What was the best relationship advice you got from Yahoo Answers?

last year i ask a question because i was angry with my husband and had stated something about the women at his job. I cant remember the detail, but anyways a pastor was on yahoo answers that night and gave me a good skoaling about over reacting, he did make a lot of sense and i took his advice.What was the best relationship advice you got from Yahoo Answers?
I've recieved and given a lot of good relationship advice here at Yahoo Answers.. if I had to think back to the best advice ever given to me, it'd have to be...





by mrey1001


December 20, 2007


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Never pretend to be happy. You might think you're doing it for the kids sake, but children can see and sense things. You might think you're keeping your arguing behind closed doors, but what about when you give each other the silent treatment? What about when they notice mommies and daddies are supposed to hug and kiss and call each other hunny... then they see you two calling each other other names and telling each other to ';don't touch me';.





Kids are very intuitive, you can't hide those emotionnal things, they'll pick up on the bad vibes. If it's time to end the relationship, do it. Once the girls are old enough to understand you can explain to them in more detail why you had to end it. ';Staying together just for the kids sake'; is really the furthest from the kids sake you can get. Do what will make you happy and at ease, and in turn your kids will be happier and more comfortable.


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Asker's Rating: Asker's Comment: U are so right. My daughter who just turned 2 yesterday, said ';daddy's mad at mommy'; while I was feeding her breakfast. and we hadnt even argued yet that day. She had remembered it from the previous night. She also says get off of me damnit, whenever he tries to hug her... again, sees me doing this.








This was by far the best advice given to me..Since then I made a decision that I would leave him. No matter how difficult it may be, how long it might take.. I will devise a plan, save, and leave him. I even put my plan on paper, helps me to see it in writing and budget till that time comes.What was the best relationship advice you got from Yahoo Answers?
I do not recall any great advice. I did get some really bad advice which reinforced that I should be making my own decsions and not rely on what others think. I like YA because it allows me to vent when I dont want to get my friends involved in my relationship.;
Think of your kids future and welfare instead of your relationship.
I've never asked a question on YA but I see a lot of good answers while responding to others questions.
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Don't get caught phucking your ladys' sister.