I need some relationship advice - male and female please?

ok so I've thought i was gay for a 4 years but not im thinking am i bi? A really nice girl has asked me out but i don't want to say yes and then brake up because i realise that im fully gay. Is it bad to be bi? Any advice would be much appreciated.I need some relationship advice - male and female please?
its NOTbad to be bi well in my opinion


your attracted to both genders you cant help it





as for going out with that girl


well you could go out with her but there will be that risk - no one knows who your attracted to but you so yer its probably a risk you gonna have to take if you want to know for sure. If you wanted you could tell the girl that your not sure of your sexual orentation so she could expect something like that to happen I dont know if she would still want to go out with you then but yer =S





I hope you figure it out =D


sorry i couldn't be of more helpI need some relationship advice - male and female please?
No its not bad to be bi... Why would it be? =)





Coming from my point of view, and I'm straight so I don't have any experience with this sort of thing. But thinking about it logically. Tell this girl how you feel before you say yes so she can have a little more undertstanding of what to expect. Tell her that you like her but you might be a little confused at the moment and that you can't promise anything to begin with because you don't exactly know yourself.





I don't think its a bad thing to be bi, but in order to find out whether you are truly gay would be to try and see if a relationship with a girl works out or not. It might help you understand a little better who you are and maybe who you aren't.





If that makes sense... I was trying to phrase it in a way that wouldn't cause offence to anyone and that would be understandable!





Hope it all works out for you!
It sounds as though you are still unsure of your sexuality and so you should go out with girls to see one way or the other


You are obviously a decent guy so you could possible say up front that you thought you were gay but find yourself attracted to her , or else give it a couple of dates and see how you feel . If you are still attracted that would suggest that you are probably bi and not gay . If you are not attracted and I mean physically then you are probably gay and you should then break off in the early stages and just date other guys
Now let's try to get some sanity into this situation. Everyone has feelings of attraction towards others of both sexes. Sometimes it is a feeling of 'being on the same wavelength', enjoying each others' points of view or just plain being comfortable in each others' company. For some, these feelings cause concern about sexual orientation and they try to put themselves, or others, into a particular box. Must you have feelings of guilt for being aware of a love for another person, just because that person happens to be of the same gender as you? Of course not. However, 'having feelings for' and 'having sexual desires for' are two very different things - and you're the only one who can measure the difference.





With regard to the girl who has asked you out, if you like her company say ';Yes';. Enjoy being with her, have fun, be happy, but don't do it under a cloud of doubt about your own sexuality. Don't fret about what might happen - love has its own way of determining that!!
Listen you cant force yourself to be Bi! If you dont like girls at all then you need to tell her your not interested so you dont hurt her feelings in the long run. Plus you will make yourself very unhappy being in this relationship. Just stick with the guys if thats what you want its okay. You got to take into consideration your feelings and hers.
Nothing wrong with being bi. It's just another part of the human sexuality spectrum. You may get a lot of flak for being bi: some stupid argument about ';not being able to make up your mind.'; IMHO, being bi means the sex of the person doesn't matter; you're focusing more on WHO they are rather than WHAT they are. That seems more enlightened to me than chasing after specific genitalia.
You sound like your bi, as you know attracted to both sexes. Go out with the girl if you like each other, just because you are bi does NOT make it more likely you will break up with her.
you are feeling flaterd stay with your own kind