Is this normal? Relationship Advice Needed Please?

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about three months now and in those three months we have seen each other twice. Is it bad that I am wanting to see her more? I try to make plans but she can never make them and when I ask her when's good she says she always busy and then later I find that she is sitting around on her computer and she text me to chat on AIM and then leaves ten minutes later. She doesn't seem to want to make time for me. Am I looking at this wrong? Please help me


Also, What can I do to find out if she's having a problem with our relationship?


FYI: I give her anything she wants and I am always trying to do nice things. All of her friends say that I am sweetest guy ever and that she is luck to have me.


Please give me the ';Signs'; for good and bad things you can look for pleaseIs this normal? Relationship Advice Needed Please?
This is horrible, I dont want to hurt your feelings, but to be blunt: she is not that into you. Because if she really liked you, then she would be waiting by the phone, and keeping her nights open in case you wanted to do something. Its a shame, but its not worth it... If you are a really good guy, then go find you a nice girl who will treat you like you deserve.Is this normal? Relationship Advice Needed Please?
The ';signs'; are clearly already there! She doesn't have time for you and always makes excuses not to be with you! Sorry to say, but it's time to drop her and move on! You will find someone who wants to spend time with you!
hmm theres several factors... do you both have jobs?? Do you go to school? twice in 3 months is not very much... how are you ';doing nice things for her'; and ';giving her everything she wants'; if you arent even seeing her...
';I give her anything she wants and I am always trying to do nice things. All of her friends say that I am sweetest guy ever and that she is luck to have me.';





I think this is why. She sounds like one of those girls who enjoys a challenge, and you're not providing enough of a challenge for her. Go do your own thing and ignore her for a while.





I bet if you break up with her and go ga ga over another girl, she'd be the type to try to get back with you.
It sounds like she really isn't interested the way you are. I think she is trying to give you the brush off in a nice way. It isn't normal to only see someone twice in 3 months that you consider you bf/gf. Find someone who appreciates what you have to offer and enjoys spending a lot of time with you. Sorry but I can't see this relationship going very far. At least based on what you have told us.
Um, I hate to break it to you, but you aren't her boyfriend. If you've been out twice in 3 months, you are the guy she calls when her real boyfriend is busy with something else.





Sorry I had to be the one to break it to you...
no, its not weird that you want to see her. maybe you should move on to someone whom you can actually see and spend time with. if she is living in a different city then that's understandable. but its probably best that you move on. you sound like a real sweetheart and there are millions of girls that want a person like you.





best wishes!