So me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and living together for a year and a half! Recently he has decided to move out, cause he has never had the chance to be fully independent! (like bills etc.) But recently I have been having these dreams that our relationship had ended and woke up crying! Does this mean anything? Please HelpNeed Relationship Advice?
If he wants to move out after living with you for 1 1/2 years and uses the excuse that he wants to be fully independant than its time for you to let him go and move on. The both of you should have became fully independant before you moved in with one another in the first place and you dont sound very independant. Your dreaming about him and crying because your not as willing to let go and break-ups hurt. Please take care of yourself and dont be so quick to jump into living with someone. Best Wishes.Need Relationship Advice?
Your dreams are probably just emanating from your insecurities about his moving out. They are not forseeing the future unless you allow them to. Explain your insecurities about him moving out to your boyfriend. Chances are he doesn't even realize that he's hurting you, subconciously or not.
Your just scared to leave him.or he might leave you..
It just means you are afraid of losing your relationship.
Just let him do what he has to do. Remember, the more you try to keep him from doing what he wants - the more he wants freedom.
Set him free, if it's meant to be - he will find his way back to you.
dreams are just pieces of your conchence put together.. so these dreams are your worries about this ending.. you need to do something to relax your body and mind to get it off of the worries about him ending the relationship maybe you should try going to a spa for a day..
you are worrying about things that might not even be true
no dreams don't always come true. but he just wants to be independent and live byhimselff. don't stress. everything will be okay. everyone always says the first year is the hardest. if he starts acting weird after he moves out then you might have something to worry about. but don't stress now. everything will be okay.
There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend wanting to be independent, but that does not mean he cant be independent while living with you. If he wants to experience the bills and everything like that, let him help out with paying utilities like water or cable. As far as the dream, it can be interpreted as since he has recently moved out, you feel as if you are losing him because you are not used to being away from him, just talk to him and tell him how you feel and about the dreams and let him know that you love him, ask him to move back in and explain to him that he can be independent while living with you at the same time. Good luck with everything, i hope this helps.
nah, tell him to just not move too far away so you two can see eachother every day. there could be a lot of reasons that he wants to do this. maybe he's cheating :( i really don't like saying that to you though, because if you have a good relationship which you didn't say anything about any real problems and your sex life is good (which i even tell my gf thats not all i care about but it IS important for a good relationship) then you don't have to worry about it. your relationship won't end, and he's most likely not cheating. Giving him the benefit of the doubt maybe he just wants to prove that he is able to be independent and maybe he just feels like he needs a little bit of space to be alone once in a while. Living together does kind of take away from all of your alone time... i enjoy being alone too so i can understand where he's coming from. you don't have anything to worry about unless he starts going out to dinner with ';friends'; or goes out to clubs and stuff, just try to eat together every night and stuff but he probably just wants to have some time alone to think and stuff. Hey, it could actually help your relationship in the long run! :) sometimes once you're away from eachother for a bit it makes you enjoy the time you have together a lot more and you will cherish one and other a lot more :) ( trust me i'm in the military and every time i have to leave my gf i fall in love with her like 10 times more while i'm gone, its all about trust and faithfulness )
Yes, it mean that is a 50% he'll going to break up with you.
the reason is he already decided to move our and his reason is because he has never had the chance to be independent. give me a break!.
Dam that could be a little wierd tho if i lived with my gf i would want her to stay and experence that so i think you should be a little worried he mite be cheating but dout it he mite jst be breathing but he will be back soon if there isnt any problems
he moved out cause he wanted to be independent what is that rubbish?
you been living with him what one and a half years, thats a pretty big commitment.
there has to be some other reason. sit him down tell him that you just want to be with him and if he really wanted to be with you why would he move out so he can pay bills on hes own?
everyone needs someone why would he decide to be independent now?
there has to some other reasons just talk to him about them and ask what they are
I think you're feeling insecure about your relationship with him.
Friday, April 30, 2010
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