/ %26amp; have been w/ for 7 years. Recently me and this guy started talking again via internet and sometimes on the phone. He is deployed to iraq and has been married for 3 years. We talked and he said he was very unhappyi n his marriage and that he would like to come to our hometown after his deployment %26amp; maybe start talking again, I was a little leary at 1st but then the fact grew on me. Well one day he just up and erased all his profiles, emails and everything and I haven't heard from him since. I checked the obitiuaries to make sure he hadn't been killed, but I haven't heard anything, I even emailed his wife and never got a response. I think I may be in love with him and we didn't part on bad words he said he would call and then just disappeared! He wrote me all these emails telling me how much he still loved me and how he never got over me! What do you think happened to him?I need some serious relationship advice on this on?
If he didnt get killed then it looks like he double thought things and decided to not talk to you, or maybe his wife found out and is deleting all of your emails and hes wondering the same thing about you? theres many different things that could have happend. but just wait, goood luck, hope this helpedI need some serious relationship advice on this on?
I think his WIFE found out and erased all of his accounts for him. What a lovely woman.
I believe that his wife found out and made him cancel everything. Apparently he did not really feel the way he said, and was likely needing attention since he was away. Also, he hasnt seen his wife in a while and was a little detached from her at the time. If you have been with this other guy for 7 years, why in the world would you even consider doing him like that? How would you feel if he did the same to you with one of his exes?
i think his wife caught him so he erased all his profiles. you shouldn't be trying to be with him anyway. you're in a relationship and he's married. if you really care for him. dump your man and see if he gets a divorce.