I desperately need relationship advice!?

There is a girl, 15 yrs old (for the rest of the story i'll refer to her as DeBbie) that i, 15 yrs old as well, like and we have been friends for about 3 years. Lately, however, I and Debbie have become closer friends and she had told me that she, once a few months ago, had smoked marijuana and is thinking about doing it again.





Please understand that she is NOT some drug addict, in fact Debbie is literaly one of the smartest kids in my high school. I am worried that she might do it again, although she made a promise to me that she would not, and i do not know what to tell her. Personally i want to guide Debbie away from drugs and i am afraid i might just be another useless shoulder to hold on to.





I care about her very much and i want to keep her safe and with the ';right crowd';. Please tell me what i should tell this person. By the way i am planning to go to Medieval Times, a dinner theater, with her. Should I talk to her there? I want her to know how i feel about her.I desperately need relationship advice!?
Say exactly what you said here except make it a private location.I desperately need relationship advice!?
sounds like you have a great head on your shoulder and she is lucky to have a friend like you, yes take her out. and let her know how you feel about her, and try to convince her she doesn't have to try any drugs just because her other friends and that. get some booklets on drugs and let her read about it. good luck.
Hi desperate:


It is difficult to tell someone not to do something. If they wish to do it they will find a way to do it. You cannot save the world my friend. You can only keep yourself from doing such things and experimenting with substances that may harm you and are illegal. I know you care about her and it is not wrong to encourage her not to indulge in such activity. I am a poor one to teach her because I have tried marijuana myself when I was 20 years old. I found it to make me paranoid and I do not like the experience. It may be different for others because it is so popular. But for me I do not advise it. I like having a clear head and I try not to put anything into my body that is not healthy. Sometime this drug can be laced with stuff like opium. This happened to me once when I was in The Viet Nam war where I tried it and it was so strange, I prayed that I would survive the night. I am an advocate of no smoking, very little Alcohol and a healthy diet. Especially No Drugs.


Be a good friend to her and give her your heart felt opinion. Don't be her pain in the back side. She will resent it if you nag about it. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink. Rev. TomCat
no it wont b the right time to tell her wait to its just you n her when it is just the 2 of you then sit her down n then tell her she should not b going down that path it will hurt her

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