I've been dating this girl for about 3 months. She's really nice. Seems to like me a lot. But--and this may be slightly immature--but she has several pictures on her Myspace website of her kissing other boyfriends she has had, and cuddling with them. It's f-ing depressing. Not to mention all her past boyfriends have been bad dudes with tattoos all over and i'm Mr. Conservative. Not to mention she has quite a lot more experience. We're both 20. What should I do? Every time I look at it I can't comprehend why she likes me and infuriate at the pictures of past lovers. WHAT TO DO....help!!!
Thanks, BradDire need of relationship advice?
Nothing like a little dose of honest. Tell her what and how much what is there bothers you--and ask her what she sees in Mr. Conservative. You don't need to just unload on her but has nicely, and with an ';want to know'; attitude. I know that seems drastic but here's the deal--if she's sympathetic and understanding, you'll very soon find out. And if she isn't, you'll know that and be able to do what you probably need to do.
Friday, April 30, 2010
Are u wantin relationship advice, or just want to fellowship with others, then come join us?
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Looking4thatspecialsomeone/
This group is meant for you if people:
1)IF you are facing problems in relationship
2)If you are seeking your soul mate
3)If you think you can advice others
4)If you are seeking tips about pleasing your bf/gf
This group will be moderated and I assure you that it will
be one of the best ever groups where everyone can interact with each
other without any kind of hindrance..
PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS GROUP WILL NOT HAVE ANY ADULT CONTENT BUT TO
SHARE FEELING KNOWN AS LOVE %26amp; TO SEEK ADVICE IN THAT MATTER.
SO you can have genuine people here looking for making friendship
with you, and who knows, you may find your soulmate here.
Suggestions are most welcome.
We also understand that some members would like to have their partner back. This is a forum for some members who want to save their relationships and stop their breakup, separation, or divorce. Breaking up doesn't always have to mean it's over for good. We invite you to join us and exchange support, ideas, and encouragemnt with others who know how it feels to be in love.
Now in closing this is a great group for serious people looking for love and long term relationships,so get a pic and upload and start posting messages. Tell us a little something about you, and what you are looking for in a life partner. This group is now being created for all of you, I really hope you enjoy this group.Are u wantin relationship advice, or just want to fellowship with others, then come join us?
sounds interesting...i will be there...Are u wantin relationship advice, or just want to fellowship with others, then come join us?
i jst want to fart bad on ur this group.
This group is meant for you if people:
1)IF you are facing problems in relationship
2)If you are seeking your soul mate
3)If you think you can advice others
4)If you are seeking tips about pleasing your bf/gf
This group will be moderated and I assure you that it will
be one of the best ever groups where everyone can interact with each
other without any kind of hindrance..
PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS GROUP WILL NOT HAVE ANY ADULT CONTENT BUT TO
SHARE FEELING KNOWN AS LOVE %26amp; TO SEEK ADVICE IN THAT MATTER.
SO you can have genuine people here looking for making friendship
with you, and who knows, you may find your soulmate here.
Suggestions are most welcome.
We also understand that some members would like to have their partner back. This is a forum for some members who want to save their relationships and stop their breakup, separation, or divorce. Breaking up doesn't always have to mean it's over for good. We invite you to join us and exchange support, ideas, and encouragemnt with others who know how it feels to be in love.
Now in closing this is a great group for serious people looking for love and long term relationships,so get a pic and upload and start posting messages. Tell us a little something about you, and what you are looking for in a life partner. This group is now being created for all of you, I really hope you enjoy this group.Are u wantin relationship advice, or just want to fellowship with others, then come join us?
sounds interesting...i will be there...Are u wantin relationship advice, or just want to fellowship with others, then come join us?
i jst want to fart bad on ur this group.
Would you seek relationship advice from your parents?
Ummmmmm,
NOOOOOO!Would you seek relationship advice from your parents?
Not a chance. No way, no how.Would you seek relationship advice from your parents?
No. They're dead.
Probably not. But I respect them and ask them for advice in other areas of my life.
Oh, hell no. They screwed up their relationship with each other. They're both with different people now and happy, but I don't particularly care for the manner in which they did it.
I don't want it, I don't need it.
Never.
no, but then i don't tend to take relationship advise from anyone, i always do what my heart says
I have and they are pretty helpful. Remember they have seen everything already. It's great for someone to point the way when you need it.
my mom gives good relationship advice
nopeliving nature
NOOOOOO!Would you seek relationship advice from your parents?
Not a chance. No way, no how.Would you seek relationship advice from your parents?
No. They're dead.
Probably not. But I respect them and ask them for advice in other areas of my life.
Oh, hell no. They screwed up their relationship with each other. They're both with different people now and happy, but I don't particularly care for the manner in which they did it.
I don't want it, I don't need it.
Never.
no, but then i don't tend to take relationship advise from anyone, i always do what my heart says
I have and they are pretty helpful. Remember they have seen everything already. It's great for someone to point the way when you need it.
my mom gives good relationship advice
nope
Books with good relationship advice...?
Are there any books you would recommend on dating and relationships? Any personal experience with these books helping you?Books with good relationship advice...?
-he's just not that into you Greg Behrendt
-Real Love (the truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships) Greg Baer
-Stop being the string along, A relationship guide to being the one (best book i have ever read) barbara rose
-It's called a breakup because it's broken
All of these books are REALLY good. They have all helped me deal with different situations in relationships. I highly recommend all of them. Trust me you won't be disappointed.
-he's just not that into you Greg Behrendt
-Real Love (the truth about finding unconditional love and fulfilling relationships) Greg Baer
-Stop being the string along, A relationship guide to being the one (best book i have ever read) barbara rose
-It's called a breakup because it's broken
All of these books are REALLY good. They have all helped me deal with different situations in relationships. I highly recommend all of them. Trust me you won't be disappointed.
Someone give me relationship advice?
ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. %26amp; the past 2 years we've been consistantly arguing over any little small thing! [mainly because i start because of my insecurities %26amp; my short temper] we've tried everything not to argue anymore. Can someone tell me how to deal %26amp; stop arguing so much. [no break ups or breaks!]Someone give me relationship advice?
If you can already admit that you cause most of the arguments through your own personal problems - then you know where the work has to begin.
Try to calm down whenever something small comes up that you know will tick you off - think of how important it really is, and try not to blow things out of proportion.
Your insecurities are harder to confront. What is it about yourself that you are insecure about? You need to find what makes me feel the way you do, and change it. You will, in all likelihood, find that difficult. Just remember that there's always help - from your boyfriend, your friends, and even your family.
And also, it may sound weird, but going to see a counsleor may help, too. Just having someone who is impartial and won't judge you to talk to about these things would make you feel a lot better. And I'm sure it would eliminate a lot of stress which may contribute to your impatience and lack of confidence.
Hope that helps.Someone give me relationship advice?
me and my boyfriend have been having the same issues, accept we've only been dating for 7 months. i'm also at a loss of what to do...
If you can already admit that you cause most of the arguments through your own personal problems - then you know where the work has to begin.
Try to calm down whenever something small comes up that you know will tick you off - think of how important it really is, and try not to blow things out of proportion.
Your insecurities are harder to confront. What is it about yourself that you are insecure about? You need to find what makes me feel the way you do, and change it. You will, in all likelihood, find that difficult. Just remember that there's always help - from your boyfriend, your friends, and even your family.
And also, it may sound weird, but going to see a counsleor may help, too. Just having someone who is impartial and won't judge you to talk to about these things would make you feel a lot better. And I'm sure it would eliminate a lot of stress which may contribute to your impatience and lack of confidence.
Hope that helps.Someone give me relationship advice?
me and my boyfriend have been having the same issues, accept we've only been dating for 7 months. i'm also at a loss of what to do...
I need some relationship advice please?
well i have thiss boyfriend and he's kindaa boring he never talks to me or text me and if he does text me all he say's is hi or good night or i love you but i never feel like there's a real connection there!! should i brake up with him?? also i have this EX boyfriend that i kindda like again but he's kinna to much of a playa fo me and i dont wanna get played and hurt again;[ what should i do??I need some relationship advice please?
I don't think ur in love wit ur current boyfriend, so u shud not b in a relationship wit him.. Break up..
Wen u think ur ex's gonna use u, obviously don't let anyone use u... So, u shouldn't be getting back with him.. :)
Jus b single for a while, life wud b fun even wen u don hav a boyfriend.. :) U knw sometimes, its better to not be in any relationship rather than being in a bad one.. :)
Pls answer my question:
http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…I need some relationship advice please?
Well that isn't a very good relationship so talk to him tell he either needs to step his game up and start talking to you more and doing what he's suppose to or it wont work out and wait a few days. If he changes then everything is alright and if not then you need to find yourself a new man and as far as your ex don't go back to him because it is most likely a waste of time.!
Talk to ur bf about it. It prob seems hard buh just try talkin to him. If he doesnt wanna talk about it or wanna at least try ... he's not worth it as it shows he doesnt rly care bout u. as for ur ex if hes a playa he's defo not worth it. he makes ya feel great at the start and all buh at the end of the day u want a fella that really likes u and only you. Hope this helped (:
Break up with your boyfriend. There's no reason for you to drag it on if you're just not into him. But, don't go back to your ex either. Players are jerks and they don't deserve girlfriends. Besides you don't want to be the victim again. That's the worst pain in the world.
if ur not happy and dont want to b with him then breakup w him. if u dont want to b with ur ex bc hes a playa then dont get back with him. if theres no connection then end it, if ur afraid and kno theres a chance of getting hurt then dont start that, dont do that to urself.
um...kk your boyfriend it seems like he just thinks of you as a bud. and your ex forget him it's not wroth getting hurt trust me on that a player is a player and there not wroth it
break up with him and dont take the other one back.
if there is no connection then forget it cause its not gonna get better
and there is no point in going out with a player unless you wanna get hurt.
well my advice too u is break up wit ue boyfriend... obviously he just not that into you.. but the ex thing if u feel its worth trying all over again then go for it life is too short to stress
i would ditch both of them
some guys just don't talk much
I don't think ur in love wit ur current boyfriend, so u shud not b in a relationship wit him.. Break up..
Wen u think ur ex's gonna use u, obviously don't let anyone use u... So, u shouldn't be getting back with him.. :)
Jus b single for a while, life wud b fun even wen u don hav a boyfriend.. :) U knw sometimes, its better to not be in any relationship rather than being in a bad one.. :)
Pls answer my question:
http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…I need some relationship advice please?
Well that isn't a very good relationship so talk to him tell he either needs to step his game up and start talking to you more and doing what he's suppose to or it wont work out and wait a few days. If he changes then everything is alright and if not then you need to find yourself a new man and as far as your ex don't go back to him because it is most likely a waste of time.!
Talk to ur bf about it. It prob seems hard buh just try talkin to him. If he doesnt wanna talk about it or wanna at least try ... he's not worth it as it shows he doesnt rly care bout u. as for ur ex if hes a playa he's defo not worth it. he makes ya feel great at the start and all buh at the end of the day u want a fella that really likes u and only you. Hope this helped (:
Break up with your boyfriend. There's no reason for you to drag it on if you're just not into him. But, don't go back to your ex either. Players are jerks and they don't deserve girlfriends. Besides you don't want to be the victim again. That's the worst pain in the world.
if ur not happy and dont want to b with him then breakup w him. if u dont want to b with ur ex bc hes a playa then dont get back with him. if theres no connection then end it, if ur afraid and kno theres a chance of getting hurt then dont start that, dont do that to urself.
um...kk your boyfriend it seems like he just thinks of you as a bud. and your ex forget him it's not wroth getting hurt trust me on that a player is a player and there not wroth it
break up with him and dont take the other one back.
if there is no connection then forget it cause its not gonna get better
and there is no point in going out with a player unless you wanna get hurt.
well my advice too u is break up wit ue boyfriend... obviously he just not that into you.. but the ex thing if u feel its worth trying all over again then go for it life is too short to stress
i would ditch both of them
some guys just don't talk much
What is one great bit of relationship advice you'd like to give me?
the greatest thing you'll ever learn isn't it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all... it's better to recognise the difference between love and lust and to be honest with yourself about what you want out of any relationship before you enter into it... and to know how to communicate this to your partner so there is no question... and to know how to walk away if you and your partner can't come together on it. and to enjoy your time together while it lasts. and for some reason, the country hit 'the gambler' by kenny rogers comes to mind:
you gotta know when to hold 'em
know when to fold 'em
know when to walk away
and know when to run
you never count your money
when you're sitting at the table
there'll be time enough for countin'
when the dealings done
now those are words of wisdom.What is one great bit of relationship advice you'd like to give me?
You Can't Change Anyone But YourselfWhat is one great bit of relationship advice you'd like to give me?
don`t ever get married !!! those papers you sign are evil....its downhill from there !!!!!
Never even attempt a serious heartfelt conversation.
Keep the lines of communication open
Do what ever you man wants.
Think before you speak!!!!!!!!! Once you say some things you can never take them back!!!!!!
that its harder and hurts more than anyone tells you, even when you have a good relationship
Stay single and keep your virginity
life it too short for fighting, either talk it out and compromise or don't be together. Don't get me wrong you can disagree but if deep down you are not happy move on
One can't always give, the other can't always take. So, give and take!
99.9% of the time he is lying to you
get out while you can.
Never settle for less than the very best. And always be honest with one another. If there is even a hint of dishonesty, bail out.
If you change the way your bf dresses, don't get bent if he does the same to you.
That differs between girls and guys.
Guys: Do you want to be happy? Or do you want to be right?
Girls: Just don't get between a guy and his sports.
Here are a few quotes, although I don't know if you've already seen them:
1. If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back, he yours, but if he doesn't, he never was.
2. Even if we want it to be, happily ever after isn't always true.
3. When the time comes to let go, then let go...don't hang around where you don't have to.
Be honest and be yourself. Don't let anyone tell you what you can and can't do and if they ever hit you leave cos no matter what they say it will happen again!
you gotta know when to hold 'em
know when to fold 'em
know when to walk away
and know when to run
you never count your money
when you're sitting at the table
there'll be time enough for countin'
when the dealings done
now those are words of wisdom.What is one great bit of relationship advice you'd like to give me?
You Can't Change Anyone But YourselfWhat is one great bit of relationship advice you'd like to give me?
don`t ever get married !!! those papers you sign are evil....its downhill from there !!!!!
Never even attempt a serious heartfelt conversation.
Keep the lines of communication open
Do what ever you man wants.
Think before you speak!!!!!!!!! Once you say some things you can never take them back!!!!!!
that its harder and hurts more than anyone tells you, even when you have a good relationship
Stay single and keep your virginity
life it too short for fighting, either talk it out and compromise or don't be together. Don't get me wrong you can disagree but if deep down you are not happy move on
One can't always give, the other can't always take. So, give and take!
99.9% of the time he is lying to you
get out while you can.
Never settle for less than the very best. And always be honest with one another. If there is even a hint of dishonesty, bail out.
If you change the way your bf dresses, don't get bent if he does the same to you.
That differs between girls and guys.
Guys: Do you want to be happy? Or do you want to be right?
Girls: Just don't get between a guy and his sports.
Here are a few quotes, although I don't know if you've already seen them:
1. If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back, he yours, but if he doesn't, he never was.
2. Even if we want it to be, happily ever after isn't always true.
3. When the time comes to let go, then let go...don't hang around where you don't have to.
Be honest and be yourself. Don't let anyone tell you what you can and can't do and if they ever hit you leave cos no matter what they say it will happen again!
The spark is gone, I need relationship advice...?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, since I was 16. We have our own house and a dog. I really do love him and I've never wondered if the grass might be greener.... But lately the spark is just gone. We could spend the day together, go out for lunch or brekkie or visit somewhere nice but it's just nothing... there's no romance, no spark. I hope this makes sense to someone out there. I think we're just having a flat patch but I don't know how to fix it. Any advice on how to get back that loving feeling??The spark is gone, I need relationship advice...?
Don't know if this is the type of advice you wanted... but charging up your sex life can be a start.... do something crazy... when he comes home be sitting on the couch watching tv in your bday suit... or pull him into the shower with you... etc. As far as the rest of it... it will be what you make of it... remember the things that use to get you in that type of mood (romantic) and try to figure out what is missing.... recreate it or make up something new... usually after that long if you don't put forth the effort to keep life interesting with your significant other than it becomes boring.... the spark being going won't be far behind.... it has to be something out of the ordinary that makes you (or him) want to see each other ini the same light as when you first fell for him...The spark is gone, I need relationship advice...?
We all go through dry spells in relationships. Get into some activities for yourself. Go work out or volunteer! Why do I say that? Because absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Sounds like you just need to reconnect, honey :) Don't fret! It's natural to lose 'that lovin feeling' when you're all domesticated.
Try discovering something new together, like taking a class in a new hobby, something of that sort - rehashing the same-old-same-old won't infuse any life into the relationship if you're stuck in a rut.
Try this too! http://www.edenfantasys.com/101-NIGHTS-O鈥?/a>
Go someplace new with him. Or, take a girls weekend trip and dont talk to him all weekend. Sometimes you can get too much of each other, you need to be apart for you to miss him.
It's called the 7 year itch. Good luck.
I have been with my bf for almost 3 years. and at times i feel the same way. When i start to feel like that i try to imagine what life would be like w/out him. It scares me to think about how differently things would be and i couldnt imagine not being with him. I try to do something extra special and romantic. Something that youve never done. It will change up the routine a bit. Believe me I know the feeling you are having and it is a very sad feeling. I try to talk to him about it. I hope this helped. Good Luck and stay strong!!!
it sound like it may be time to move on. It may hurt but it's probably the best thing for both of you
Honestly love is not all about the butterfly feeling, it's partially a decision if you can work through anything with someone. Most divorces and break-ups happen because people lose those little butterfly feelings for eachother and mistake that as not loving the person. That is not always true try doing things that you would have done for him 7 years ago, i mean little things like grabbing his hand and giving him unexpected hugs. Believe it or not guy's do like that stuff, they try to hide it.lol. I believe you will work everything out, don't mistake emotion for losing love for someone
If your not married and there are no kids involved.. break it off asap. you'll be so happy with a new toy
Buy a vibrator and see how creative he is at night! I am really being serious on this one!
you should find something to do during your day so that way when u dont see him you will miss him. try cooking him a romantic dinner and talk about ur problems with eachother. but it is normal to have this because u have been with him for so long just remind yourself the first day u seen him and remmeber how u felt... maybe ur guys need a vacation try going somewhere nice!!
make him cookies.
Don't know if this is the type of advice you wanted... but charging up your sex life can be a start.... do something crazy... when he comes home be sitting on the couch watching tv in your bday suit... or pull him into the shower with you... etc. As far as the rest of it... it will be what you make of it... remember the things that use to get you in that type of mood (romantic) and try to figure out what is missing.... recreate it or make up something new... usually after that long if you don't put forth the effort to keep life interesting with your significant other than it becomes boring.... the spark being going won't be far behind.... it has to be something out of the ordinary that makes you (or him) want to see each other ini the same light as when you first fell for him...The spark is gone, I need relationship advice...?
We all go through dry spells in relationships. Get into some activities for yourself. Go work out or volunteer! Why do I say that? Because absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Sounds like you just need to reconnect, honey :) Don't fret! It's natural to lose 'that lovin feeling' when you're all domesticated.
Try discovering something new together, like taking a class in a new hobby, something of that sort - rehashing the same-old-same-old won't infuse any life into the relationship if you're stuck in a rut.
Try this too! http://www.edenfantasys.com/101-NIGHTS-O鈥?/a>
Go someplace new with him. Or, take a girls weekend trip and dont talk to him all weekend. Sometimes you can get too much of each other, you need to be apart for you to miss him.
It's called the 7 year itch. Good luck.
I have been with my bf for almost 3 years. and at times i feel the same way. When i start to feel like that i try to imagine what life would be like w/out him. It scares me to think about how differently things would be and i couldnt imagine not being with him. I try to do something extra special and romantic. Something that youve never done. It will change up the routine a bit. Believe me I know the feeling you are having and it is a very sad feeling. I try to talk to him about it. I hope this helped. Good Luck and stay strong!!!
it sound like it may be time to move on. It may hurt but it's probably the best thing for both of you
Honestly love is not all about the butterfly feeling, it's partially a decision if you can work through anything with someone. Most divorces and break-ups happen because people lose those little butterfly feelings for eachother and mistake that as not loving the person. That is not always true try doing things that you would have done for him 7 years ago, i mean little things like grabbing his hand and giving him unexpected hugs. Believe it or not guy's do like that stuff, they try to hide it.lol. I believe you will work everything out, don't mistake emotion for losing love for someone
If your not married and there are no kids involved.. break it off asap. you'll be so happy with a new toy
Buy a vibrator and see how creative he is at night! I am really being serious on this one!
you should find something to do during your day so that way when u dont see him you will miss him. try cooking him a romantic dinner and talk about ur problems with eachother. but it is normal to have this because u have been with him for so long just remind yourself the first day u seen him and remmeber how u felt... maybe ur guys need a vacation try going somewhere nice!!
make him cookies.
Can you help me with an relationship advice?
hey everybody! I need an advice about my non-existent relationships... so well, I am 19, and I ve never had a boyfriend, and I just don't have anybody...Now in a psychology course i am taking, it says that the one achievement of early adulthood is to learn to establish intimate relationships...but for me, it just seems that I don't know how to do it!Frankly, I do not know what my problem is...Am I not sending the right message out? Am I boring or something? Have you ever known anybody who has the same problem? I am just so worried that I am just going to stay single and alone forever this way! or maybe i am just too desperate? ~sigh~ anyways, i really hope that somebody more experienced can help me here..after all I am just looking for love. I just have no clue as to how to establish relationships! :(Can you help me with an relationship advice?
Begin with friendship, and work your way up. I know, you're in college, no time to go out and meet people; well, that's not all that true, if you know how to prioritize. (I'm only guessing here, since you haven't told us about your habits.) But if you get out and meet enough people, be it during class time or otherwise, you'll improve your chances. But as to this psychology thing: ONE achievement is establishing intimate relationships, not THE ONE. To me, THE ONE achievement is establishing your own identity. So don't take all that to heart; as you grow, you'll learn better.
I'm saying this because I was a lot like you when I was your age. But I learned by experience that patience is the key. If you rush, you make more mistakes than if you take your time. I'm talking about looking for love in all the wrong places, doing things that you'll regret later, and generally tripping yourself up. So relax, keep your eyes and ears open, and wait for an opening. In fact, go and check out a football game or the like; broaden your horizons, and you'll be better for it in the long run. But most importantly, relax! Okay?Can you help me with an relationship advice?
You have to invest time with someone in order to develop intimacy. Sounds like you haven't met someone you really want to invest in yet. And what do you really want in a boyfriend? Once you figure that out, it's easier to sift through any potential candidates. Besides that, the Bible says in Proverbs 31:10 - A capable, intelligent, and virtuous woman-who is he who can find her? Be a virtuous woman and the right one will come to you....you won't have to go searching for him or settle.
Dont worry ma dear love is a hidden treasure before the eyes of God ur man is on the way there is nothing u can do to make someone love u unless u use Love portions and i can't advice u so well when it seems u have come to an end of u thats is the beggining of the coming of christ so be patient have peace and be flexible things will be ok!
Hey your only 19, you have plenty of time to find the right guy......... I wouldn't rush it if I were u.
I am in the same boat.. well.. I was. I didn't know how to establish relationships with the opposite sex and I thought I was going to be alone for the rest of my life. I realized this year, that men and women are the same.. just with some minor differences. Talking to a guy is just like talking to a girl..maybe even a little easier. How have you started conversations with girls before? In your classes just start talking about things that have happened in the class and before long you will have established a relationship. With my romantic interest, my friend started the conversation between him and his friend. We started hanging out more and more and now we're best friends! Building a relationship.. especially one of romance.. takes a while to build. Relationships don't just start out of the blue. If you think you are going to be too shy to start up a random conversation with someone, ask a friend to help you. It's always easier when friends are there anyway, it eases a lot of the pressure off!
Don't live your life by what a '; Textbook'; says. Be your own woman. I think your a bit of an '; Egghead'; and guys think woman that are smarter than they are ,are a threat. Don't : dummy'; down either...I'll find you and slap you silly..LOL..Mr. Right is out there and he may be watching you...you just don't notice. Hang in there Lady..it will happen soon enough.
go to club and practice your flirting, something, i dont think that you ganna be alone forever, but you need to get on track as to get yourself a guy.
Love is not something that you can snap your fingers and make happen. It takes time and in time you will find the right person for you. I'm 19 and just found my first true love so dont think that it wont happen because it will. I use to feel the same way. Sometimes the person you don't seem too interested or dont seem to notice is the person who stills your heart.
Hope you find love!
Let me get this straight: You're a *woman* and you don't know *how* to establish a relationship? lol
Boy, and here I *thought* I had problems before I married five years ago...
The trick *isn't* to establish such a relationship just for the sake of having one born out of just love. Many such things aren't easily established. Most women spend their lives looking for ';Mr. Right'; and end up with ';Mr. Abusive and Drunk on His A$$'; half the time. :0)
Finding the right guy means looking into yourself for the same (or similar) qualities that you would find enamoring in a potential boyfriend and future mate.
Looks are so 80s, and money isn't a factor anymore. However--these days--women are content in being single and pursuing a successful career than they are trying to settle down, and bearing children.
And at your age, I would suggest you hold off until your late 20s--early 30s. *Seriously*.
This way, you can establish a foundation for the life you want to have--rather than make a rush judgment based purely on desperation. And given your state of emotional development, I wouldn't add marriage in your life's equation until much later--when things have had time to run their course and settle down.
I'm not saying this to be mean, but to tell you that getting married young is the *worst* idea in the long, sad, history of bad ideas.
My 2 brothers married in their late teens and their divorces 5 years later where *extremely* messy and painful--with both wives cheating on them and not the other way around.
They both voiced deep regret for what they did. But their hormones did them in. Me? I didn't get married until I was 28. My wife was 32.
I waited because my life was hell. And I was not in a stable living situation where I could begin to put down roots.
My finances were fluctuating like crazy--as I went from one job after another--and I couldn't begin to harbor a relationship until I had something solid going.
Oh, I had a couple girlfriends here and there, but my relationships never lasted long.
But when I met my future wife, we got married because neither of us knew if the other would live long enough to see another day. Her ovarian cancer is what spurred me to push up our marriage plans, and we never regretted it.
In a relationship, love and sex is only a secondary need. (As my wife said about the latter.)
You need to find someone who will be a good and solid balance in your life. It doesn't have to be a perfect marriage, but you must have something more than a physical or financial attraction in your partner--or otherwise, you're going to be miserable and lonely for a good part of your life.
And that's the honest truth.
well, you have to make the move, if you not busy all the time at work and went home, not going out... then that is a plm.. If you want to find someone then you need to go out there find one. or go on website post your picture and see how many guys respond. But remember there are players, cons, stuff like that play games with you... and Seem that you are Virgin that will be hard to find a guy... Guys found out you are virgin then they will want to break it and the disappared so ... really, you have to go out there and if guys want to ask you on a date not hurt to go out on a date to learn...
When you learn mistake you know not happen again... I have started dating when I was 13 years old and I have learn so much every relationship I been with and I learn cheating, lying, so many of them.. when I met my second wife I work very hard to make it work but didn't work then Divorce then met second wife who I first broken my Virgin with and 5 years later there she is and we knew that we met for each other so ... 9 years and 3 kids... I have done so many thing though now I know what it like and Knowing that I won't be doing that with my wife now.. and mykids...Yes we do have up and down we commucate. and you need to find a guy to commucate what life you guys want and you can tell him that if you cheated on me or what ever it is it over peroid and.. My wife said that to me and I made the choice to not marry her or marry her... So I chose marry her, she told me that Her life and future kids life in my hand that how much she trusted me. That even blow me away knowing how much she trust me.
So, you have to learn first date and learn from it I had like 20 ex girlfriend and 1 ex wife and now 1 married with my wife... so, you have to learn to do things. if you don't then you will be single for a long long long time so guess you have to be a nun... smiling.
Also, be yourself and be who you really are... don't try to be like someone that you are not you.... I marred my wife because that who she is and I love her about it... If you try to be like someone later you willgo back who you are and then man will see ohh, then dissappead so I guess you being you and let them see you and believe me... I just being me and everyone love about me and my wife... I always make sure my kids being themself...
do you get out and meet people, in church, at the park, to name a few places. put yourself out there so others can meet you. good luck.
dont listen to this psychology crap. i hate it when they compare you to 'most teens'. it's all bull...dont worry. i know plenty of people who dont and havent had girlfriend/boyfriend relationships.
if it's that big of a problem put yourself out there (not sexually) and become outgoing. my life got so much more fun and exciting when i became more outgoing, and i'm a moral guy. just go have fun.
dont worry about anything like that cause i was worse than you girl. theres nothing wrong with you, i mostly blame it on us men cause we always think were gods gift to women but in reality its women that is a really magnificent gift, so go like that walk around campus with that kind of confidence feeling like your gods gift to men and you'll find Mr. Right well actually you might find a few:) your 19 so uve got plenty of time and dont rush things. good luck.
You need to get out and communicate with people! Go out your realm and see what makes people click. Baby you are not alone! You feel that way because you ar lonely. Go to a movie,church social anything but don't sit there and be lonely! Communicate with people! Please when you do that things will change for you. GET TO KNOW PEOPLE! Let me know how you make this change. TRY IT!
all i can do is tell you to pray bout it i cant help you you have to try and help yourself with that one
you dont need to worry so much there is someone for every one you should try changing yourself a little not to much just a little
Be more outgoing! throw on a little extra lip gloss before you go into your pychology class, talk it up, go out to the local bars and clubs, you'll have fun and possibly find love or atleast an intimate relationshipliving nature
Begin with friendship, and work your way up. I know, you're in college, no time to go out and meet people; well, that's not all that true, if you know how to prioritize. (I'm only guessing here, since you haven't told us about your habits.) But if you get out and meet enough people, be it during class time or otherwise, you'll improve your chances. But as to this psychology thing: ONE achievement is establishing intimate relationships, not THE ONE. To me, THE ONE achievement is establishing your own identity. So don't take all that to heart; as you grow, you'll learn better.
I'm saying this because I was a lot like you when I was your age. But I learned by experience that patience is the key. If you rush, you make more mistakes than if you take your time. I'm talking about looking for love in all the wrong places, doing things that you'll regret later, and generally tripping yourself up. So relax, keep your eyes and ears open, and wait for an opening. In fact, go and check out a football game or the like; broaden your horizons, and you'll be better for it in the long run. But most importantly, relax! Okay?Can you help me with an relationship advice?
You have to invest time with someone in order to develop intimacy. Sounds like you haven't met someone you really want to invest in yet. And what do you really want in a boyfriend? Once you figure that out, it's easier to sift through any potential candidates. Besides that, the Bible says in Proverbs 31:10 - A capable, intelligent, and virtuous woman-who is he who can find her? Be a virtuous woman and the right one will come to you....you won't have to go searching for him or settle.
Dont worry ma dear love is a hidden treasure before the eyes of God ur man is on the way there is nothing u can do to make someone love u unless u use Love portions and i can't advice u so well when it seems u have come to an end of u thats is the beggining of the coming of christ so be patient have peace and be flexible things will be ok!
Hey your only 19, you have plenty of time to find the right guy......... I wouldn't rush it if I were u.
I am in the same boat.. well.. I was. I didn't know how to establish relationships with the opposite sex and I thought I was going to be alone for the rest of my life. I realized this year, that men and women are the same.. just with some minor differences. Talking to a guy is just like talking to a girl..maybe even a little easier. How have you started conversations with girls before? In your classes just start talking about things that have happened in the class and before long you will have established a relationship. With my romantic interest, my friend started the conversation between him and his friend. We started hanging out more and more and now we're best friends! Building a relationship.. especially one of romance.. takes a while to build. Relationships don't just start out of the blue. If you think you are going to be too shy to start up a random conversation with someone, ask a friend to help you. It's always easier when friends are there anyway, it eases a lot of the pressure off!
Don't live your life by what a '; Textbook'; says. Be your own woman. I think your a bit of an '; Egghead'; and guys think woman that are smarter than they are ,are a threat. Don't : dummy'; down either...I'll find you and slap you silly..LOL..Mr. Right is out there and he may be watching you...you just don't notice. Hang in there Lady..it will happen soon enough.
go to club and practice your flirting, something, i dont think that you ganna be alone forever, but you need to get on track as to get yourself a guy.
Love is not something that you can snap your fingers and make happen. It takes time and in time you will find the right person for you. I'm 19 and just found my first true love so dont think that it wont happen because it will. I use to feel the same way. Sometimes the person you don't seem too interested or dont seem to notice is the person who stills your heart.
Hope you find love!
Let me get this straight: You're a *woman* and you don't know *how* to establish a relationship? lol
Boy, and here I *thought* I had problems before I married five years ago...
The trick *isn't* to establish such a relationship just for the sake of having one born out of just love. Many such things aren't easily established. Most women spend their lives looking for ';Mr. Right'; and end up with ';Mr. Abusive and Drunk on His A$$'; half the time. :0)
Finding the right guy means looking into yourself for the same (or similar) qualities that you would find enamoring in a potential boyfriend and future mate.
Looks are so 80s, and money isn't a factor anymore. However--these days--women are content in being single and pursuing a successful career than they are trying to settle down, and bearing children.
And at your age, I would suggest you hold off until your late 20s--early 30s. *Seriously*.
This way, you can establish a foundation for the life you want to have--rather than make a rush judgment based purely on desperation. And given your state of emotional development, I wouldn't add marriage in your life's equation until much later--when things have had time to run their course and settle down.
I'm not saying this to be mean, but to tell you that getting married young is the *worst* idea in the long, sad, history of bad ideas.
My 2 brothers married in their late teens and their divorces 5 years later where *extremely* messy and painful--with both wives cheating on them and not the other way around.
They both voiced deep regret for what they did. But their hormones did them in. Me? I didn't get married until I was 28. My wife was 32.
I waited because my life was hell. And I was not in a stable living situation where I could begin to put down roots.
My finances were fluctuating like crazy--as I went from one job after another--and I couldn't begin to harbor a relationship until I had something solid going.
Oh, I had a couple girlfriends here and there, but my relationships never lasted long.
But when I met my future wife, we got married because neither of us knew if the other would live long enough to see another day. Her ovarian cancer is what spurred me to push up our marriage plans, and we never regretted it.
In a relationship, love and sex is only a secondary need. (As my wife said about the latter.)
You need to find someone who will be a good and solid balance in your life. It doesn't have to be a perfect marriage, but you must have something more than a physical or financial attraction in your partner--or otherwise, you're going to be miserable and lonely for a good part of your life.
And that's the honest truth.
well, you have to make the move, if you not busy all the time at work and went home, not going out... then that is a plm.. If you want to find someone then you need to go out there find one. or go on website post your picture and see how many guys respond. But remember there are players, cons, stuff like that play games with you... and Seem that you are Virgin that will be hard to find a guy... Guys found out you are virgin then they will want to break it and the disappared so ... really, you have to go out there and if guys want to ask you on a date not hurt to go out on a date to learn...
When you learn mistake you know not happen again... I have started dating when I was 13 years old and I have learn so much every relationship I been with and I learn cheating, lying, so many of them.. when I met my second wife I work very hard to make it work but didn't work then Divorce then met second wife who I first broken my Virgin with and 5 years later there she is and we knew that we met for each other so ... 9 years and 3 kids... I have done so many thing though now I know what it like and Knowing that I won't be doing that with my wife now.. and mykids...Yes we do have up and down we commucate. and you need to find a guy to commucate what life you guys want and you can tell him that if you cheated on me or what ever it is it over peroid and.. My wife said that to me and I made the choice to not marry her or marry her... So I chose marry her, she told me that Her life and future kids life in my hand that how much she trusted me. That even blow me away knowing how much she trust me.
So, you have to learn first date and learn from it I had like 20 ex girlfriend and 1 ex wife and now 1 married with my wife... so, you have to learn to do things. if you don't then you will be single for a long long long time so guess you have to be a nun... smiling.
Also, be yourself and be who you really are... don't try to be like someone that you are not you.... I marred my wife because that who she is and I love her about it... If you try to be like someone later you willgo back who you are and then man will see ohh, then dissappead so I guess you being you and let them see you and believe me... I just being me and everyone love about me and my wife... I always make sure my kids being themself...
do you get out and meet people, in church, at the park, to name a few places. put yourself out there so others can meet you. good luck.
dont listen to this psychology crap. i hate it when they compare you to 'most teens'. it's all bull...dont worry. i know plenty of people who dont and havent had girlfriend/boyfriend relationships.
if it's that big of a problem put yourself out there (not sexually) and become outgoing. my life got so much more fun and exciting when i became more outgoing, and i'm a moral guy. just go have fun.
dont worry about anything like that cause i was worse than you girl. theres nothing wrong with you, i mostly blame it on us men cause we always think were gods gift to women but in reality its women that is a really magnificent gift, so go like that walk around campus with that kind of confidence feeling like your gods gift to men and you'll find Mr. Right well actually you might find a few:) your 19 so uve got plenty of time and dont rush things. good luck.
You need to get out and communicate with people! Go out your realm and see what makes people click. Baby you are not alone! You feel that way because you ar lonely. Go to a movie,church social anything but don't sit there and be lonely! Communicate with people! Please when you do that things will change for you. GET TO KNOW PEOPLE! Let me know how you make this change. TRY IT!
all i can do is tell you to pray bout it i cant help you you have to try and help yourself with that one
you dont need to worry so much there is someone for every one you should try changing yourself a little not to much just a little
Be more outgoing! throw on a little extra lip gloss before you go into your pychology class, talk it up, go out to the local bars and clubs, you'll have fun and possibly find love or atleast an intimate relationship
I need relationship advice. Please help!?
I like this guy from my school, and we had been talking on facebook very regularly since last March. Within the last few months, he's gotten a girlfriend (from a different school, that I don't know). And lately we've pretty much completely stopped talking on facebook and he doesn't make as much of an effort to say hi to me at school. But I still like him.... I'm not sure if I should try to start talking to him again on facebook or something...
What should I do?I need relationship advice. Please help!?
uhh... start talking to him again!!!
definitley!
What should I do?I need relationship advice. Please help!?
uhh... start talking to him again!!!
definitley!
I need relationship advice please...guys?
what do you want in girls. what do you like to do...etc? details and i will give you more pointsI need relationship advice please...guys?
hi hello!
email me
hi hello!
email me
Need some relationship advice?
Hey everyone! I need some help! My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months. We usually send e-mails everyday...but in the past month..I have noticed less e-mails. Should I be concerned on the status of our relationship? It seems like she has backed off a little bit and I am not sure why. Some advice would be great.Need some relationship advice?
Maybe shes going to her other boyfriends house during work hours and thats why shes not emailing??
Nah, don't worry about it... I don't think its that big a deal, it probably means taht she just has some other things to do.
If you're worried about her leaving you... candle light, dinner, rose petals and sexy lingerie... that'll stop her from ever leaving you.Need some relationship advice?
Sounds like what's normal in a relationship to me. After the newness wears off, there is usually a lessening of contact made. People get busy with other things in life and don't always have time to contact you as much as they once did. I wouldn't worry about it. What I would worry about is if I were smothering the girl or not. Some people are the kind who like to be with you 24/7. Some people just like to have some alone time or are not used to CONSTANT contact. And then there are some who are just really bad about answering emails. I'm one of them, so I know this much is true.
Don't worry about it and just go with things as they are for now. Your girl might just need time to deal with other things in her busy life. It doesn't mean she doesn't care. It just means that other things are becoming more pressing and she feels she has to deal with them first and foremost. She could also be trying to be careful she doesn't smother YOU, so she's letting you make most of the moves. It might be a sign that you're becoming more important to her and she's determined to be careful she doesn't do anything to screw it up. Past relationships could have taught her the importance of that. The only way I would let it worry me is if there are a LOT of other signs that something is up. Until that happens, stop stressing and enjoy getting to know each other as time goes by. Sooner or later you both will fall into a natural pattern of contact and dating that you both can be happy with. It's what happens with most couples and should happen to you too eventually.
Don't stress and good luck friend.
I know that I get real bored with emailing. I would much rather have a voice to voice or face to face conversation. Maybe your relationship is lacking in that area.
Maybe shes going to her other boyfriends house during work hours and thats why shes not emailing??
Nah, don't worry about it... I don't think its that big a deal, it probably means taht she just has some other things to do.
If you're worried about her leaving you... candle light, dinner, rose petals and sexy lingerie... that'll stop her from ever leaving you.Need some relationship advice?
Sounds like what's normal in a relationship to me. After the newness wears off, there is usually a lessening of contact made. People get busy with other things in life and don't always have time to contact you as much as they once did. I wouldn't worry about it. What I would worry about is if I were smothering the girl or not. Some people are the kind who like to be with you 24/7. Some people just like to have some alone time or are not used to CONSTANT contact. And then there are some who are just really bad about answering emails. I'm one of them, so I know this much is true.
Don't worry about it and just go with things as they are for now. Your girl might just need time to deal with other things in her busy life. It doesn't mean she doesn't care. It just means that other things are becoming more pressing and she feels she has to deal with them first and foremost. She could also be trying to be careful she doesn't smother YOU, so she's letting you make most of the moves. It might be a sign that you're becoming more important to her and she's determined to be careful she doesn't do anything to screw it up. Past relationships could have taught her the importance of that. The only way I would let it worry me is if there are a LOT of other signs that something is up. Until that happens, stop stressing and enjoy getting to know each other as time goes by. Sooner or later you both will fall into a natural pattern of contact and dating that you both can be happy with. It's what happens with most couples and should happen to you too eventually.
Don't stress and good luck friend.
I know that I get real bored with emailing. I would much rather have a voice to voice or face to face conversation. Maybe your relationship is lacking in that area.
Um need relationship advice?
ok i like 4 boys at school and i'm not sure if they like me back. how can i tell? i talk to them and everything but i'm not sure. i'm just really confused and i really like them but... i need help!!Um need relationship advice?
K k k...slow dwn...
4 boys???
If u lyk them as a 4rnd then dats cool...ders no prblm 2 da amount of 4rnds u hav...BUT...
if u lyk all of them more than 4rnds then ders a problem...
b4 figuring out their feelns...u need 2 figure ur's out huny...
Jus take tym out %26amp; rethink ur feelns...u cnt lyk/luv more than 1 person in a romantic way...it jus doesn't wrk...
So i think u shud reassess ur feelns...figure out which of day guys u lyk,if it is ne of them, n then figure out if u really lyk them or r u jus infatuated...
Once u figure urself,by dat i mean ur feelns,then u can figure ur guy out n then u can decide where u wana take it 4rm der...
All da best huny!:-)
Hpe u figure thngs out!
Take Care!
Tata!:-)Um need relationship advice?
damn
4 guys at one time
you beat my record girl
lmao
hahaha
it has nothing to do with me though well yea ummmh
talk to them one at a time because you wouldn't won't them to think your a you know what so yea and plus while you do that slowly pick someone out if they don't fit you
YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
K k k...slow dwn...
4 boys???
If u lyk them as a 4rnd then dats cool...ders no prblm 2 da amount of 4rnds u hav...BUT...
if u lyk all of them more than 4rnds then ders a problem...
b4 figuring out their feelns...u need 2 figure ur's out huny...
Jus take tym out %26amp; rethink ur feelns...u cnt lyk/luv more than 1 person in a romantic way...it jus doesn't wrk...
So i think u shud reassess ur feelns...figure out which of day guys u lyk,if it is ne of them, n then figure out if u really lyk them or r u jus infatuated...
Once u figure urself,by dat i mean ur feelns,then u can figure ur guy out n then u can decide where u wana take it 4rm der...
All da best huny!:-)
Hpe u figure thngs out!
Take Care!
Tata!:-)Um need relationship advice?
damn
4 guys at one time
you beat my record girl
lmao
hahaha
it has nothing to do with me though well yea ummmh
talk to them one at a time because you wouldn't won't them to think your a you know what so yea and plus while you do that slowly pick someone out if they don't fit you
YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I need relationship advice?
ok. theres this girl i really like and i know that she really likes me. we've agreed to wait after the break because shes still hurt from being dumped by her ex boyfriend. now she told me that shes not ready to move on now or soon and that we should stay friends. what should i do and tell her?I need relationship advice?
This girl is giving you signs to give her time and you should adhere to it. Otherwise, you will come across pushy and lose her all together.
Most of the times, the guy who comes in right after a break-up is called the re-bound; and he never works out further than a friendship.
If I were you and like the girl tremendously, stay clear from her til she calls on you.I need relationship advice?
if you truly like her, wait for her.
if she really likes you, she will heal soon and will definitely want to be with you. so wait and see how it goes, if you would really like to pursue a relationship with her.
Good Luck =]
I think you should move on for now or something. Or at least wait a little. You wouldn't want to go out with her right now, because then you'd be the rebound, and you don't want that. Just wait.
You still feel that connection but you can't wait around forever, you need to move on and have a life rather than hang around on her, because for all you know your perfect match is right around the corner.
just tell her O.K. but you really like her. if you wait, she'll see what a good guy you actually are for not rushing into anything with her. if she likes you, it'll work out. stay her friend. show her that you can be like a really good friend. because girls always want their bf to be their best friend, trust me.
i hope my advice helps.
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just wait and see what's her next move first because you will be and get over it one night stand. so just chill and be her friend and just be there for her and then she will see the person you are and she just fall in an relationship with you so just chill.
This girl is giving you signs to give her time and you should adhere to it. Otherwise, you will come across pushy and lose her all together.
Most of the times, the guy who comes in right after a break-up is called the re-bound; and he never works out further than a friendship.
If I were you and like the girl tremendously, stay clear from her til she calls on you.I need relationship advice?
if you truly like her, wait for her.
if she really likes you, she will heal soon and will definitely want to be with you. so wait and see how it goes, if you would really like to pursue a relationship with her.
Good Luck =]
I think you should move on for now or something. Or at least wait a little. You wouldn't want to go out with her right now, because then you'd be the rebound, and you don't want that. Just wait.
You still feel that connection but you can't wait around forever, you need to move on and have a life rather than hang around on her, because for all you know your perfect match is right around the corner.
just tell her O.K. but you really like her. if you wait, she'll see what a good guy you actually are for not rushing into anything with her. if she likes you, it'll work out. stay her friend. show her that you can be like a really good friend. because girls always want their bf to be their best friend, trust me.
i hope my advice helps.
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just wait and see what's her next move first because you will be and get over it one night stand. so just chill and be her friend and just be there for her and then she will see the person you are and she just fall in an relationship with you so just chill.
I need relationship advice please help?
Every relationship i've had,I've been cheated on...Or guys would just screw with my emotions,After a while i met this guy He was so nice respectful..But after to days he wanted to date,Less than a week he fell inlove with me...All they other girls he dated cheated on him too,So as you can see we have that in common...He is in a different state,Im in pa...Im movin to live by him,But he always seems to talk about sex,But yet he asks if im ready for it...He keeps talking about it tho,And i tested him we can have a normal convo about other things but he loves talking about sex...He is in college im in high school...He tells me not to worry because he is going to be around lots of girls,Its hard to believe he is a virgin to be honest...Do you think he is useing me only for sex,Im confused.I need relationship advice please help?
Play it safe. Do not engage in premarital sex.I need relationship advice please help?
Well if he is a virgin this would be his first time so he's probably getting a Little ahead of himself so he keeps talking about it
Well you shouldnt really trust guys who live in a different states because there's way more to them than a sweet attitude. You should get to know him more. Just because he tells you all this things doesnt mean its true. and if he really wanna be with you or wanna date you he should wait till you get to know him well, if he doesnt wait then you didnt lose anything but a jerk who just want one thing.
You know what your problem is? You have a gigantic neon sign on your forehead that says, ';I have low self-esteem and that is my excuse for letting guys lie, cheat, take advantage of, and abuse me.';
Ok. I am being dramatic. You don't really have a sign like that on your head but you might as well. And you've attracted a real a**hole as a result. After all, you started dating a guy two days after you met him, allowed him to convince you that he loved you after seven, and now you are pulling up your roots to go live with him. And you're not even an adult.
In answer to your question about him using you for sex. He is absolutely trying to get you into bed and he is saying whatever it is that he thinks you want to hear to accomplish that goal. Do not--I repeat--DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT GETTING MORE DEEPLY INVOLVED WITH THIS BOY!!! HE IS VERY BAD NEWS!!!
I also think you should try to get some counseling for yourself. You have emotional problems that falling in love are not going to fix.
I am sorry I sound so harsh but your post really scared me. I think you are about to make a big mistake.
Question, why are you moving in with someone you hardly know, who is older then you, always talks about sex, andis always pressuring you about hving sex. DO NOT GIVE THIS MAN THE PLEASURE. He only wants you for the sex. BE SMART AND STAY AWAY.
Okay, honey. First things first:
Guys are guys. They are genetically programmed to spread their seed. Can they have emotional connection with a girl? yes. can they be completely driven sex? absolutely. that is their job.
if this guy seems like he is nice, if he seems earnestly interested with you, but adamantly pushes you about having sex--STAND YOUR GROUND! If you are uncomfortable with it, make sure he understands that and stop it yourself, even if it means getting away from him. if you like him, and he's a good enough guy to change subjects, all the more to him.
Keep mind: he's a guy. he's going to have sex on his mind every 6 seconds. but that doesn't mean that you have to hear about it every 6 seconds.
Wow thats a big step moving to be near a guy u hardly know. Instead of worrying bout the fact that all he wants to talk about is sex u should be re-evaluating your priorities
this guy seems to have be psychologically unstable.. First of all, if you're in high school, stay away from him!!.. people who can't talk about anything more interesting than sex has a problem!!!.. he's trouble. you should be focus on school and not him and his issues. be careful and be safe.
Play it safe. Do not engage in premarital sex.I need relationship advice please help?
Well if he is a virgin this would be his first time so he's probably getting a Little ahead of himself so he keeps talking about it
Well you shouldnt really trust guys who live in a different states because there's way more to them than a sweet attitude. You should get to know him more. Just because he tells you all this things doesnt mean its true. and if he really wanna be with you or wanna date you he should wait till you get to know him well, if he doesnt wait then you didnt lose anything but a jerk who just want one thing.
You know what your problem is? You have a gigantic neon sign on your forehead that says, ';I have low self-esteem and that is my excuse for letting guys lie, cheat, take advantage of, and abuse me.';
Ok. I am being dramatic. You don't really have a sign like that on your head but you might as well. And you've attracted a real a**hole as a result. After all, you started dating a guy two days after you met him, allowed him to convince you that he loved you after seven, and now you are pulling up your roots to go live with him. And you're not even an adult.
In answer to your question about him using you for sex. He is absolutely trying to get you into bed and he is saying whatever it is that he thinks you want to hear to accomplish that goal. Do not--I repeat--DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT GETTING MORE DEEPLY INVOLVED WITH THIS BOY!!! HE IS VERY BAD NEWS!!!
I also think you should try to get some counseling for yourself. You have emotional problems that falling in love are not going to fix.
I am sorry I sound so harsh but your post really scared me. I think you are about to make a big mistake.
Question, why are you moving in with someone you hardly know, who is older then you, always talks about sex, andis always pressuring you about hving sex. DO NOT GIVE THIS MAN THE PLEASURE. He only wants you for the sex. BE SMART AND STAY AWAY.
Okay, honey. First things first:
Guys are guys. They are genetically programmed to spread their seed. Can they have emotional connection with a girl? yes. can they be completely driven sex? absolutely. that is their job.
if this guy seems like he is nice, if he seems earnestly interested with you, but adamantly pushes you about having sex--STAND YOUR GROUND! If you are uncomfortable with it, make sure he understands that and stop it yourself, even if it means getting away from him. if you like him, and he's a good enough guy to change subjects, all the more to him.
Keep mind: he's a guy. he's going to have sex on his mind every 6 seconds. but that doesn't mean that you have to hear about it every 6 seconds.
Wow thats a big step moving to be near a guy u hardly know. Instead of worrying bout the fact that all he wants to talk about is sex u should be re-evaluating your priorities
this guy seems to have be psychologically unstable.. First of all, if you're in high school, stay away from him!!.. people who can't talk about anything more interesting than sex has a problem!!!.. he's trouble. you should be focus on school and not him and his issues. be careful and be safe.
Advice on my relationship with my pregnant girlfriend ?
hi my names gregor and i am looking for advice on my relationship.
well i am currently in a relationship the now and my girlfriend is pregnant but its not my child, i love my girlfriend to bits but the boy that she went with i don't like him. and i don't know if that boy wants anything to so with the child. but i would like to to help my girlfriend raise this child but i am scared in-case my mum and dad don't talk to me ever again.
please can someone give me advice on this situation ? thanksAdvice on my relationship with my pregnant girlfriend ?
hiya, do not rush into any think at the Moment.you never gave your age,but i think you are around 17/18.if you are 18yrs and over your mum can not do any think,to stop you being with the child.under 18 and she can stop you seeing the girl and baby,but it would mean she would have to take a court order out against you and her.if you are together with the girl,and you love her.and the baby's father is not on the scene,then there is no reason why you can't be in the baby's life.im a mum to 3 grown up kids.my son lived with a girl who was having another man's baby.the baby's father did not want the baby.my son as taken on the baby as his own,and as got my son's name.there made there relationship work,and have been together 10yrs now.i class the child as my grand son,even tho its not my son's child.you need to talk to your mum,and tell her what you want to do,and ask for her blessings.i will tell you know its hard work,as its hard to take on another man's child.but if you love the girl,and you both want to make a go of it,then go for it.good luck,and talk to your mum.xxAdvice on my relationship with my pregnant girlfriend ?
First of all ask yourself if you are really up to taking a child that is not yours and is your girlfriend's. What if you and your girlfriend get in a fight. What if later on you start thinking about how many guys she has done it with. Now if you really dont care about these things. Talk to your parents and see if it is ok for you to babysit the child and help her out a little bit. If your parents say no think about if this is really going to be a long term relationship and who is more important the girl or your parents.
Honestly if you love her and the child isn't born yet you are able to raise it as your own with her, your parents should see how nobel you are being by wanting to be with her and how much you love her and her unborn child. Keep in mind a child's emotions are VERY fragile and unless you plan on being there for her and the child for it's whole life then don't get too involved. Leaving a child in early years can make it to where the child doesn't trust anyone the mother gets with later on in life distancing the relationship between the child and mother. I say go for it if you are completely in love with her.
This all depends on how old you and your girlfriend are, if you plan on living together or getting married or even just supporting her then you will need to be working etc.,
If you both adults then it does not matter what your mum or dad do or say does it, but I suspect you both are very young.
The best thing to do would be to see how things go and once the baby arrives take it from there, things change when babies come along and it will be a test of both your feelings for each other.
How old are you?
Ok unfortunately since you are not the biological father. U can't decided wether or not u are going to be in the kids life. That's up to the kids mom.
As far as your parents, I would think that they would be proud to know that they raised a good man who will step up to the plate and be there for someone who needs him, weither or not it is his responsibility.
U can't make the biological father not be in the childs life. Maybe the baby will be lucky enough to have two men in his or her life that really care for it.
I think that you are a good man and only good can come of that, so just do whatever feels right to you.
its a hard 1 but if u really love her and want to be with her then ur parents should respect you for ur decision.
if she wants you to help raise the child and u 2 be he father then there is nothin wrog with that
deep down u no wat u want to do and u should go for it
there is no answer for you here, but you all ready know the answer my friend, you need to listen to your heart.
thats the only REAL advice that anyone can give you, if it were me, id stay with the girl if i truly loved her.
good luck to you both and take care.
Hello Gregor
Why would you parents not talk to you again? You are supporting a women that is having another mans child to me that is remarkable. They should be proud of you!
I think your parents will be very proud of you if you step up to help raise this child, %26amp; I'm pretty sure your girlfriend could not be happierif you did help, thats something that every woman wants to here.
Amberness/.xx
why would your mum and dad not speak to you again.:S just tell them that you love this girl and you want to stay with her even if that means to help raise her baby. xx
well i am currently in a relationship the now and my girlfriend is pregnant but its not my child, i love my girlfriend to bits but the boy that she went with i don't like him. and i don't know if that boy wants anything to so with the child. but i would like to to help my girlfriend raise this child but i am scared in-case my mum and dad don't talk to me ever again.
please can someone give me advice on this situation ? thanksAdvice on my relationship with my pregnant girlfriend ?
hiya, do not rush into any think at the Moment.you never gave your age,but i think you are around 17/18.if you are 18yrs and over your mum can not do any think,to stop you being with the child.under 18 and she can stop you seeing the girl and baby,but it would mean she would have to take a court order out against you and her.if you are together with the girl,and you love her.and the baby's father is not on the scene,then there is no reason why you can't be in the baby's life.im a mum to 3 grown up kids.my son lived with a girl who was having another man's baby.the baby's father did not want the baby.my son as taken on the baby as his own,and as got my son's name.there made there relationship work,and have been together 10yrs now.i class the child as my grand son,even tho its not my son's child.you need to talk to your mum,and tell her what you want to do,and ask for her blessings.i will tell you know its hard work,as its hard to take on another man's child.but if you love the girl,and you both want to make a go of it,then go for it.good luck,and talk to your mum.xxAdvice on my relationship with my pregnant girlfriend ?
First of all ask yourself if you are really up to taking a child that is not yours and is your girlfriend's. What if you and your girlfriend get in a fight. What if later on you start thinking about how many guys she has done it with. Now if you really dont care about these things. Talk to your parents and see if it is ok for you to babysit the child and help her out a little bit. If your parents say no think about if this is really going to be a long term relationship and who is more important the girl or your parents.
Honestly if you love her and the child isn't born yet you are able to raise it as your own with her, your parents should see how nobel you are being by wanting to be with her and how much you love her and her unborn child. Keep in mind a child's emotions are VERY fragile and unless you plan on being there for her and the child for it's whole life then don't get too involved. Leaving a child in early years can make it to where the child doesn't trust anyone the mother gets with later on in life distancing the relationship between the child and mother. I say go for it if you are completely in love with her.
This all depends on how old you and your girlfriend are, if you plan on living together or getting married or even just supporting her then you will need to be working etc.,
If you both adults then it does not matter what your mum or dad do or say does it, but I suspect you both are very young.
The best thing to do would be to see how things go and once the baby arrives take it from there, things change when babies come along and it will be a test of both your feelings for each other.
How old are you?
Ok unfortunately since you are not the biological father. U can't decided wether or not u are going to be in the kids life. That's up to the kids mom.
As far as your parents, I would think that they would be proud to know that they raised a good man who will step up to the plate and be there for someone who needs him, weither or not it is his responsibility.
U can't make the biological father not be in the childs life. Maybe the baby will be lucky enough to have two men in his or her life that really care for it.
I think that you are a good man and only good can come of that, so just do whatever feels right to you.
its a hard 1 but if u really love her and want to be with her then ur parents should respect you for ur decision.
if she wants you to help raise the child and u 2 be he father then there is nothin wrog with that
deep down u no wat u want to do and u should go for it
there is no answer for you here, but you all ready know the answer my friend, you need to listen to your heart.
thats the only REAL advice that anyone can give you, if it were me, id stay with the girl if i truly loved her.
good luck to you both and take care.
Hello Gregor
Why would you parents not talk to you again? You are supporting a women that is having another mans child to me that is remarkable. They should be proud of you!
I think your parents will be very proud of you if you step up to help raise this child, %26amp; I'm pretty sure your girlfriend could not be happierif you did help, thats something that every woman wants to here.
Amberness/.xx
why would your mum and dad not speak to you again.:S just tell them that you love this girl and you want to stay with her even if that means to help raise her baby. xx
Relationship advice help!?
I have a friend who is a girl. She just broke up with her boy friend and now he is stalking her everywhere acting like there still together! We want to know why? also would it be wrong for me to set her up with any of my friends? please answer! thank you for your help!Relationship advice help!?
call cops or someone at school. give her time in a month or two set her up.
call cops or someone at school. give her time in a month or two set her up.
I just need some general relationship advice...?
Emily and I went out for 2 months (Aug.08-Oct08). We kinda had a rough break up. In January 09 we started hanging out again...and ever since we've kinda been in an open relationship, if you will. And with both of us leaving for college in 4 weeks, its getting hard. And she's admitted to me that I like and care for her more than she does for me. Im just confused and need advice and help. I don't know what to do...I just need some general relationship advice...?
Her admitting that you care more than she does might be a big clue that she's not ready for a relationship. Don't get back into it again if she can't be emotionally involved. You'll end up hurt again and it's not worth it to be hurt twice.
Make a clean break, go away to college, and enjoy life and you might possibly meet someone else that makes your heart beat again.
Her admitting that you care more than she does might be a big clue that she's not ready for a relationship. Don't get back into it again if she can't be emotionally involved. You'll end up hurt again and it's not worth it to be hurt twice.
Make a clean break, go away to college, and enjoy life and you might possibly meet someone else that makes your heart beat again.
Where can i get free relationship advice?
i have a girlfriend who is married but not actually with her husband although they still live together she wont leave as she doesn't want to lose her house and he wont leave because he wont accept it over i need advice about what i can do!Where can i get free relationship advice?
If she really loves you then she'll come around. If yo really love her then stick by her side.Where can i get free relationship advice?
From Porn Movies
cant help ya there
My only concern about free relationship advise is that you get what you pay for.
My suggestion is to try and not get involved, as she could end up losing it all.
you have a married girlfriend. shame on you. she won't leave her husband because she is not going to. plain and simple.
wow. well the free advice part is here, but her not leaving has to be deeper than her not wanting to lose the house. Is she really being honest with you.living nature
If she really loves you then she'll come around. If yo really love her then stick by her side.Where can i get free relationship advice?
From Porn Movies
cant help ya there
My only concern about free relationship advise is that you get what you pay for.
My suggestion is to try and not get involved, as she could end up losing it all.
you have a married girlfriend. shame on you. she won't leave her husband because she is not going to. plain and simple.
wow. well the free advice part is here, but her not leaving has to be deeper than her not wanting to lose the house. Is she really being honest with you.
Looking for some long distance relationship advice.?
Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We met online and have been deeply in love since then, but having said that just recently I've been experiencing a lot of sadness and I don't know why. I just want to know , does anyone have any advice? Is two year's and plus to long to wait to meet someone? I really do love him, so I want to keep it going I just..need some help. Thanks.Looking for some long distance relationship advice.?
You call him your boyfriend of 2 years but you have never met in person? That is not a boyfriend, that is just some guy you talk to online.Looking for some long distance relationship advice.?
OMG!!! IM THE SAME EXACT WAY!!!!!!
I met my bf over the internet, and we've been dating for two years. I live in Mass, and he lives in Nevada.
I love him with my whole entire soul. i really do. But lately, ive been so moody. Depressed and sad and even angry!
But i have met him in person before. But its been months since ive seen him and its got me kinda down...:'[
Anyway, you should hang on! im sure hes worth it. And when you do see him, it will be soooo worth it! And waiting for someone over the internet for a few years...well, thats how you KNOW youve got the right guy. Think of it as a test. And...maybe ask your mom if you can see him sometime? Youve been going out for two years. Maybe she might consider it? My mom did.:]
And, also, for the sadness....well, im on birthcontrol now, and i think its making me depressed and moody. But for you, maybe you can see your doctor and ask for some medication to help? Im not much of a pill person. But sometimes they can help. If you dont want to do that, try trying to cheer yourself up on your own and with your bfs support. Talk about all the things you want to do when you see him. And continue to remind yourself its not going to be that long until you can be with him.(assuming your in high school..) And honestly, think about how fast those two years have gone by...imagine how fast these following years will go by! You'll be in his arms before you know it!^^ Honestly, you will.
I know it seems like a long time while your in the moment..but seriously, when you look back on it, you'll realise how fast time goes by!
Stay with him. Really. Youve got yourself a good guy. Keep with it. Try getting a mic if you dont have one, and him too. And download skype, so you can talk to him all day for free if you want too! And i know they can be a lot, but just get like a 20 dollar webcam, and him too, if you dont have them already. Being able to see eachother can really help make you feel closer to eachother. (40 dollar webcams come with built in mics, a lot of the times. check the boxes to be sure.)
Hope i helped some. This is what i do with my bf.
Oh, and we both have verizon cell phones, also. So when one of our internets are down, we can call on the phone.(free verizon to verizon calling all day, every day.)
Hope this helps you!!^^
Keep strong. You can do this.
If you love him then there should be no problems to want for him
Well have u even met this person yet? If u havent,it is a bit too long to have not met him. How does he feel about u? Does he love u in return? If the both of u love each other,I wouldnt worry. Just make sure the both of u express each others feelings and make sure u dont let go of him...If it seems like theres silence in this relationship,open up and ask whats bothering. Share yr thoughts and feelings and make sure u both try to see each other as much as u can.. Many long distance relationships dont last that long. You need to be w/the one u love for yr needs and his. Just make sure u dont miss his phone calls nor u miss his. I hope this helps...Keep yr head up and think positive. Good Luck!
If you two have never met in person then you two were never boyfriend and girlfriend, sorry. Try to find a local guy, someone you can actually meet in person.
I didn't see anything in your question indicating you've never met him...so first question is - have you? If you have but have only gotten together face-to-face a few times, you may want to escalate the visits to like a week away to some destination (not necessarily tropical or otherwise...could be just to another state/province neither have been to)
Depending on your age and where you are in your life right now, maybe you two should consider not necessarily moving in - but moving closer?
The other option is to talk to him about how you're feeling and see if he feels the same way. Then find out what he suggests as a solution and talk it through. Communication is the key.
And KUDOS to you for surviving 2 years in a long-distance relationship. I've done that a couple times myself and it's brutally difficult. Anybody who thinks having intimate conversations about personal issues with somebody who you have developed a connection with in such a unique way is NOT a relationship hasn't had this experience.
You call him your boyfriend of 2 years but you have never met in person? That is not a boyfriend, that is just some guy you talk to online.Looking for some long distance relationship advice.?
OMG!!! IM THE SAME EXACT WAY!!!!!!
I met my bf over the internet, and we've been dating for two years. I live in Mass, and he lives in Nevada.
I love him with my whole entire soul. i really do. But lately, ive been so moody. Depressed and sad and even angry!
But i have met him in person before. But its been months since ive seen him and its got me kinda down...:'[
Anyway, you should hang on! im sure hes worth it. And when you do see him, it will be soooo worth it! And waiting for someone over the internet for a few years...well, thats how you KNOW youve got the right guy. Think of it as a test. And...maybe ask your mom if you can see him sometime? Youve been going out for two years. Maybe she might consider it? My mom did.:]
And, also, for the sadness....well, im on birthcontrol now, and i think its making me depressed and moody. But for you, maybe you can see your doctor and ask for some medication to help? Im not much of a pill person. But sometimes they can help. If you dont want to do that, try trying to cheer yourself up on your own and with your bfs support. Talk about all the things you want to do when you see him. And continue to remind yourself its not going to be that long until you can be with him.(assuming your in high school..) And honestly, think about how fast those two years have gone by...imagine how fast these following years will go by! You'll be in his arms before you know it!^^ Honestly, you will.
I know it seems like a long time while your in the moment..but seriously, when you look back on it, you'll realise how fast time goes by!
Stay with him. Really. Youve got yourself a good guy. Keep with it. Try getting a mic if you dont have one, and him too. And download skype, so you can talk to him all day for free if you want too! And i know they can be a lot, but just get like a 20 dollar webcam, and him too, if you dont have them already. Being able to see eachother can really help make you feel closer to eachother. (40 dollar webcams come with built in mics, a lot of the times. check the boxes to be sure.)
Hope i helped some. This is what i do with my bf.
Oh, and we both have verizon cell phones, also. So when one of our internets are down, we can call on the phone.(free verizon to verizon calling all day, every day.)
Hope this helps you!!^^
Keep strong. You can do this.
If you love him then there should be no problems to want for him
Well have u even met this person yet? If u havent,it is a bit too long to have not met him. How does he feel about u? Does he love u in return? If the both of u love each other,I wouldnt worry. Just make sure the both of u express each others feelings and make sure u dont let go of him...If it seems like theres silence in this relationship,open up and ask whats bothering. Share yr thoughts and feelings and make sure u both try to see each other as much as u can.. Many long distance relationships dont last that long. You need to be w/the one u love for yr needs and his. Just make sure u dont miss his phone calls nor u miss his. I hope this helps...Keep yr head up and think positive. Good Luck!
If you two have never met in person then you two were never boyfriend and girlfriend, sorry. Try to find a local guy, someone you can actually meet in person.
I didn't see anything in your question indicating you've never met him...so first question is - have you? If you have but have only gotten together face-to-face a few times, you may want to escalate the visits to like a week away to some destination (not necessarily tropical or otherwise...could be just to another state/province neither have been to)
Depending on your age and where you are in your life right now, maybe you two should consider not necessarily moving in - but moving closer?
The other option is to talk to him about how you're feeling and see if he feels the same way. Then find out what he suggests as a solution and talk it through. Communication is the key.
And KUDOS to you for surviving 2 years in a long-distance relationship. I've done that a couple times myself and it's brutally difficult. Anybody who thinks having intimate conversations about personal issues with somebody who you have developed a connection with in such a unique way is NOT a relationship hasn't had this experience.
Im Having Doubts About My Relationship...Advice Please?!?
Im totally in love with my boyfriend. But i've been having doubts about our relationship. Were both seniors in high school and he's always talking about being together forever and our future. Im only 17! Honestly, being that im 17, I just wanna party and have fun. Yeah, its sounds kinda crazy, but thats what all high school seniors wanna do. I don't know what to do. All that stuff he's talkin bout (marriage, kids, living together, etc) im no where near ready for. What should i do?Im Having Doubts About My Relationship...Advice Please?!?
If you are in love, then you should be truthful with him. Tell him you love him, but you aren't ready for that kind of serious relationship. Make sure you tell him that you aren't saying you will never be ready, just that right now you want to have fun and enjoy life. You want him to part of that life, but not every waking moment of it. You're getting ready to graduate, tell him you just want to take it one step at a time, and when the time comes you'll both be ready and you'll both be much happier. If he makes you feel guilty about not be ready, then explain that rushing things always ends badly. You both need time to experience things, you can experience things together and not live together. Marriage needs to be permanent, and if you feel pushed into the situation, then it won't be. If he doesn't understand, then maybe he's not for you. There are alot of guys out there. You still have college to look forward to, and there are lots of guys in college. I think if he loves you though, he will understand. Good luck. I'm sure everything will work out for the best!Im Having Doubts About My Relationship...Advice Please?!?
Taalk to him about it, then go out and party, get it out of your system b4 you settle down. You'll be happier in the end
TALK to him about it. If it makes you uncomfortable or you just don't want to talk about it, tell him that. I'm sure he would understand if you said you just really don't know right now and don't want to plan ahead and just want to take the road one step at a time. And on occasion it wouldn't hurt to humor him and talk a bit about being with him forever, it means he really cares about you and loves you. But the best thing(And its good for trust and for the relationship) is to talk to him, and not just with this, but with anything that bugs you. I wish you luck, and i hope i have helped in any way possible. And as a hint, no matter the age of the guy, they still never see every little obvious thing you put in their face, so be straight forward too. Lol. : )
You're only gonna be a high school senior for once in your life!! Go out and have fun. You guys want 2 different things. Just stay friends w/ him. He can still b apart of you're life. But be young and be free.
Well you should be honest with yourself and if you're not ready for that then you need to be honest with him...You may want to be friends for a while and hopefully he'll wait around for you...If not, that's the chance you're taking...He may be the one for you, so you have a lot to think about.
Ha I am 10 years on you and still going thru the same stuff, i think we never really know anything for sure but at 17 there is definately alot more out there for you to experience and him to, the only think i know is that everything changes and NOTHING is forever not a relationship not a breakup nothing, when you stop learning from each other it is time to let go, but who knows what the future holds????? if its meant to be it will regardless of weather you break up for a time or not
If you are in love, then you should be truthful with him. Tell him you love him, but you aren't ready for that kind of serious relationship. Make sure you tell him that you aren't saying you will never be ready, just that right now you want to have fun and enjoy life. You want him to part of that life, but not every waking moment of it. You're getting ready to graduate, tell him you just want to take it one step at a time, and when the time comes you'll both be ready and you'll both be much happier. If he makes you feel guilty about not be ready, then explain that rushing things always ends badly. You both need time to experience things, you can experience things together and not live together. Marriage needs to be permanent, and if you feel pushed into the situation, then it won't be. If he doesn't understand, then maybe he's not for you. There are alot of guys out there. You still have college to look forward to, and there are lots of guys in college. I think if he loves you though, he will understand. Good luck. I'm sure everything will work out for the best!Im Having Doubts About My Relationship...Advice Please?!?
Taalk to him about it, then go out and party, get it out of your system b4 you settle down. You'll be happier in the end
TALK to him about it. If it makes you uncomfortable or you just don't want to talk about it, tell him that. I'm sure he would understand if you said you just really don't know right now and don't want to plan ahead and just want to take the road one step at a time. And on occasion it wouldn't hurt to humor him and talk a bit about being with him forever, it means he really cares about you and loves you. But the best thing(And its good for trust and for the relationship) is to talk to him, and not just with this, but with anything that bugs you. I wish you luck, and i hope i have helped in any way possible. And as a hint, no matter the age of the guy, they still never see every little obvious thing you put in their face, so be straight forward too. Lol. : )
You're only gonna be a high school senior for once in your life!! Go out and have fun. You guys want 2 different things. Just stay friends w/ him. He can still b apart of you're life. But be young and be free.
Well you should be honest with yourself and if you're not ready for that then you need to be honest with him...You may want to be friends for a while and hopefully he'll wait around for you...If not, that's the chance you're taking...He may be the one for you, so you have a lot to think about.
Ha I am 10 years on you and still going thru the same stuff, i think we never really know anything for sure but at 17 there is definately alot more out there for you to experience and him to, the only think i know is that everything changes and NOTHING is forever not a relationship not a breakup nothing, when you stop learning from each other it is time to let go, but who knows what the future holds????? if its meant to be it will regardless of weather you break up for a time or not
Need relationship advice?
I met a guy, my cousin's friend. Everything was great for 1,5 month. We did not tell our cousin in case he gets mad until it gets serious. He was so kind and concerned, but I made a few mistakes and broke him with minor things and together with his concern about my cousin he stopped talking to me. Now I do not know how to fix this. Need relationship advice?
Go get him tiger.......talk it outNeed relationship advice?
get him back
he'll never come back just give up on him
ve a word with him. try to tell wt happened in a clear way. if he really cares u, he will understand u. dnt worry
call him and explain lots of things and try to make it better
No other remedy except talking it out.Any misgivings can be sorted out by polite, patient, understanding,peaceful conversation. Do your homework before calling him for compromise.Make a rehearsal how to present your case.Expect his reaction and prepare your mindset to face any situation. Good luck.
While they may be minor things to you, they might not be to him. If you bug him too much, it will only push him away more.
Go get him tiger.......talk it outNeed relationship advice?
get him back
he'll never come back just give up on him
ve a word with him. try to tell wt happened in a clear way. if he really cares u, he will understand u. dnt worry
call him and explain lots of things and try to make it better
No other remedy except talking it out.Any misgivings can be sorted out by polite, patient, understanding,peaceful conversation. Do your homework before calling him for compromise.Make a rehearsal how to present your case.Expect his reaction and prepare your mindset to face any situation. Good luck.
While they may be minor things to you, they might not be to him. If you bug him too much, it will only push him away more.
If a guy looks at websites that give relationship advice...?
and he copies and highlights the info and sends it to a girl through msn for her to read. what does that mean?If a guy looks at websites that give relationship advice...?
He's looking for a easy piece of as* that falls for kind of stuff.If a guy looks at websites that give relationship advice...?
Many people respect stuff that come from people considered to be guru or experts.
For example, people quote John Maxwell the leadership expert when trying to prove a point. Others quote Peter Drucker in issues relating to management because they consider him an authority.
Similarly, when a guy visits a relationship web site, copies the info, and then sends it to a girl, he's trying to share valuable info.
The web site is an authority more or less. And the girl is likely to believe what she reads because it comes from an authority.
If the relationship info covers something they've debated before and the web site proves him right, he scores a point with the girl.
If the info is just general advice, it could make the girl get the impression that they have shared goals, shared vision. This could mean they're compatible.
If the guy does this often, she could get the impression he really cares. Eventually, something will move and they could fall in love.
Bottom line.
It's a strategy that works. It's a smart way to show a girl you have shared belief. And that you will make a great couple.
Read the art of seduction at . . .
hes not able to look at his life and really say what he thinks of it or hes unable to think for himself
He's looking for a easy piece of as* that falls for kind of stuff.If a guy looks at websites that give relationship advice...?
Many people respect stuff that come from people considered to be guru or experts.
For example, people quote John Maxwell the leadership expert when trying to prove a point. Others quote Peter Drucker in issues relating to management because they consider him an authority.
Similarly, when a guy visits a relationship web site, copies the info, and then sends it to a girl, he's trying to share valuable info.
The web site is an authority more or less. And the girl is likely to believe what she reads because it comes from an authority.
If the relationship info covers something they've debated before and the web site proves him right, he scores a point with the girl.
If the info is just general advice, it could make the girl get the impression that they have shared goals, shared vision. This could mean they're compatible.
If the guy does this often, she could get the impression he really cares. Eventually, something will move and they could fall in love.
Bottom line.
It's a strategy that works. It's a smart way to show a girl you have shared belief. And that you will make a great couple.
Read the art of seduction at . . .
hes not able to look at his life and really say what he thinks of it or hes unable to think for himself
More relationship advice please ladies and gents?
If I wanted to get rid of this guy sho seems to be still hung up on his daughters mothers relationship that ended over 10 years ago, how would I go about it sensitively as I do like him and do not want to be tempted to sleep with him but would still like to be his friend, although a cliche, I mean it, he is a good friend, but I really don't need to chance the heartache, and feel I deserve better. Any of youhad a similar experience, I'd like some sensible advice. See my last question for more clarity. Thanks.More relationship advice please ladies and gents?
Tell him you don't think his heart is really in the relationship, and it would be better for the pair of you be friends because you don't want to get too attached to him emotionally and get hurt. I wouldn't mention the ex, hopefully he'll be man enough to admit to himself that the problem lies with him. You are defo worth more than this.More relationship advice please ladies and gents?
I'd tell him what a good and valuable friend he is, how much you like his company and what fun he is. Then I'd refer to past relationships you've had which have ended and how sad that you can't forgive some of the people in the past. You wouldn't want this to happen to your valuable friendship and so you'd rather not risk it than have this break between you. But keep the bit about your friendship and how much it means to you and that he is like a BROTHER to you. Mention that a lot. If he pushes you for a relationship, tell him it would be like incest as you have a brother-sister thing going. That should work. I've used that a few times and it's always been effective.
Good luck
Tell him you don't think his heart is really in the relationship, and it would be better for the pair of you be friends because you don't want to get too attached to him emotionally and get hurt. I wouldn't mention the ex, hopefully he'll be man enough to admit to himself that the problem lies with him. You are defo worth more than this.More relationship advice please ladies and gents?
I'd tell him what a good and valuable friend he is, how much you like his company and what fun he is. Then I'd refer to past relationships you've had which have ended and how sad that you can't forgive some of the people in the past. You wouldn't want this to happen to your valuable friendship and so you'd rather not risk it than have this break between you. But keep the bit about your friendship and how much it means to you and that he is like a BROTHER to you. Mention that a lot. If he pushes you for a relationship, tell him it would be like incest as you have a brother-sister thing going. That should work. I've used that a few times and it's always been effective.
Good luck
Emergency Relationship Advice Please?
I am finding it hard to convince my wife that I am faithful. She has smelt perfume on my clothes a few times. This of course wasn't another woman I had slept with it was some of the strippers from East London who sit on your lap %26amp; a bit more.
I sometimes spend 拢400 a time at these clubs. She is now noticing the lack of funds in my account when it's my turn to buy stuff for the house.
Can anyone give me some advice on how to cover my tracks - what are believable excuses?Emergency Relationship Advice Please?
Wipe that stupid smirk off of your face. Your wife is by far too clever to fall for any of your excuses. She knows you for what you are....the devil's advocate!!!! I hope you get aids!!!!Emergency Relationship Advice Please?
Why don't you just scale back on the scope of your activities at the club? Must you have lap dances each time you go? Why not just sit back and watch?
While I see nothing wrong with your going to strip clubs on occasion, it sounds as though you're going a little overboard.
you are a bit of a twat really aren't you, if you want to spend this type of money on watching woman take their cloth's off, why don't you pay your wife ? I pay her to do it, and she's really good at it !!!!!
Your life sounds like a soap-opera. Your wife has every reason to suspect you are having an affair, look at the evidence. Your best bet is to confess everything and promise, really promise to change and get help if you need it. If she leaves you, accept it like a grown up as it is your fault.
If she stays, do eveything you can to make up for it, she deserves it.
Good luck - you need it.
Here's a novel idea: Be Faithful. Act as thou you are and you will be! Try simply being a husband to the wife instead of friends with so many other women, ie. lap dancers, or perfumed dames.
You wife may want to be more to you than they ever could be, have you ever really tried being all you could be?
No advice needed to be more deceitful, it seems to be you nature. Feeling creative?
Not impossible to change if you wanted to do something really creative: Act faithful. Act as thou you are and you will be.
I've noticed your wife's responses to your questions. Are you really asking these questions or is this what you two do for entertainment?
stop spending your money at these clubs, or simply divorce. Dud...following your questions, you're ruining your life. Decide what you want. you cannot have everything.
Tell her you go to knocking shops in East London............
It sounds like you have an expensive addiction. How about giving up the clubs and take your wife to the movies instead?
instead of paying for strippers 400 pounds why dont to pop in the annesummers shops and surprise you wife with some sexy underwear and things put you energy on your marridge before you wife finds out as for lying about seeing strippers you need to come clean and admit to your wife you have a problem an addiction is when it affects your life.and people around you come clean and tell her the truth a problem shared is a problem solved
First close your eyes.
Now empty your mind of the clubs you go to.
Imagine seeing your wife at one of these clubs.
She's sitting near the front, alone, at a table. She sips from a glass.
Music starts.
A curtain swishes back and a bloke appears, dressed as a builder.
He dances slowly and deliberately. Of all the women in the room, he focusses on your wife.
As he dances, he takes off all of his clothes until he's only wearing a tiny thong that's barely covering his 'packet'.
Now see your wife stuffing twenties into the waistband of his thong and touching his bulge.
Angry?
Now imagine yourself at home, alone, hungry, wondering why there's no food in the house for your dinner. It's all being spent on some bloke at that club!
Catch a grip of yourself and get some help. You're addicted and you need to break the habit.
I pity your wife, she doesn't deserve someone as self-centred and selfish as you.
Tell her the truth. That's the only way to convince her you have not been fooling around. Good luck!
I have viewed a few of your other questions. Now I have one for you: Are you a chauvinist pig or a freak?
no way! u should be spending money on ur woman! spending on strippers occasionally is ok but make sure u are taking care of home first!
believeable excuses? don't know....sorry
well are you cheating on her...if u did then forget it...but if not just give her the best night of her life
first dont go to the clubs but if you cannot resist buy your wife something nice (on the cheep i suggest ebay) and sy it cost more than it did that way she feels spoilt and she thinks the money has gone on her
ur not faithfull looking at other naked women, stop the addiction and treat your wife right and spend the cash on her instead,
You are a loser.
If you dont think you are being unfaithful then tell her you go to lapdancing clubs.
She will ask you why you go - what will you reply? That fake sex with these girls sure beats her? Or maybe you just need to feel desired - in which case why not invest time and effort in getting that back with your wife.
Why spend 拢400 on women that pretend to like you for cash? For an ego boost I guess. Remember most of these girls have a real disdain of all the sad little men that come and pay them to pretend you are the hottest guy ever. Spend the next 拢400 on some lingerie and some striptease lessons for your wife if thats what floats your boat. At least she actually wants you, rather than seeing you as a wad of notes
first of all, you aren't being faithful at all. she has every reason to suspect that you are being anything BUT faithful to her. you are looking at other women lustfully, while your wife is at home. you need to admit you have a problem and try to clean up your act - not cover it up!!
Oh deary me!
Your will go blind if you lie to your wife...
....because when she finds out she will poke your eyes out!
u need to be honest with her.......how would u like if she was doing things like that behind ur back
stop going to the clubs and wasting 400 pound a time. there are no believable excuses
Sounds like she has every right to question you. Maybe you should tell her where the money's going and let her make your choice for you.living nature
I sometimes spend 拢400 a time at these clubs. She is now noticing the lack of funds in my account when it's my turn to buy stuff for the house.
Can anyone give me some advice on how to cover my tracks - what are believable excuses?Emergency Relationship Advice Please?
Wipe that stupid smirk off of your face. Your wife is by far too clever to fall for any of your excuses. She knows you for what you are....the devil's advocate!!!! I hope you get aids!!!!Emergency Relationship Advice Please?
Why don't you just scale back on the scope of your activities at the club? Must you have lap dances each time you go? Why not just sit back and watch?
While I see nothing wrong with your going to strip clubs on occasion, it sounds as though you're going a little overboard.
you are a bit of a twat really aren't you, if you want to spend this type of money on watching woman take their cloth's off, why don't you pay your wife ? I pay her to do it, and she's really good at it !!!!!
Your life sounds like a soap-opera. Your wife has every reason to suspect you are having an affair, look at the evidence. Your best bet is to confess everything and promise, really promise to change and get help if you need it. If she leaves you, accept it like a grown up as it is your fault.
If she stays, do eveything you can to make up for it, she deserves it.
Good luck - you need it.
Here's a novel idea: Be Faithful. Act as thou you are and you will be! Try simply being a husband to the wife instead of friends with so many other women, ie. lap dancers, or perfumed dames.
You wife may want to be more to you than they ever could be, have you ever really tried being all you could be?
No advice needed to be more deceitful, it seems to be you nature. Feeling creative?
Not impossible to change if you wanted to do something really creative: Act faithful. Act as thou you are and you will be.
I've noticed your wife's responses to your questions. Are you really asking these questions or is this what you two do for entertainment?
stop spending your money at these clubs, or simply divorce. Dud...following your questions, you're ruining your life. Decide what you want. you cannot have everything.
Tell her you go to knocking shops in East London............
It sounds like you have an expensive addiction. How about giving up the clubs and take your wife to the movies instead?
instead of paying for strippers 400 pounds why dont to pop in the annesummers shops and surprise you wife with some sexy underwear and things put you energy on your marridge before you wife finds out as for lying about seeing strippers you need to come clean and admit to your wife you have a problem an addiction is when it affects your life.and people around you come clean and tell her the truth a problem shared is a problem solved
First close your eyes.
Now empty your mind of the clubs you go to.
Imagine seeing your wife at one of these clubs.
She's sitting near the front, alone, at a table. She sips from a glass.
Music starts.
A curtain swishes back and a bloke appears, dressed as a builder.
He dances slowly and deliberately. Of all the women in the room, he focusses on your wife.
As he dances, he takes off all of his clothes until he's only wearing a tiny thong that's barely covering his 'packet'.
Now see your wife stuffing twenties into the waistband of his thong and touching his bulge.
Angry?
Now imagine yourself at home, alone, hungry, wondering why there's no food in the house for your dinner. It's all being spent on some bloke at that club!
Catch a grip of yourself and get some help. You're addicted and you need to break the habit.
I pity your wife, she doesn't deserve someone as self-centred and selfish as you.
Tell her the truth. That's the only way to convince her you have not been fooling around. Good luck!
I have viewed a few of your other questions. Now I have one for you: Are you a chauvinist pig or a freak?
no way! u should be spending money on ur woman! spending on strippers occasionally is ok but make sure u are taking care of home first!
believeable excuses? don't know....sorry
well are you cheating on her...if u did then forget it...but if not just give her the best night of her life
first dont go to the clubs but if you cannot resist buy your wife something nice (on the cheep i suggest ebay) and sy it cost more than it did that way she feels spoilt and she thinks the money has gone on her
ur not faithfull looking at other naked women, stop the addiction and treat your wife right and spend the cash on her instead,
You are a loser.
If you dont think you are being unfaithful then tell her you go to lapdancing clubs.
She will ask you why you go - what will you reply? That fake sex with these girls sure beats her? Or maybe you just need to feel desired - in which case why not invest time and effort in getting that back with your wife.
Why spend 拢400 on women that pretend to like you for cash? For an ego boost I guess. Remember most of these girls have a real disdain of all the sad little men that come and pay them to pretend you are the hottest guy ever. Spend the next 拢400 on some lingerie and some striptease lessons for your wife if thats what floats your boat. At least she actually wants you, rather than seeing you as a wad of notes
first of all, you aren't being faithful at all. she has every reason to suspect that you are being anything BUT faithful to her. you are looking at other women lustfully, while your wife is at home. you need to admit you have a problem and try to clean up your act - not cover it up!!
Oh deary me!
Your will go blind if you lie to your wife...
....because when she finds out she will poke your eyes out!
u need to be honest with her.......how would u like if she was doing things like that behind ur back
stop going to the clubs and wasting 400 pound a time. there are no believable excuses
Sounds like she has every right to question you. Maybe you should tell her where the money's going and let her make your choice for you.
Internet Relationship Advice?
I have recently found myslef in a simi-dating realtionship with someone I met online. I am a very careful person. He doesn't know any personal information. I know these usually don't work out and it's a really silly idea. But I was wondering if anyone had any good advice for me? To dos not to dos. I am already aware of the need to have privicy and safety and about the precautions to take. But any general advice would be great. Thanks.Internet Relationship Advice?
TO DO's.................
1- always listen to your intuition
2- if you think he's lying, he probably is
3- do not believe everything he says
NOT TO DO'S.....................
1- spend money on him
2- share personal information
3- be afraid to ask questions.......
if he is honest and open he will have nothing to hide and will answer your questions easily. if he gives a short answer that just leaves you with more questions................he's hiding somethingInternet Relationship Advice?
Dont do it! Because there is still gonna be me...just email me to panggarbesi94@yahoo.com. We re on the same problem.
I met an amazing woman online and we are in a serious relationship and doing well. Just find out how much respect he has for u
don't get involved it's not worth it
Hea honey watch out because i meet this chic bit it was a dude that wanted money
You probably already know this, but don't meet him anywhere private. Meet him at a mall or something with a group of friends, and invite him to bring some of his friends, too. Even if he seems nice, make absolutely sure he doesn't follow you home the first several times you see each other. Maybe you could meet his family before you ever tell him where you live, or something like that. Be extremely careful. I've heard of these kinds of relationships really working out before, but I've also heard of crazy sickos who stalk, rape, and murder people. Good luck!
It could work out, but I would want to make sure that he is not married. There are a lot of married guys out there on the Internet pretending not to be. The next step after online could be exchanging phone calls. Is he free to call you evenings, weekends, etc... if not, that's a red flag he's married.
Yea, you aren't in any sort of a dating relationship if you don't share personal information. My advice, either make it happen in the real world, or just stop with the fantasy of dating this person. Anything you do that is strictly on the internet and where you don't share information is a fantasy.
Take small steps. Email for awhile (and exchange pictures) before exchanging phone numbers. Talk on the phone awhile before agreeing to meet. Meet in a public place.
And it's really not so silly. I met my husband online. (and he's a doctor!) We've been married for six years.
But how can you be in a relationship with someone without sharing personal information? That's the best thing about online dating- the amount of stuff you can find out!
(Unlike when you meet a guy in a bar! You could date him for a month before discovering that he's a bigot. Or a republican. Or not that bright...)
Are you dating this person and haven't met them. After you do meet him I would take it as if you just met a stranger and build up trust from there. I would like to say that sometimes internet relationships do work out. Mine did.
I did it, and it was wonderful. The only reason it's not still active is she lives 600 miles away....not fair to me, or her. I ended it because she was never going to, and she needed to meet a good guy locally, and I needed to do the same.
Dating anyone now days can be a pain in the ****! You have to keep some sort of distance and privacy about yourself no matter what. Some of my best friends (have met them in person!) have been met on the net! Don't let it scare you, just be careful!
i have a friend i met from the net but we r really just friends
i think the importent thing is if u can trust him or not
dont trust him immidiatly
go to a public place i chose the mall at day time at first
goodluck!
take all the time needed to really get to know this person ...... i talked to my boyfriend for over a year before we actually met .... then we started dating .... and 3 months later we moved in together lol ....now it's been 3 years later ...and he's no crazy killer so far lol ..... just be really inquisitive .and careful take your time and when the time is right , you will be sure , always listen to yourself ......if you ever have a doubt , then it's not right !!!
I am not sure I can be of much help, but I have done the Internet dating, while i was married, not to smart I know. I live in Georgia, and the guy lived in Minnesota. He told he he was 21 and we started chatting, then talking on the phone, then he would fly down to meet me once a month, then, he eventually moved down here, all of this while I am still married. Come to find out he had just turned 18, was psycho, and I did not know much about him at all, even though after almost a year of that , I thought I did.My husband and I worked through things, and it was a lesson learned, I think even if I was single it would still be hard to find someone online and trust the relationship. Good luck.
For what it's worth, I met my wife on line. Just spend lots of time getting to know the person. Sometimes it is easier to write than it is to talk to the person face to face. Open up, let him see what makes you tick. I mean, it's not like he's asking for your social security number or your mother's maiden name right?
Just get to know each other as best you can. Ask all the questions you want, especially the things you think are important for someone you date. I hope you've seen their photo. If you haven't, you need to ask them for one. If they make excuses and don't want to give you a pic, I'd be very wary.
If you meet the person, do so in a public place.
Online dating is not silly, it's how I've been dating for the past 5 years. I'm too shy to approach people in person. Not all people on the internet are weirdos, trust me. :) I'm dating a very wonderful guy at the moment that I met online.
my sister is having an internet relationship and it seems to be going very well......my advice is do not tell them any personal info and definatley if they ask for money you dont give them any...what you need to do is meet each other and see how things progress from there good luck
I've done the same thing. Sometimes they do work out really well. I wish you luck. My advice is to be very careful. You don't know who you are typing to. Be very very careful and watch the Dateline specials on internet predators. I am not saying that is your situation, just be careful.
i started talking to a man bout three years ago. he lived 11 hours away. we talk for awhile then decided to meet with each other half way in another state. both of us brought someone just bc it was our first time meeting in person.after that we continued to talk and get to know each other on a differant level.he came to my home and stayed a week. now he lives with me.he's lived here for almost two years so things like this can work. you just have to keep your eyes wide open and follow your instincts.
i would say take it easy no go for a crazy meeting or something like that ...and besides how do you know that he is telling you the truths?? My advice do not trust people easy...personal experiance.....
we say Trust Is Good But Not Trust Better
If you plan on meeting in person, bring a friend and have emergeny numbers on your cell phone. I think its great tha you can find some one online, with out meeting in person, you know whit out haveing the looks problem get in the way.
relationship advice
TO DO's.................
1- always listen to your intuition
2- if you think he's lying, he probably is
3- do not believe everything he says
NOT TO DO'S.....................
1- spend money on him
2- share personal information
3- be afraid to ask questions.......
if he is honest and open he will have nothing to hide and will answer your questions easily. if he gives a short answer that just leaves you with more questions................he's hiding somethingInternet Relationship Advice?
Dont do it! Because there is still gonna be me...just email me to panggarbesi94@yahoo.com. We re on the same problem.
I met an amazing woman online and we are in a serious relationship and doing well. Just find out how much respect he has for u
don't get involved it's not worth it
Hea honey watch out because i meet this chic bit it was a dude that wanted money
You probably already know this, but don't meet him anywhere private. Meet him at a mall or something with a group of friends, and invite him to bring some of his friends, too. Even if he seems nice, make absolutely sure he doesn't follow you home the first several times you see each other. Maybe you could meet his family before you ever tell him where you live, or something like that. Be extremely careful. I've heard of these kinds of relationships really working out before, but I've also heard of crazy sickos who stalk, rape, and murder people. Good luck!
It could work out, but I would want to make sure that he is not married. There are a lot of married guys out there on the Internet pretending not to be. The next step after online could be exchanging phone calls. Is he free to call you evenings, weekends, etc... if not, that's a red flag he's married.
Yea, you aren't in any sort of a dating relationship if you don't share personal information. My advice, either make it happen in the real world, or just stop with the fantasy of dating this person. Anything you do that is strictly on the internet and where you don't share information is a fantasy.
Take small steps. Email for awhile (and exchange pictures) before exchanging phone numbers. Talk on the phone awhile before agreeing to meet. Meet in a public place.
And it's really not so silly. I met my husband online. (and he's a doctor!) We've been married for six years.
But how can you be in a relationship with someone without sharing personal information? That's the best thing about online dating- the amount of stuff you can find out!
(Unlike when you meet a guy in a bar! You could date him for a month before discovering that he's a bigot. Or a republican. Or not that bright...)
Are you dating this person and haven't met them. After you do meet him I would take it as if you just met a stranger and build up trust from there. I would like to say that sometimes internet relationships do work out. Mine did.
I did it, and it was wonderful. The only reason it's not still active is she lives 600 miles away....not fair to me, or her. I ended it because she was never going to, and she needed to meet a good guy locally, and I needed to do the same.
Dating anyone now days can be a pain in the ****! You have to keep some sort of distance and privacy about yourself no matter what. Some of my best friends (have met them in person!) have been met on the net! Don't let it scare you, just be careful!
i have a friend i met from the net but we r really just friends
i think the importent thing is if u can trust him or not
dont trust him immidiatly
go to a public place i chose the mall at day time at first
goodluck!
take all the time needed to really get to know this person ...... i talked to my boyfriend for over a year before we actually met .... then we started dating .... and 3 months later we moved in together lol ....now it's been 3 years later ...and he's no crazy killer so far lol ..... just be really inquisitive .and careful take your time and when the time is right , you will be sure , always listen to yourself ......if you ever have a doubt , then it's not right !!!
I am not sure I can be of much help, but I have done the Internet dating, while i was married, not to smart I know. I live in Georgia, and the guy lived in Minnesota. He told he he was 21 and we started chatting, then talking on the phone, then he would fly down to meet me once a month, then, he eventually moved down here, all of this while I am still married. Come to find out he had just turned 18, was psycho, and I did not know much about him at all, even though after almost a year of that , I thought I did.My husband and I worked through things, and it was a lesson learned, I think even if I was single it would still be hard to find someone online and trust the relationship. Good luck.
For what it's worth, I met my wife on line. Just spend lots of time getting to know the person. Sometimes it is easier to write than it is to talk to the person face to face. Open up, let him see what makes you tick. I mean, it's not like he's asking for your social security number or your mother's maiden name right?
Just get to know each other as best you can. Ask all the questions you want, especially the things you think are important for someone you date. I hope you've seen their photo. If you haven't, you need to ask them for one. If they make excuses and don't want to give you a pic, I'd be very wary.
If you meet the person, do so in a public place.
Online dating is not silly, it's how I've been dating for the past 5 years. I'm too shy to approach people in person. Not all people on the internet are weirdos, trust me. :) I'm dating a very wonderful guy at the moment that I met online.
my sister is having an internet relationship and it seems to be going very well......my advice is do not tell them any personal info and definatley if they ask for money you dont give them any...what you need to do is meet each other and see how things progress from there good luck
I've done the same thing. Sometimes they do work out really well. I wish you luck. My advice is to be very careful. You don't know who you are typing to. Be very very careful and watch the Dateline specials on internet predators. I am not saying that is your situation, just be careful.
i started talking to a man bout three years ago. he lived 11 hours away. we talk for awhile then decided to meet with each other half way in another state. both of us brought someone just bc it was our first time meeting in person.after that we continued to talk and get to know each other on a differant level.he came to my home and stayed a week. now he lives with me.he's lived here for almost two years so things like this can work. you just have to keep your eyes wide open and follow your instincts.
i would say take it easy no go for a crazy meeting or something like that ...and besides how do you know that he is telling you the truths?? My advice do not trust people easy...personal experiance.....
we say Trust Is Good But Not Trust Better
If you plan on meeting in person, bring a friend and have emergeny numbers on your cell phone. I think its great tha you can find some one online, with out meeting in person, you know whit out haveing the looks problem get in the way.
relationship advice
Need relationship advice ASAP?
okay. [takes deep breath]
i have this dude that have been practically asking me out since the first time we've met. He's just not my type and i've tried tons and different ways to tell him no but he's the kind of guy that take things to seriously. i dont wana say no in a way he dont like, and the next thing i kno, Lord forbits, i end up in a hospital. =X
So need your help, how should i let him go but still sort of keep a friendship between us????Need relationship advice ASAP?
Sorry to say - the smart thing to do is to just say NO. If you're assertive and stand your ground he won't mess with you :)
i have this dude that have been practically asking me out since the first time we've met. He's just not my type and i've tried tons and different ways to tell him no but he's the kind of guy that take things to seriously. i dont wana say no in a way he dont like, and the next thing i kno, Lord forbits, i end up in a hospital. =X
So need your help, how should i let him go but still sort of keep a friendship between us????Need relationship advice ASAP?
Sorry to say - the smart thing to do is to just say NO. If you're assertive and stand your ground he won't mess with you :)
Need Relationship Advice?
So me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and living together for a year and a half! Recently he has decided to move out, cause he has never had the chance to be fully independent! (like bills etc.) But recently I have been having these dreams that our relationship had ended and woke up crying! Does this mean anything? Please HelpNeed Relationship Advice?
If he wants to move out after living with you for 1 1/2 years and uses the excuse that he wants to be fully independant than its time for you to let him go and move on. The both of you should have became fully independant before you moved in with one another in the first place and you dont sound very independant. Your dreaming about him and crying because your not as willing to let go and break-ups hurt. Please take care of yourself and dont be so quick to jump into living with someone. Best Wishes.Need Relationship Advice?
Your dreams are probably just emanating from your insecurities about his moving out. They are not forseeing the future unless you allow them to. Explain your insecurities about him moving out to your boyfriend. Chances are he doesn't even realize that he's hurting you, subconciously or not.
Your just scared to leave him.or he might leave you..
It just means you are afraid of losing your relationship.
Just let him do what he has to do. Remember, the more you try to keep him from doing what he wants - the more he wants freedom.
Set him free, if it's meant to be - he will find his way back to you.
dreams are just pieces of your conchence put together.. so these dreams are your worries about this ending.. you need to do something to relax your body and mind to get it off of the worries about him ending the relationship maybe you should try going to a spa for a day..
you are worrying about things that might not even be true
no dreams don't always come true. but he just wants to be independent and live byhimselff. don't stress. everything will be okay. everyone always says the first year is the hardest. if he starts acting weird after he moves out then you might have something to worry about. but don't stress now. everything will be okay.
There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend wanting to be independent, but that does not mean he cant be independent while living with you. If he wants to experience the bills and everything like that, let him help out with paying utilities like water or cable. As far as the dream, it can be interpreted as since he has recently moved out, you feel as if you are losing him because you are not used to being away from him, just talk to him and tell him how you feel and about the dreams and let him know that you love him, ask him to move back in and explain to him that he can be independent while living with you at the same time. Good luck with everything, i hope this helps.
nah, tell him to just not move too far away so you two can see eachother every day. there could be a lot of reasons that he wants to do this. maybe he's cheating :( i really don't like saying that to you though, because if you have a good relationship which you didn't say anything about any real problems and your sex life is good (which i even tell my gf thats not all i care about but it IS important for a good relationship) then you don't have to worry about it. your relationship won't end, and he's most likely not cheating. Giving him the benefit of the doubt maybe he just wants to prove that he is able to be independent and maybe he just feels like he needs a little bit of space to be alone once in a while. Living together does kind of take away from all of your alone time... i enjoy being alone too so i can understand where he's coming from. you don't have anything to worry about unless he starts going out to dinner with ';friends'; or goes out to clubs and stuff, just try to eat together every night and stuff but he probably just wants to have some time alone to think and stuff. Hey, it could actually help your relationship in the long run! :) sometimes once you're away from eachother for a bit it makes you enjoy the time you have together a lot more and you will cherish one and other a lot more :) ( trust me i'm in the military and every time i have to leave my gf i fall in love with her like 10 times more while i'm gone, its all about trust and faithfulness )
Yes, it mean that is a 50% he'll going to break up with you.
the reason is he already decided to move our and his reason is because he has never had the chance to be independent. give me a break!.
Dam that could be a little wierd tho if i lived with my gf i would want her to stay and experence that so i think you should be a little worried he mite be cheating but dout it he mite jst be breathing but he will be back soon if there isnt any problems
he moved out cause he wanted to be independent what is that rubbish?
you been living with him what one and a half years, thats a pretty big commitment.
there has to be some other reason. sit him down tell him that you just want to be with him and if he really wanted to be with you why would he move out so he can pay bills on hes own?
everyone needs someone why would he decide to be independent now?
there has to some other reasons just talk to him about them and ask what they are
I think you're feeling insecure about your relationship with him.
If he wants to move out after living with you for 1 1/2 years and uses the excuse that he wants to be fully independant than its time for you to let him go and move on. The both of you should have became fully independant before you moved in with one another in the first place and you dont sound very independant. Your dreaming about him and crying because your not as willing to let go and break-ups hurt. Please take care of yourself and dont be so quick to jump into living with someone. Best Wishes.Need Relationship Advice?
Your dreams are probably just emanating from your insecurities about his moving out. They are not forseeing the future unless you allow them to. Explain your insecurities about him moving out to your boyfriend. Chances are he doesn't even realize that he's hurting you, subconciously or not.
Your just scared to leave him.or he might leave you..
It just means you are afraid of losing your relationship.
Just let him do what he has to do. Remember, the more you try to keep him from doing what he wants - the more he wants freedom.
Set him free, if it's meant to be - he will find his way back to you.
dreams are just pieces of your conchence put together.. so these dreams are your worries about this ending.. you need to do something to relax your body and mind to get it off of the worries about him ending the relationship maybe you should try going to a spa for a day..
you are worrying about things that might not even be true
no dreams don't always come true. but he just wants to be independent and live byhimselff. don't stress. everything will be okay. everyone always says the first year is the hardest. if he starts acting weird after he moves out then you might have something to worry about. but don't stress now. everything will be okay.
There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend wanting to be independent, but that does not mean he cant be independent while living with you. If he wants to experience the bills and everything like that, let him help out with paying utilities like water or cable. As far as the dream, it can be interpreted as since he has recently moved out, you feel as if you are losing him because you are not used to being away from him, just talk to him and tell him how you feel and about the dreams and let him know that you love him, ask him to move back in and explain to him that he can be independent while living with you at the same time. Good luck with everything, i hope this helps.
nah, tell him to just not move too far away so you two can see eachother every day. there could be a lot of reasons that he wants to do this. maybe he's cheating :( i really don't like saying that to you though, because if you have a good relationship which you didn't say anything about any real problems and your sex life is good (which i even tell my gf thats not all i care about but it IS important for a good relationship) then you don't have to worry about it. your relationship won't end, and he's most likely not cheating. Giving him the benefit of the doubt maybe he just wants to prove that he is able to be independent and maybe he just feels like he needs a little bit of space to be alone once in a while. Living together does kind of take away from all of your alone time... i enjoy being alone too so i can understand where he's coming from. you don't have anything to worry about unless he starts going out to dinner with ';friends'; or goes out to clubs and stuff, just try to eat together every night and stuff but he probably just wants to have some time alone to think and stuff. Hey, it could actually help your relationship in the long run! :) sometimes once you're away from eachother for a bit it makes you enjoy the time you have together a lot more and you will cherish one and other a lot more :) ( trust me i'm in the military and every time i have to leave my gf i fall in love with her like 10 times more while i'm gone, its all about trust and faithfulness )
Yes, it mean that is a 50% he'll going to break up with you.
the reason is he already decided to move our and his reason is because he has never had the chance to be independent. give me a break!.
Dam that could be a little wierd tho if i lived with my gf i would want her to stay and experence that so i think you should be a little worried he mite be cheating but dout it he mite jst be breathing but he will be back soon if there isnt any problems
he moved out cause he wanted to be independent what is that rubbish?
you been living with him what one and a half years, thats a pretty big commitment.
there has to be some other reason. sit him down tell him that you just want to be with him and if he really wanted to be with you why would he move out so he can pay bills on hes own?
everyone needs someone why would he decide to be independent now?
there has to some other reasons just talk to him about them and ask what they are
I think you're feeling insecure about your relationship with him.
First Relationship advice?
Ok so I'm 16 and this will be my first relationship with a guy. I know we will be holding hands and kissing but is there anything else I should know about? I know he isnt a virgen but I am and what to keep it that way until I am married. How should I tell him this if he gets too touchy? How do I act affectionate without being clingy? Thanks so much!First Relationship advice?
Trust me I know what you mean I was in the same problem that you are in. You need to tell him before you guys go out so that he knows what your planes are for you and she what happens and if he can't handle it and he leaves trust me there is a lot of other guys out there that you can be with that wants the same thing you do so don't let any guy make you have sex with them because that is wrong you should want to have sex with the preson that you want to spend the rest of your life together with.First Relationship advice?
well one thing that is very important in a relationship is honesty and if you feel that way and he likes you then he will understand and do anything he can to saty with you. If he gets to touchy and you are not comfortable with it then you need to tell him that if he acts like a jerk about it or is not understanding then that a sure sign that you could be with someone that does respect you and your wishes. You need to stay true to yourself you cant let anyone pressure or get you to do things that you dont wanna do. Being affectionate and being clingy are to different actions if you want to be affectionate do it to your liking but dont go to far and expect him not to get to touchy and get the wrong impression. Relationships can be alot of un with out the mushy stuff, just have fun with it you are still young!!!
talking a lot, you get all lovey dovey, sometimes very sensual feelings come out (a lot of my friends), hugs, and more. If he gets to touchy just tell him your not ready and he should respect you for that and you can be affectionate whenever you want but also don't be hangy on him all the time calling him everyday, getting jealous when he talks to some girl or when he wants to hang out with his friends let him. But also make sure he does spend time with you. Good luck =]
Go with the flow and find out if he is a true gentlemen, who'd respect you or is another d*ickhead who isnt in it for a relationship.
Just relax and let the kissing and hugging come to you, it's more special and can go on for years to remember those moments.
Trust me I know what you mean I was in the same problem that you are in. You need to tell him before you guys go out so that he knows what your planes are for you and she what happens and if he can't handle it and he leaves trust me there is a lot of other guys out there that you can be with that wants the same thing you do so don't let any guy make you have sex with them because that is wrong you should want to have sex with the preson that you want to spend the rest of your life together with.First Relationship advice?
well one thing that is very important in a relationship is honesty and if you feel that way and he likes you then he will understand and do anything he can to saty with you. If he gets to touchy and you are not comfortable with it then you need to tell him that if he acts like a jerk about it or is not understanding then that a sure sign that you could be with someone that does respect you and your wishes. You need to stay true to yourself you cant let anyone pressure or get you to do things that you dont wanna do. Being affectionate and being clingy are to different actions if you want to be affectionate do it to your liking but dont go to far and expect him not to get to touchy and get the wrong impression. Relationships can be alot of un with out the mushy stuff, just have fun with it you are still young!!!
talking a lot, you get all lovey dovey, sometimes very sensual feelings come out (a lot of my friends), hugs, and more. If he gets to touchy just tell him your not ready and he should respect you for that and you can be affectionate whenever you want but also don't be hangy on him all the time calling him everyday, getting jealous when he talks to some girl or when he wants to hang out with his friends let him. But also make sure he does spend time with you. Good luck =]
Go with the flow and find out if he is a true gentlemen, who'd respect you or is another d*ickhead who isnt in it for a relationship.
Just relax and let the kissing and hugging come to you, it's more special and can go on for years to remember those moments.
Any relationship advice?!?!?
My girlfriend and I have been going out or about a year. Recently she went away for university in Europe, and since she left we've been fighting a lot, (obviously, long distance is hard).
I am planning on visiting her, but I'm afraid to book a flight and have us break up before I go there because of all the fighting.
What should I do?Any relationship advice?!?!?
hmm...well i guess you have to decide weather your relationship is worth travel. If you love her enough to atempt getting back together even after a harsh breakup witch isnt garenteed you can always recendle your flame once you get there. and if not you get some alone time in a new place to find new girls.Any relationship advice?!?!?
Talk to her about it. If you two really want to stay together, you should try to solve your disagreements.
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Probably just tell her what's going on, im sure she has the same fear.
btw- no, lol. i know the jonas brothers wear those rings too, but yeah sure im a fan. but thats not the reason, thanks for answering
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I am planning on visiting her, but I'm afraid to book a flight and have us break up before I go there because of all the fighting.
What should I do?Any relationship advice?!?!?
hmm...well i guess you have to decide weather your relationship is worth travel. If you love her enough to atempt getting back together even after a harsh breakup witch isnt garenteed you can always recendle your flame once you get there. and if not you get some alone time in a new place to find new girls.Any relationship advice?!?!?
Talk to her about it. If you two really want to stay together, you should try to solve your disagreements.
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Probably just tell her what's going on, im sure she has the same fear.
btw- no, lol. i know the jonas brothers wear those rings too, but yeah sure im a fan. but thats not the reason, thanks for answering
mwahhhhhh
What's the best relationship advice someone has given you?...or can give?
In pre-marital counseling the priest told us that ';anything that is a problem now will multiply by 10 after you are married';. I wish we had worked out a few more issues before we got married, but oh well.....What's the best relationship advice someone has given you?...or can give?
I wonder who said that? I love ya ...Im so much in ';LIKE';What's the best relationship advice someone has given you?...or can give?
Love and see them for who they are, not who you want them to be or what you want to see
I have a really close friend who's had my back for ages. His advice to me was that if I wouldn't consider marrying the person, they aren't worth dating.
Also, I think if you have difficulties communicating with your girlfriend or boyfriend, and talking about everything just doesn't come naturally to each other, that's a sign that the relationship isn't going to work out. Because in the long run, it all comes down to communication and trust, which are closely linked. Sure, dating someone who's attractive has it's perks...but a relationship based on lust is only going to end badly once the two of you get what you want out of the other.
So I guess just make sure that you two can talk easily, be friends with them first, and then eventually, if it's right, one thing should lead to another, and you can start dating.
Good Luck! :)
When you are in the wrong and know you are in the wrong say you are sorry. If fighting over something really stupid and small get over it quickly and move on. Laugh about it later. Keep the love alive by continuing the cute little love notes and special things you do for them. Compliment each other and stay true to one another.
Make sure both of you are on the same page. love respect and communication are the keywords to successful relationship.
it is like a bridge, as long as both supports are in place it works, if one is weak it can be a disaster
it is better to be single, wishing you were married than married, wishing you were single.living nature
I wonder who said that? I love ya ...Im so much in ';LIKE';What's the best relationship advice someone has given you?...or can give?
Love and see them for who they are, not who you want them to be or what you want to see
I have a really close friend who's had my back for ages. His advice to me was that if I wouldn't consider marrying the person, they aren't worth dating.
Also, I think if you have difficulties communicating with your girlfriend or boyfriend, and talking about everything just doesn't come naturally to each other, that's a sign that the relationship isn't going to work out. Because in the long run, it all comes down to communication and trust, which are closely linked. Sure, dating someone who's attractive has it's perks...but a relationship based on lust is only going to end badly once the two of you get what you want out of the other.
So I guess just make sure that you two can talk easily, be friends with them first, and then eventually, if it's right, one thing should lead to another, and you can start dating.
Good Luck! :)
When you are in the wrong and know you are in the wrong say you are sorry. If fighting over something really stupid and small get over it quickly and move on. Laugh about it later. Keep the love alive by continuing the cute little love notes and special things you do for them. Compliment each other and stay true to one another.
Make sure both of you are on the same page. love respect and communication are the keywords to successful relationship.
it is like a bridge, as long as both supports are in place it works, if one is weak it can be a disaster
it is better to be single, wishing you were married than married, wishing you were single.
I need some huge relationship advice...?
ok. my girlfriends i thinks just going through a phase where she is kinda ignoring me. shes been really quiet and like hasnt been as excited around me. I hope its just something small, but i want her to want like me as when our relationship first started. do I talk to her about it? cuz i dont want to annoy her. what do I do....?I need some huge relationship advice...?
it might be that you're spending too much time together. give her some space. be ';busy'; for a couple days and don't see her. don't call her or anything. just send her a text goodnight and leave it at that. she'll probably get over it pretty quickly. it happens to everyone.I need some huge relationship advice...?
ask her wats the matter and let her kno you there 4 her
I would let her know you are worried about her and ask her what is wrong, be prepared for the answer though.
yeahh talk to her as long as you want.. ask her.
Does she have a history of mental illness? Has a relative died or gotten sick?
She sounds generally depressed. And yes YOU are a person she should be talking to.
Don't try to fix it though... Just listen,
talk to her about it ...it mite not be something u can fix sounds like she is not interested anoymore... it could be someone else
you need to do something spontaneous.Make her feel like your your still that same guy from before.
Yea im sorry to tell you this but when a girl goes through that phase its not a good sign. This is what I would advice you to do... Talk to her about it because the biggest and most important characteristic that makes a relationship is communication. Without it there is NO relationship. Goodluck and no matter what she says remember to keep your head up :)
put your arm around her with the hand around her rub her shoulder and say whats wrong and or why have you been ignoring me it could be something simple as there isn't enough excitement or you forgot a significant date
Just let her feel what she is feeling but not too long start to play with her try anything to make her laugh and when she starts laughing keep on but it can be something serious And if you ask her and she doesn't want to tell you it's usually about you
Just let her be when shes ready she'll talk to you she could just be having a bad week like she could've had a fight with one of her friends or family member or anything.
Don't bug her about it that'll just annoy her let her be good luck
You can ask her what is going on let her know you are there to listen. However, she may have some personal issues that she really does not feel comfortable discussing.
it might be that you're spending too much time together. give her some space. be ';busy'; for a couple days and don't see her. don't call her or anything. just send her a text goodnight and leave it at that. she'll probably get over it pretty quickly. it happens to everyone.I need some huge relationship advice...?
ask her wats the matter and let her kno you there 4 her
I would let her know you are worried about her and ask her what is wrong, be prepared for the answer though.
yeahh talk to her as long as you want.. ask her.
Does she have a history of mental illness? Has a relative died or gotten sick?
She sounds generally depressed. And yes YOU are a person she should be talking to.
Don't try to fix it though... Just listen,
talk to her about it ...it mite not be something u can fix sounds like she is not interested anoymore... it could be someone else
you need to do something spontaneous.Make her feel like your your still that same guy from before.
Yea im sorry to tell you this but when a girl goes through that phase its not a good sign. This is what I would advice you to do... Talk to her about it because the biggest and most important characteristic that makes a relationship is communication. Without it there is NO relationship. Goodluck and no matter what she says remember to keep your head up :)
put your arm around her with the hand around her rub her shoulder and say whats wrong and or why have you been ignoring me it could be something simple as there isn't enough excitement or you forgot a significant date
Just let her feel what she is feeling but not too long start to play with her try anything to make her laugh and when she starts laughing keep on but it can be something serious And if you ask her and she doesn't want to tell you it's usually about you
Just let her be when shes ready she'll talk to you she could just be having a bad week like she could've had a fight with one of her friends or family member or anything.
Don't bug her about it that'll just annoy her let her be good luck
You can ask her what is going on let her know you are there to listen. However, she may have some personal issues that she really does not feel comfortable discussing.
New relationship advice?
I recently started a relationship with a guy that I really like who I've been friends with for some time. I am inexperienced with relationships and he is not...anything I should know or advice you can give me??New relationship advice?
take it one day at a time, every relationship is a experience and a gamble!! good luck!New relationship advice?
Just be yourself and you'll be all right... GOOD LUCK!!!
Act like yourself around him like you normally would. Just take your time with everything and you don't have to rush it if you don't want to.
Don't rush things until you feel confortable doing so. If you have been friends before the relationship, he will understand.
give him something to work with :) give him a lil bit
(if u know what um sayin)
he will express hes feelings i promise
Don't stress over the small stuff, trust your man, never show jealousy towards another woman in front of him, never nag him about being with the boys, always be there when he needs you, and oh yeah be sure to have a life outside the one your making with him...Let him know you got a life of your own and friends too, that don't include him!!! He'll appreciate your independence and your need to live your own life!!!
Never hook up with his friends and never ever fight and argue in public!!! Hope this little tid bit helps...Good Luck!!
Yes give him the whip cream bikini and he will never leave you...that night!
go with the flow.
be understanding and sweet. flirt. try to be a good kisser (do this by watching kissing scenes in movies.
gl
just go with the flow
but dont let him force you into anything though
eventually you will become more relaxed and not so inexperienced:P
just take it slow go with the flow then ever thing will fall in place
dont force anything
I would talk twith him, tell him that youd like to take things slowly.
Never let him pressure you into doing something youre not sure about, take your time!!!!
Your first relationship is special, so enjoy it!!!!
take it one day at a time, every relationship is a experience and a gamble!! good luck!New relationship advice?
Just be yourself and you'll be all right... GOOD LUCK!!!
Act like yourself around him like you normally would. Just take your time with everything and you don't have to rush it if you don't want to.
Don't rush things until you feel confortable doing so. If you have been friends before the relationship, he will understand.
give him something to work with :) give him a lil bit
(if u know what um sayin)
he will express hes feelings i promise
Don't stress over the small stuff, trust your man, never show jealousy towards another woman in front of him, never nag him about being with the boys, always be there when he needs you, and oh yeah be sure to have a life outside the one your making with him...Let him know you got a life of your own and friends too, that don't include him!!! He'll appreciate your independence and your need to live your own life!!!
Never hook up with his friends and never ever fight and argue in public!!! Hope this little tid bit helps...Good Luck!!
Yes give him the whip cream bikini and he will never leave you...that night!
go with the flow.
be understanding and sweet. flirt. try to be a good kisser (do this by watching kissing scenes in movies.
gl
just go with the flow
but dont let him force you into anything though
eventually you will become more relaxed and not so inexperienced:P
just take it slow go with the flow then ever thing will fall in place
dont force anything
I would talk twith him, tell him that youd like to take things slowly.
Never let him pressure you into doing something youre not sure about, take your time!!!!
Your first relationship is special, so enjoy it!!!!
Help i need relationship advice!?
I work with this guy and we started seeing each other, he has just come out of a long relationship. It started off relaxed with us but then it got more involved, e.g. going away weekends, staying the night together, basically always together! BUT... he dont want a relationship? but its like one!?? is this because he has just split up with someone? im confused, he dont like other guys looking or talking to me when im with him! where do i stand and what shall i do?
Thank youHelp i need relationship advice!?
It sounds like he doesn't want the assumed progress of a relationship. Maybe he doesn't want you to start planning a future together...
But if he has no right to get pissed about guys talking to you. If he - or you want to be monogamous, you have to talk about it. No matter what though, you can talk with who ever you like. You deserve someone who trusts you.
Thank youHelp i need relationship advice!?
It sounds like he doesn't want the assumed progress of a relationship. Maybe he doesn't want you to start planning a future together...
But if he has no right to get pissed about guys talking to you. If he - or you want to be monogamous, you have to talk about it. No matter what though, you can talk with who ever you like. You deserve someone who trusts you.
Some relationship advice?
I meet this girl who i liked for a long time and she likes me the problem is that i have a close friend who knows her and knows that this girl has had problems in her past relationships she acts like your the love of her life and then brakes guys hearts. i talked to her about it and she tells me she is not going to do that but how do i know for sure how can i open my heart to someone like that i really like this girl and want things to work any help will doSome relationship advice?
people dont change its a simple fact and people just need to get that but if you really wanna give it a try then go ahead but then again the first thing she does that is sorta not to your liking then just comfront her if she does somthin again then you need to end it it will just get worseSome relationship advice?
well i mean if she has done it before in tha past...then nothing is bound to change in this relationship but you sound lyke you really lyke her a lot! jus give it a shot...dont sweat it...maybe you could be different or maybe she needs to grow up and realize a good guy when she see's one...good luck!
if she did that to others believe me she will do it to you be careful maybe thats not someone for you ,you might just have to let that go because getting hurt is not a good feeling believe me
FORGET ALL TAHT OTHER STUFF, HER FRIEND PROBALY WANTS U. gIVE HER A CHANCE AND IF U R THE ONE, THEN NO ONE CAN CHANGE THAT.
just because she said she won't, doesnt meet she won't.
its obviously not something she plans, but it can easliy happen.
Just take it slow and dont give more then you're given...keep it equal
go out wit her. like her. watever. jus keep your wall up till you feel secure enough to let yourself fall for her
i can write all the tips in the world but none would help u more thn these two.follow ur heart and thnk of today not tomorrow.
If you like her than give her a chance but you have to know that its prob always gonna be in the back of your mind wondering when she's gonna run ...
If u can keep thing exciting and fun then shell probly stay with u i think thats what shes leaving guys 4. she needs sum1 exciting and evry1 gets a little boring after u get 2 know them really well so best of luck
Well it depends on how you feel. I think you should go for it but just always be cautious and know that she could end it at anytime. Try to date her and have fun with her. If it doesn't last then move on to the next girl.
people dont change its a simple fact and people just need to get that but if you really wanna give it a try then go ahead but then again the first thing she does that is sorta not to your liking then just comfront her if she does somthin again then you need to end it it will just get worseSome relationship advice?
well i mean if she has done it before in tha past...then nothing is bound to change in this relationship but you sound lyke you really lyke her a lot! jus give it a shot...dont sweat it...maybe you could be different or maybe she needs to grow up and realize a good guy when she see's one...good luck!
if she did that to others believe me she will do it to you be careful maybe thats not someone for you ,you might just have to let that go because getting hurt is not a good feeling believe me
FORGET ALL TAHT OTHER STUFF, HER FRIEND PROBALY WANTS U. gIVE HER A CHANCE AND IF U R THE ONE, THEN NO ONE CAN CHANGE THAT.
just because she said she won't, doesnt meet she won't.
its obviously not something she plans, but it can easliy happen.
Just take it slow and dont give more then you're given...keep it equal
go out wit her. like her. watever. jus keep your wall up till you feel secure enough to let yourself fall for her
i can write all the tips in the world but none would help u more thn these two.follow ur heart and thnk of today not tomorrow.
If you like her than give her a chance but you have to know that its prob always gonna be in the back of your mind wondering when she's gonna run ...
If u can keep thing exciting and fun then shell probly stay with u i think thats what shes leaving guys 4. she needs sum1 exciting and evry1 gets a little boring after u get 2 know them really well so best of luck
Well it depends on how you feel. I think you should go for it but just always be cautious and know that she could end it at anytime. Try to date her and have fun with her. If it doesn't last then move on to the next girl.
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Sexless relationship, advice?
My girlfriend of ten years really hates sex, she thinks its wrong and dirty. How can I change her attitude towards sex?Sexless relationship, advice?
A Guy was making love to his girl and she started crying. I was seeing and said, “Are you going to hate yourself in the morning?” She said. “No. I hate myself now.”
Have a nice day and nice dreamSexless relationship, advice?
You need to make your girlfriend feel confident in her sexuality. Get away from physical sex for a while and concentrate on her mind. Heighten your intimacy with her through verbal expression and affectionate but non sexual touching. Tell her what she does to you and kiss her frequently and passionately but without the expectation of the sex she dreads. Talk about your body and her body until she feels comfortable with both and when you know each other intimately and she is sure of your committed love she will enjoy. It's all just a state of mind.
Sounds like she has some serious issues that need to be confronted, this could mean anything. Don't want to be an alarmist, but this relationship 'aint healthy pal. This could be in the shape of some form of abuse, if so my heart goes out to her, and you for putting up with it for so long. At some point she is gonna have to confront these demons and tackle them head on if she is going to embark on normal relationships, this will obviously mean counseling or something.
In the meantime, let me suggest that you need to excercise tact and empathy. Don't just sit there getting all frustrated and hexed up about it, try and get her to be open about why she hates sex. Be nice!
But, remember, you have the right to embark on a relationship that entails a normal sex life, and you can't be doing this for ever. Myself, after so long I would do my best to try and help her get over her fears and such, but if after all that the situation remained the same I'd break up with her.
Takes two to tango.
Has she suddenly decided this or has sex always been a problem for her?
If it has always been a problem for her she should seek counselling about it. It might be that she was brought up to think it was wrong to have sex. It's not like you are a one night stand you are here very long term girlfriend.
Talk to her.
sounds like a bummer.
But on the real..
That is some issues that that prolly started with her
from a young age.
Maybe someone taught her that... so she thinks that way.
Try to be loving as you can ...
I don't know.
I wish I had a solution for you.
Good luck to you both..
Hi dear i can totally understand your girlfriend...im 22 and im an asexual and i was so upset and thought that there was something wrong with me but my partner was around and helped...maybe your gf is asexual which means that human dont turn her on...but maybe cartoons, flowers might help...
She's definitely right on the dirty front. Maybe not the other though.
Sounds like a puritanical upbringing. Difficult to break childhood conditioning.
A relationship between two people with different sex drives rarely lasts. I'm amazed you've been together ten years.
Perhaps she was abused as a child. If so she needs counseling and compassion.
10 years? And you are only NOW realizing ';there MAY be a problem';?!!!
Sounds like B/S to me.
Marry her and she might not find it to be so dirty.
Get out. She's only a gf, and after 10 years if it;s this bad just move on.living nature
A Guy was making love to his girl and she started crying. I was seeing and said, “Are you going to hate yourself in the morning?” She said. “No. I hate myself now.”
Have a nice day and nice dreamSexless relationship, advice?
You need to make your girlfriend feel confident in her sexuality. Get away from physical sex for a while and concentrate on her mind. Heighten your intimacy with her through verbal expression and affectionate but non sexual touching. Tell her what she does to you and kiss her frequently and passionately but without the expectation of the sex she dreads. Talk about your body and her body until she feels comfortable with both and when you know each other intimately and she is sure of your committed love she will enjoy. It's all just a state of mind.
Sounds like she has some serious issues that need to be confronted, this could mean anything. Don't want to be an alarmist, but this relationship 'aint healthy pal. This could be in the shape of some form of abuse, if so my heart goes out to her, and you for putting up with it for so long. At some point she is gonna have to confront these demons and tackle them head on if she is going to embark on normal relationships, this will obviously mean counseling or something.
In the meantime, let me suggest that you need to excercise tact and empathy. Don't just sit there getting all frustrated and hexed up about it, try and get her to be open about why she hates sex. Be nice!
But, remember, you have the right to embark on a relationship that entails a normal sex life, and you can't be doing this for ever. Myself, after so long I would do my best to try and help her get over her fears and such, but if after all that the situation remained the same I'd break up with her.
Takes two to tango.
Has she suddenly decided this or has sex always been a problem for her?
If it has always been a problem for her she should seek counselling about it. It might be that she was brought up to think it was wrong to have sex. It's not like you are a one night stand you are here very long term girlfriend.
Talk to her.
sounds like a bummer.
But on the real..
That is some issues that that prolly started with her
from a young age.
Maybe someone taught her that... so she thinks that way.
Try to be loving as you can ...
I don't know.
I wish I had a solution for you.
Good luck to you both..
Hi dear i can totally understand your girlfriend...im 22 and im an asexual and i was so upset and thought that there was something wrong with me but my partner was around and helped...maybe your gf is asexual which means that human dont turn her on...but maybe cartoons, flowers might help...
She's definitely right on the dirty front. Maybe not the other though.
Sounds like a puritanical upbringing. Difficult to break childhood conditioning.
A relationship between two people with different sex drives rarely lasts. I'm amazed you've been together ten years.
Perhaps she was abused as a child. If so she needs counseling and compassion.
10 years? And you are only NOW realizing ';there MAY be a problem';?!!!
Sounds like B/S to me.
Marry her and she might not find it to be so dirty.
Get out. She's only a gf, and after 10 years if it;s this bad just move on.
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