I need to know why I can't seem to get a girl often and why when I do it never works out for more than a few weeks. I'm a really nice guy and my friends think so to. I have certain morals that I live by that people seem to love about me. But for some reason there always seems to be snags that I hit. Can I get some advice??Can the girls out there give me some relationship advice?
There seems to be a contradiction of advice as to whether being nice is good or bad. As with anything else, the answer is moderation.
Nobody likes a pushover and girls often lose attraction for a guy who becomes a whimp in a relationship. However, that does not mean to be mean or abusive.
If you are in fact able to attract the girls initially and lose them after a few weeks, I often find that the person's problem is that they are no longer a challenge to the girl and have become too nice and submissive.
Should that sound like you, in future relationships remain confident and strong.
My advice is adequately supported in the beginning of the following article:
http://www.becomeatrueman.com/relationsh鈥?/a>
Can the girls out there give me some relationship advice?
Without more information on what these ';snags'; are, we probably cannot help you.
But if you pay someone too much attention at first, it can seem smothering. And trying too hard to make someone like you (a.k.a. : being ';nice';) can feel manipulative, and is often a turn off. Maybe you need to be more independent, and more of a challenge at first. Don't spend all of your free time with her, but spend some time with your other friends.
Because you haven't found any girl good enough for you. it's not you, it's them. Aha. Well just be patient and try not to be shy. Be confident and be unique.
I do. :P There should be more nice guys out there. Not just guys who want sex.
do some research look at your past relationships and dont be afraid to ask questions
we do not like you guys to be to nice
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