Advice on my relationship with my pregnant girlfriend ?

hi my names gregor and i am looking for advice on my relationship.





well i am currently in a relationship the now and my girlfriend is pregnant but its not my child, i love my girlfriend to bits but the boy that she went with i don't like him. and i don't know if that boy wants anything to so with the child. but i would like to to help my girlfriend raise this child but i am scared in-case my mum and dad don't talk to me ever again.





please can someone give me advice on this situation ? thanksAdvice on my relationship with my pregnant girlfriend ?
hiya, do not rush into any think at the Moment.you never gave your age,but i think you are around 17/18.if you are 18yrs and over your mum can not do any think,to stop you being with the child.under 18 and she can stop you seeing the girl and baby,but it would mean she would have to take a court order out against you and her.if you are together with the girl,and you love her.and the baby's father is not on the scene,then there is no reason why you can't be in the baby's life.im a mum to 3 grown up kids.my son lived with a girl who was having another man's baby.the baby's father did not want the baby.my son as taken on the baby as his own,and as got my son's name.there made there relationship work,and have been together 10yrs now.i class the child as my grand son,even tho its not my son's child.you need to talk to your mum,and tell her what you want to do,and ask for her blessings.i will tell you know its hard work,as its hard to take on another man's child.but if you love the girl,and you both want to make a go of it,then go for it.good luck,and talk to your mum.xxAdvice on my relationship with my pregnant girlfriend ?
First of all ask yourself if you are really up to taking a child that is not yours and is your girlfriend's. What if you and your girlfriend get in a fight. What if later on you start thinking about how many guys she has done it with. Now if you really dont care about these things. Talk to your parents and see if it is ok for you to babysit the child and help her out a little bit. If your parents say no think about if this is really going to be a long term relationship and who is more important the girl or your parents.
Honestly if you love her and the child isn't born yet you are able to raise it as your own with her, your parents should see how nobel you are being by wanting to be with her and how much you love her and her unborn child. Keep in mind a child's emotions are VERY fragile and unless you plan on being there for her and the child for it's whole life then don't get too involved. Leaving a child in early years can make it to where the child doesn't trust anyone the mother gets with later on in life distancing the relationship between the child and mother. I say go for it if you are completely in love with her.
This all depends on how old you and your girlfriend are, if you plan on living together or getting married or even just supporting her then you will need to be working etc.,


If you both adults then it does not matter what your mum or dad do or say does it, but I suspect you both are very young.


The best thing to do would be to see how things go and once the baby arrives take it from there, things change when babies come along and it will be a test of both your feelings for each other.
How old are you?





Ok unfortunately since you are not the biological father. U can't decided wether or not u are going to be in the kids life. That's up to the kids mom.


As far as your parents, I would think that they would be proud to know that they raised a good man who will step up to the plate and be there for someone who needs him, weither or not it is his responsibility.


U can't make the biological father not be in the childs life. Maybe the baby will be lucky enough to have two men in his or her life that really care for it.


I think that you are a good man and only good can come of that, so just do whatever feels right to you.
its a hard 1 but if u really love her and want to be with her then ur parents should respect you for ur decision.


if she wants you to help raise the child and u 2 be he father then there is nothin wrog with that


deep down u no wat u want to do and u should go for it
there is no answer for you here, but you all ready know the answer my friend, you need to listen to your heart.


thats the only REAL advice that anyone can give you, if it were me, id stay with the girl if i truly loved her.





good luck to you both and take care.
Hello Gregor


Why would you parents not talk to you again? You are supporting a women that is having another mans child to me that is remarkable. They should be proud of you!
I think your parents will be very proud of you if you step up to help raise this child, %26amp; I'm pretty sure your girlfriend could not be happierif you did help, thats something that every woman wants to here.





Amberness/.xx
why would your mum and dad not speak to you again.:S just tell them that you love this girl and you want to stay with her even if that means to help raise her baby. xx