Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Im Having Doubts About My Relationship...Advice Please?!?

Im totally in love with my boyfriend. But i've been having doubts about our relationship. Were both seniors in high school and he's always talking about being together forever and our future. Im only 17! Honestly, being that im 17, I just wanna party and have fun. Yeah, its sounds kinda crazy, but thats what all high school seniors wanna do. I don't know what to do. All that stuff he's talkin bout (marriage, kids, living together, etc) im no where near ready for. What should i do?Im Having Doubts About My Relationship...Advice Please?!?
If you are in love, then you should be truthful with him. Tell him you love him, but you aren't ready for that kind of serious relationship. Make sure you tell him that you aren't saying you will never be ready, just that right now you want to have fun and enjoy life. You want him to part of that life, but not every waking moment of it. You're getting ready to graduate, tell him you just want to take it one step at a time, and when the time comes you'll both be ready and you'll both be much happier. If he makes you feel guilty about not be ready, then explain that rushing things always ends badly. You both need time to experience things, you can experience things together and not live together. Marriage needs to be permanent, and if you feel pushed into the situation, then it won't be. If he doesn't understand, then maybe he's not for you. There are alot of guys out there. You still have college to look forward to, and there are lots of guys in college. I think if he loves you though, he will understand. Good luck. I'm sure everything will work out for the best!Im Having Doubts About My Relationship...Advice Please?!?
Taalk to him about it, then go out and party, get it out of your system b4 you settle down. You'll be happier in the end
TALK to him about it. If it makes you uncomfortable or you just don't want to talk about it, tell him that. I'm sure he would understand if you said you just really don't know right now and don't want to plan ahead and just want to take the road one step at a time. And on occasion it wouldn't hurt to humor him and talk a bit about being with him forever, it means he really cares about you and loves you. But the best thing(And its good for trust and for the relationship) is to talk to him, and not just with this, but with anything that bugs you. I wish you luck, and i hope i have helped in any way possible. And as a hint, no matter the age of the guy, they still never see every little obvious thing you put in their face, so be straight forward too. Lol. : )
You're only gonna be a high school senior for once in your life!! Go out and have fun. You guys want 2 different things. Just stay friends w/ him. He can still b apart of you're life. But be young and be free.
Well you should be honest with yourself and if you're not ready for that then you need to be honest with him...You may want to be friends for a while and hopefully he'll wait around for you...If not, that's the chance you're taking...He may be the one for you, so you have a lot to think about.
Ha I am 10 years on you and still going thru the same stuff, i think we never really know anything for sure but at 17 there is definately alot more out there for you to experience and him to, the only think i know is that everything changes and NOTHING is forever not a relationship not a breakup nothing, when you stop learning from each other it is time to let go, but who knows what the future holds????? if its meant to be it will regardless of weather you break up for a time or not

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